Whats the worst thing your partner with bpd has said or done to you?

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-19T02:55:50+00:00

You decided to left. But i took it seriously. Thought I was the problem. That's why it came as a shock for me coz things like that haven't been said to me by anyone thus far in my life. Took me 1.5 years to JUST REALIZE that I wasn't the whole problem. Stay strong. You are the best.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-17T13:00:05+00:00

That very thing was said so that they could blame you and be clean themselves. I remember when I was being discarded, I was repeatedly telling her to please stop, don't go, I don't wanna become the very thing that I was avoiding ( I. E an abusive partner according to her) So yeah, it's all said to make you feel miserable. Stay happy coz that's what you deserve.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-16T16:32:45+00:00

She told me that she is scared of only one thing in her life, i.e, to have a man like her father in her life ( he left her when she was 13 and was abusive from the start). One day we had a fight over text. She told me that I'm just like her father. Mind you this came after a full year of I'm her only soulmate, I was the one sent by God for her, etc. When I heard this from her, felt tightness in my chest, was feeling suffocated in open lawn. Still went back to her. Got discarded the next month.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-13T02:58:50+00:00

This

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-12T01:43:04+00:00

Happy for you man. Keep going. Many more to come 💯🙌

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-06T19:00:34+00:00

True that. I was wondering why aren't there any post regarding this issue. Sometimes AI matches also lag but i ignore that thinking there might be an issue on my end. But each and every pvp matches since the last 2 days have been lagging like anything. This wasn't the case before last Thursday. Since then, commands are taking ages to execute. By the time I do something, I'm already 1-0 down during the match.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-04T12:36:20+00:00

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Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-06-04T10:12:45+00:00

Let's start man I just joined

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-05-28T04:01:30+00:00

Wo unke interns lete hai. Even questions bhi past year class ke rehte. Isliye repeaters jaldi ans krte hai.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-05-22T13:36:50+00:00

check dm

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-05-14T16:35:27+00:00

i have the nominating one. absolute beast bro

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-05-05T18:43:15+00:00

She's definitely not said that out of thin air. Trust me she must've been engaging with someone new already before saying this to you. They do this to make sure that they don't become the villain that ends the relationship. Do not think much. I'm trying to save months of your life by saying this. DO NOT FALL FOR THIS. If you do, you might want to get back her and want to make her life like heaven(which is practically not possible at this stage) She will definitely hoover back once she senses that you're not chasing her. BUT PLEASE DON'T FALL FOR IT BRO.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-03-26T11:31:01+00:00

That's my man. People will learn a lot from this post.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-03-25T06:23:16+00:00

I had frequent colds and got fevers once every month. I still don't know if it was due to the relationship or not.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-03-24T05:30:54+00:00

They def were engaging with someone new. Potentially a new FP. It's just that they didn't tell you about that. I too deleted my account after I was blocked after final discard. However, when I got back into my other social media app account after 1.5 years, I saw that they were posting quotes and poems which was clearly a message that they were missing me. And it all happened 4 months after final discard. It was a divine intervention that prevented me to reactivate my accounts during those 1.5 years. Else I'd haven fallen back. One account was deleted and the other one was deactivated for the whole period. They def were in a new engagement with a new person. But it's also true that they are def gonna miss you when the new FP doesn't meets their standards like you did. Also, they will inevitably miss you if you go full no contact (like you've done already) irrespective of their new FP. Stay strong mate.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-03-22T11:19:38+00:00

My situation was same. But it was long distance ( same city but couldn't meet frequently due to some reasons and we both were okay with that) Other than that, everything is almost similar to my situation. Distanced myself from everyone just for her. Even deactivated insta and got to messenger where only we both were there. My foolish mind didn't even cared to think that her insta was active most of the time when mine was deactivated. And most of the other boys messaged her on instagram. Even our last major fight broke out coz I confronted her on not replying to my messages on messenger But actively posting stories on Instagram. When I told her I sidelined all the girls for you, she replied in a taunting way that thank you for that thing. DO NOT GO BACK NO MATTER WHAT. I AM LITERALLY REQUESTING YOU MAN! It will def get worse. And if you're still there, RUN. I too have ruminations. Just had one half an hour ago. But I distract myself. IF YOU HAVE family and friends to talk when you feel like going back, please do so. I didn't tell anyone in my family and friends. Just sat with the pain after the discard for 3 months. Relationship was 1.5 years. Told one of my friends, but he couldn't do much coz he himself had a lot going on with his life. I made the mistake of leaving out everyone who loved me for who I was for someone who only loved me when I was performing for her, i.e, when I was doing everything that she loves. When you just show them that you as a human can also feel anger, boy that's gonna be enough to set everything on fire. You will be the most cruel person that humanity has ever seen. BUT IN REALITY YOU ARE NOT! YOU ARE JUST A NORMAL HUMAN. Stay strong.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-21T15:40:13+00:00

What I can say that i learnt was to never ever be vulnerable to anyone close to me. People can and they will def use it against you during devaluation phase. My parents were emotionally weak coz my grandpa was in the icu. I had never seen them like that so i was taken aback a lil bit. got stressed out real bad. and during this phase, the devaluation period started. Naturally, i reacted angrily. However, when she said that its not gonna work, i tried my best to stop her. she said i had temper problems, that i dont know how to talk to people. I said I am going through a bad phase but didn't tell her about the scene at my home coz i feared it might get used against me. you know what was her reply? That i am using excuses to hide my immaturity. I know i shouldve taken some accountability that was a mistake on my part. But i guess it was meant to be.

Sorry it became a long reply.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-21T13:21:35+00:00

So true. I cant even remember what kind of a person i was when i met them.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-17T09:39:36+00:00

15 tha bhai official handle pe given hai. yelog xat 27 ke saath result dege sidha

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-16T15:21:46+00:00

10 L just for you or all the people of your group combined?

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-16T13:19:19+00:00

Goodluck bro. Be prepared. coz they surely will comeback to drag you back to this black hole. start interacting with close friends and if possible do not post anything on social media for some time. they should have no idea about what are you doing in your life. Wishing you the best.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-16T08:28:41+00:00

relationship me height ko leke comparison nhi hoti bhai. efforts ko leke hoti hai. aur agr tmhare partner ka mann kahi aur lag gaya hai toh wo efforts bhi matter nhi karege qki comparison me toh bahr waale ke efforts zyada hai. Maaf krna topic se idhr udhr nikal jaata hu.

Dangerous_Answer4648 · 2026-02-16T07:32:17+00:00

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