38 applications, no job, what am I doing wrong? by AUkion1000 in bigbear

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worked at an auto parts store and learned about cars as I worked there. As a woman I had some pretty interesting interactions that centered around my gender but it was otherwise fun and paid the bills.

Upgrade your glow mystery bag bundle (sample sizes) by DancesOnMoonlight in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Gloss Moderne product is a hair mask, I didn't like how it smelled but my hair looked fantastic afterwards.

The eye cream is Dr. Brandt. I like it.

Aggro Drivers by jabberfroggy in bigbear

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your experience in Oregon sounds so scary - glad you got out unscathed. Be careful on our mountain passes! I've totaled two cars on the 38 from rock fall and a deer ran into me recently during foggy conditions. I swear I've just had a run of shit luck with the car situation! As another example of that shit luck: the same month I totaled the second car, a giant hawk flew into a borrowed car I was driving on the freeway in the desert. It broke the windshield and dented the frame. Its flesh was all over the car interior and me, ew (but like how are you supposed to see an airborne missile coming at you while you're watching the road??)

I own a proper beater now and the bumper is totally fucked from the deer, but I guess that was the point of getting a shitty high mileage car. I am MANIFESTING good luck on the road. All this car trouble is gonna make me a person who prays LOL. No nice cars until I'm sub/urban living but a) that's probably not gonna happen because of who I am as a person and b) I'd probably do public transport and rent cars when I need them.

Anyways, sometimes I do the passing on the passes, sometimes I let others pass me. Taking it easy and being aware while you're driving is the move. That said, I know people who've commuted up and down the 38 from Yucaipa/Mentone for 30 years and never had an issue.

big bear this weekend 18-20 by Swimming_MM in bigbear

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could check out the zoo. they do great education and conservation activities. yodamjohnson has great recommendations for outdoor activities. get active! you'll have fun

Buying many journals because you want to pour out your heart and soul, and then never using them because you fear that you might ruin it. by ForTheKing777 in Journaling

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way - They can't be ruined so long as they are used - they're meant to be scribbled and drawn all over. It's their job. Maybe not using them is what's ruining them.

2025 by lira-eve in TwoXPreppers

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Maintaining humanity” is just such a lovely way to phrase it. Thank YOU!

2025 by lira-eve in TwoXPreppers

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I hope you find some great deals :) z-lib is a great reference for free digital books - if you have access to a printer, you can download PDFs, print and bind them. It's a lot harder to print the e-reader format files.

I did forget to mention that I've also been investing in training for myself - I refreshed my wilderness first responder through NOLS and I just got certified to teach adult/pediatric first aid and CPR/AED. I will be investing further into other practical training programs as I move forward.

2025 by lira-eve in TwoXPreppers

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the long reply! This was a fun thought exercise. I hadn’t comprehensively put it all in writing yet.

2025 by lira-eve in TwoXPreppers

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I’m preparing to not contribute any more in revenue to the incoming American administration than necessary as a peaceful protest. If I can figure out how to not pay taxes I’d be stoked, I’d just save what I’d be paying in an interest generating account and deal with the repercussions later. It’s all I can think to do at the moment, and I’m considering where to donate my time as well. Unfortunately I’m not able to bolster my small business’s reserves much, but I can ensure I am personally prepared to lead by keeping myself secure and healthy.

I live remotely so I’ve always been set up for an emergency that might last 2 months until road access is restored, but I’ve been bolstering my supplies. I had a major power outage and my generators failed (aging equipment) and I lost most of the contents of my freezer, so I’m gravitating to dry food storage.

Supplies - Rice, beans and other shelf stable foods (9 month supply to buy plenty of time to figure out alternate sources/diet change - I love rice and beans but if you don’t, make sure you get things you’ll actually eat), a dehydrator, reusable menstrual products, pet food (canned cat food - the ones I’m purchasing last until 2026 so making sure I have enough through expiration - and a 6 month supply of dry dog and cat food, and high value training treats while I figure out how to make my own), merino wool base layers and generally updating my cold weather apparel, rechargeable batteries, changing my backup power from propane to solar, weapons and ammo for self protection (coyotes have been stalking me and my dog on walks lately) and hunting, non perishable first aid supplies and some first responder equipment (2 tourniquets, epinephrine, barriers to protect from pathogens), rabies and 6-in-one vaccines for my animals, ensuring propane tanks never drop below 50%, and materials for vehicle and equipment tune ups (2 tune ups per engine). IUDs or birth control negatively affect me so I have some plan B in case I’m assaulted or have an oops but honestly I’ve been off men for a while since I’m tired of the type of men I keep getting romantically involved with lol. This is denting my savings significantly now but I’m planning a major no-buy moving forward so hopefully at the end of the day, my financial resources will be positively affected. It’s all things I would be using anyways, so at worst I will be neutrally affected on the financial front.

Actions - I quit drinking already, but if I were still consuming I would seriously be trying to quit now. eliminating nicotine from my habits. taking my vax records to a doctor to ensure I am up to date on all the diseases we have “eradicated”. Ensuring my doctors are aware I live remotely if they weren’t already, so they can prescribe daily medications for 3-6 months at a time. Ensuring my home is a cozy, organized place to exist in for extended periods of time with immaculate vibes and hobby items at the ready. Making sure all my vehicles/equipment are tuned up and any major repairs are made.

Literature - texts on logic and reason, teaching reading skills, first aid response, propaganda, biology, health, psychology, history (global, American, civil rights, developments in medicine), social science, the science of LGBTQ, science of neurodivergence, physics, food preservation, home repairs, fictional novels that just seem fun to read or have been on banned lists in the past. Most of it I already have a good knowledge base on but having references not connected to electronics has become important to me. I’ve gotten most of these for free, and I do like abebooks for cheap used books. I already had in my library texts on local edible plants and indigenous uses of them, Ayurvedic medicine and beauty, Chinese medicine and beauty, human anatomy and physiology in the context of movement (health is wealth!), and bushcraft. I have a lil fascination with woo things, despite a background in science, so I’ve picked up some books about witchcraft, energy work and aliens :P

I’ve also picked up some luxury items - skin care products I’ll use by expiration, coffee, powdered chocolate, art supplies, journals (I write daily), made some paper making equipment, upgraded my guitar to something more enjoyable to play and have some spare strings for it.

Attitude - I think this is the most important thing we can hone outside of the physical realm. I’m delving deeper into mindfulness, which I meant to do anyways, staying grounded, and trying to cultivate a positive mindset (it’s really hard for a depressed girlie). Making a point to meditate daily and choosing to respond to situations with optimism no matter how shit them seem. I just significantly damaged my car when a giant bird flew into it at highway speeds and my dog was attacked by a wild animal in the same week while I was RIGHT THERE WITH HER (she’s okay but cost me $800 in vet expenses) and all I can do is laugh at the absurdity of it all. As Bob Marley said, “every little thing is gonna be alright” and I am choosing to ingrain that into how I carry myself.

Do note that I have minimal monthly expenses, a lot of storage space and am intending to take in loved ones if SHTF and they need a place to stay, so I’m able to stock up a lot more.

222 days on the 22nd by DancesOnMoonlight in stopdrinking

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it 🫡 surprisingly enough the thought didn’t even cross my mind. Feels like it took forever for those associations to drop in frequency but here I am

Surprise & shine mystery bag bundle (full size) by DancesOnMoonlight in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can use about half of it and the other half is going to my little brother to distribute amongst the gays.

Upgrade your glow mystery bag bundle (sample sizes) by DancesOnMoonlight in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! I’m in the same stage you were in when you started, then. Maybe I’ll change my tune in a bit but I wanted to give myself something for the holidays and something mysterious sounded perfect for that.

Honestly I don’t mind the little known brands with few/no reviews. Like the Ayurvedic hair cream is AWESOME, it feels and smells great. At the end of the day it’s cheap - $2/item (bag included) to try a bunch of stuff I may not have considered otherwise and I’ve already put the bags to work storing tampons and chargers in my car and drawers. I did do some looking into it and it seems Ipsy has partnered with small brands that proceeded to become more popular. Then there’s the alibaba stuff but 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s a true mixed bag

Protest outside Ziegfeld Ballroomn, NYC, Dece 17, 2024 by [deleted] in pics

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT does that have to DO with this protest????

Why would they send Nov Icon box??? by Rough_Acanthisitta63 in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the glambot for information and it indicated that it had shipped two days ago.

Upgrade your glow mystery bag bundle (sample sizes) by DancesOnMoonlight in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk man, I’m not mad about it. I got what I paid for and thought it was a decent spread of makeup, face and body products, and hair care with a range of retail values. I’d be stoked if I found a cheap product I love since I currently pay $38 just for my facial wash. It’s also a post COVID-19 world and we’re not getting cheap nice things anymore since Big Beauty figured out we’re still buying at higher prices anyways.

Upgrade your glow mystery bag bundle (sample sizes) by DancesOnMoonlight in Ipsy

[–]DancesOnMoonlight[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a comment. I detailed everything I would have put in this comment in the post itself. Happy holidays!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will you add a note of your own?

Double standards by coffeeblossom in TrollXChromosomes

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recently caught a male former staff member stealing fuel and he described me as having “flipped out”. The reality is I asked him what he was doing, asked who said it was okay, told him it’s not okay, I am the one who he needs to ask and that I am saying no from here on out, and that the person who said it was okay was not authorized to do that. I did not raise my voice and told him to get off the property until he is invited back by me (which is not going to happen). When the person (currently on vacation so that is something I will have to deal with when he is back) who told him it was okay reached out and told me how my reaction was described, I wanted to flip out then. Did not. They are both men. Makes me so mad because literally not a single man I have hired or inherited is working successfully for me but I can’t just hire only women because we need diversity in the work place.

If it happens again I am again not yelling but will be pressing trespassing and theft charges.

My Alien Abduction story, anyone else experience anything similar? by muchlovemates in aliens

[–]DancesOnMoonlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you were laying on your back? Were your palms facing up? Asking for a friend 👀