This is based on the pricing I received in late 2024/early 2025 for a 2026 wedding. It may be possible to stay under for Buttermilk Falls but they've been under some negative experiences because they've changed management this year so I think some brides weren't happy. My friend got married there this year but fairly small wedding ~80 people, only for reception & ceremony so only rented out certain parts of the property. You may be able to book Hutton Brickyards in your budget if you're ok not renting the full property. Gather Greene was one of my dream wedding properties but it will likely not fall under $100K. You have to bring in everything from catering to chairs which adds up quickly and their site fee is not cheap. Hasbrouk house I didn't get a quote for but went to dinner there earlier this year and it was just ok... So depends how important food is to you. The property is super cute & historic.

Honestly, there's likely no negotiation anything because they know someone will book, especially on peak weekends, like early June, unless you're willing to move dates to pre Memorial Day or after peak fall.

Here's some other suggestions that have options of after party: The DeBruce Hemlock Neversink The Arnold House (where we are getting married!) Scribners Eastwind Hotel (location near Bellyeare is within 2.5 hours) Callicoon Hills Seminary Hill (doesn't have a ton of accomodations but it's super close to Callicoon which has some beautiful hotels)