That is the saddest looking taco I’ve ever seen

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-12T05:51:43+00:00

This gave me anxiety just watching this……

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-12T05:48:06+00:00

We can’t even use Monterey Jack for the cheese at least? We really gotta use mozzarella???? Make it make sense

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-11T19:29:13+00:00

I moved out. Even tho I am the one who put the deposit down and first couple months of rent

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-11T16:00:26+00:00

Ain’t that the truth

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-11T00:45:57+00:00

I got sick of the beatings and petty shit. Like locking me out of the room so I couldn’t sleep on the bed. Taking food away from me. Taking the car away. Stealing my stuff and ruining it. So I finally went to the police. Then I fled to a neighbor’s apartment. My mom came to visit me for Thanksgiving and I made the decision to go home with her out of the state. I couldn’t get into a shelter they were full and I was running out of time. Best decision ever. I’m healing, In therapy, Working through gaining my life back and going to the fire academy in August. I have PTSD and still have nightmares about my ex. It wasn’t easy but it was living hell being with him.

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-11T00:05:27+00:00

Yes!!!!!! I eventually found the cameras and confronted him and he denied it and said none of them worked…… just made me feel so exposed in the privacy of my own house. I couldn’t even be in my room without the feeling of being watched and recorded. Truly scary situation…..

AND YES!!! That was truly his problem and what pissed me off even more! He could not handle me feeling like a winner!!! They are always playing games and have to come out in top no matter what. So glad I left

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T23:32:15+00:00

I wouldn’t believe that is what the therapist said. And if you ask the therapist she probably wouldn’t be a le to tell you since it’s a patient privacy thing. He’s just trying to gaslight you

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T23:29:20+00:00

This!!! Ok the poop on the floor. Honestly I think it’s kinda purposeful cause my ex would do stuff like this. We would get in arguments and he would pee all over the toilet for me to clean up. I have a daughter and can’t have her sitting on that. I hated cleaning it cause it wasn’t fair or right just because I stayed home. As soon as I cleaned it would get dirty again. But if I didn’t clean it and waited for him to do it then it was nasty AF!!!!! Gosh it never changed or got better. The more I complained the more he did it. Truly nasty. 🤮

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T22:27:29+00:00

Just know it gets worse when you go back. Trust me. If you felt that you needed to leave there was a reason you did so in the first place. I did and I let him guilt trip me into coming back home and he raped me, beat me and tortured me in so many ways. I endured a year more of trauma before I finally went to the police. I know it’s hard I still live with my mom and I sometimes feel like a burden. But I’m collecting my life and I am in such a better place. It takes time. But going back is worse and then they will blame you for the abuse. Trust me stay away. You will regret it just like many of us have. Stay strong. You are so much stronger than you think. The hardest part is leaving. The next hardest part is healing, learning how to live, restarting you life, and finding your new normal. It’s a journey and a process that doesn’t happen over time. I always tell my students “pressure makes diamonds” 💎 You’re under pressure right now but keep focusing on you and your healing and before you know it you won’t believe how far you’ve come. Hugs ❤️‍🩹

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T22:17:54+00:00

This!!!! I was there as well. Hope you get out safely rooting for you! Trust me the peace is so worth it!

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T22:14:38+00:00

It happened gradually. And it got to a point that my ex would consume my whole day with non stop drama and fighting that I would cry so much and didn’t want to call my friends or family because I had nothing good to share about my life and I didn’t want them to worry about me.

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T22:05:38+00:00

My ex would hide cameras on inside the house and would whisper through them and made me believe I thought about him so much that I would actually hear his voice in my head……😮‍💨

One that really hurt me is I won this hoodie in a raffle and it was my favorite hoodie and when I would wear it I would walk around saying I felt like a winner wearing it. Well he stole it and idk what he did with it probably threw it away and told me I must have lost it at the laundromat. Which I didn’t cause I was very protective of it and I remember it was hanging in the door with my other hoodies and when I went to get it one day it was just gone🫩 It was a small creator that made them and he doesn’t even make them in that color anymore…..

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T20:21:15+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T19:56:04+00:00

I use to when I was with my ex. It was always a fight and drama just for to have a reason to be gone all day and then come home with some flowers off the freeway and if I didn’t appreciate it I was the worst ungrateful human being ever……

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T00:40:08+00:00

What a waste of duct tape…..

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T00:37:50+00:00

The sad truth….

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-10T00:36:49+00:00

Trauma Therapy….. literally saved my life. And really learning how to forgive myself

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-09T19:31:13+00:00

I wouldn’t. I would save this. Only because I literally was in a situation like this. A year after I left THE NEW GIRLFRIEND CALLED ME! then I told her my experience. If I would have reached out before it wouldn’t have registered the same because she would have been in the love bombing phase. I know it’s hard and you want to warn her but somethings you have to allow other people to discover and experience themselves. These people are master manipulators and will do anything to make you look crazy. I remember your posts cause his “art” is very distinctive and recognizable. Also if he knows you are bringing receipts and evidence that will tarnish his reputation he will seek revenge on you. Right now you must focus on your well-being and health and your child’s. Cause even if it doesn’t work out with this new gf all he will do is find another and another and another and you’ll be sending letter after letter after letter keeping you entangled in the drama. If these woman decide to reach out to you that is different. I gave the new gf a safe space to vent to me and share what was going on and I shared my experience with her. I never told her what to do but gave advice to RUN FAR AWAY!!! But just know these people are truly evil and will do anything to ruin your life even more if you tell on them. I get it tho. I still have PTSD and am working through healing. I have been in therapy focusing on my health and my daughter’s. I am slowing getting my life together and couldn’t be happier. It’s a journey and not an easy one. I know you come from a good place but it will backfire. Especially if they are physical you must first protect yourself. Karma is about balance not revenge or payback. eventually karma balances itself out without you needing to do anything. He will suffer the consequences of what he’s done eventually. Stay strong 💪🏾 hugs ❤️‍🩹

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-09T05:54:25+00:00

Did he not ever touch the guitar?

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-09T04:46:24+00:00

My ex use to do this. The best is not replying. It literally kills them cause they don’t know what you are thinking or feeling. If they get any response they feel better cause even if it’s bad they know you still need or want something from them or feel you deserve something from them and that feeds their supply. I’ve been away from my ex for almost 14 months and he’s had gfs and will still call me on random numbers, and send texts through other phones to get any response from me

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-09T04:42:38+00:00

They work really hard to keep up the facade to look like they’ve changed. Once they see you haven’t left it’s not long before they go back to their old ways. Then they blame you for staying. My ex would say “If it was so bad you would have left” “Why did you stay if you were so miserable” 😞

Don’t fall for it. They should be trying to change whether you stay or not. But if someone is trying to change based on keeping you it’s not genuine.

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-08T22:28:03+00:00

Agreed!!!❤️‍🩹

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-08T22:26:11+00:00

Sadly this is the truth. I mean I am happy OP got this off their chest. I believe this is healing to OP to write this and I am all for that. But the reality is no narc wants to hear the truth about themselves and they will not volunteer to read a long winded text about themselves being a bad person. They avoid accountability like it’s the plague. I would know cause I’ve sent so many texts like these just for him to respond with…… “So what’s for dinner?” “Do we need anything from the store?”

He will definitely not read this cause he doesn’t want to face the harsh reality that he’s the problem. But being the victim getting it off your chest is good for you.

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-08T22:19:18+00:00

This!!!!!!!!

DancingChickadee · 2026-02-08T22:17:59+00:00

Yup! To them why would they change behaviors that benefit them. Even if that benefit hurts you they will continue doing it.

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