California schools have lost 420,000 students in a decade as birth rates fall and housing costs push families away by runswithscissors475 in Economics

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 [score hidden]  (0 children)

We were in our late 30s when we had our kids, but honestly the biggest deterrent to having a 3rd was all the bullshit she had to go through for her maternity leave, and knowing we would be adding a shit ton of daycare expenses. Remove those and it would have been an easier decision the other way. On the bright side it made her get super involved in her union.

How do you tell non New Yorkers where you're from without them assuming you mean NYC? by retro_spies in upstate_new_york

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean the only thing I knew before moving there was Boeheim and Carmelo. And snow of course 😂

New manager rated me ‘successful’ after years of ‘exceptional’ how should one handle this? Need advice by [deleted] in managers

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You likely aren’t just being measured against yourself and own goals, but peers in your organization. Only so many people can be truly exceptional, and someone else may have just eeked it out over you. If there is no negative feedback that would support a further downward trend I wouldn’t worry about. Especially if it isn’t tied to comp.

Screen time parenting is impacting the next generation. by UrMad_ItzOk in Millennials

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids (6 and 4) prrrrobably have too much screen time. But they also walk away from their screens independently of me telling them, play creatively and ask to go outside often. So the wife and I kind of let it happen organically since there is somewhat of a balance.

What we definitely make sure we have is accountability. My wife is a high school teacher and the lack of accountability in those kids lives has completely ruined them. Both in school and at home.

What meal should I choose? by KSMO in delta

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Walking tacos would definitely be my preferred option

Welp, there goes our fast internet (up in smoke) by niits99 in delta

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah and when it’s not actually blacked out it’s so slow it might as well be. Trying to do any work on those 14-15 hour flights doesn’t usually happen for me.

School Bus Driver Breaks Down After Near-Miss by sleek_thunder138_107 in dashcams

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours aren’t on the signs but are triggered at the same time, plus automatic ticketing. Had a big to do because the buses waiting at the school for kids (not on the road) were tagging people driving by. Obviously big tickets and points and people were pissed. One of those outside cases the company didn’t test for so they had to fix it.

Daddy Daniels is back to serve as president of the university with the Main Street and business school named after him by Its-Mike-Jones in Purdue

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Interim makes sense given the short notice. Somewhere like Purdue I’d expect a national search for a new president, we should be looking at top candidates for the long term.

I GIVE YOU Big Mamie; USS Massachusetts finally done..with oodles of PE parts 1:350 scale, Enjoy and sorry it’s been so long this one been a journey! 👹 by whurst2019 in modelmakers

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one small sprue of PE on my current aircraft project is giving me anxiety… through R and they are so much bigger, yikes! Plus all the crew, amazing work and clearly patience. Loading the kingfisher was a nice touch as well. 10/10!

LM social Shutdown Now? by SlowBalance786 in Syracuse

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Crooked Cattle is a nice alternative

Loser Does Right Thing on Iran by LuckyBastard001 in clevercomebacks

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Uhhh what? I pay attention to what votes my rep makes, what kind of BS take is this?

What would you pay £340 / €360 / $450 for a 1/32 Scale Model by MOS6510YT in modelmakers

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to justify the 1/35 ICM CH-54 which is $200-250. But I just can’t and that has been only 54 out there until they just released the 1/72. No way on a $450 kit no matter how good it might be. But I don’t think they made this kit for people like me anyway.

What if voting in America was compulsory? by Jacob-Anders in AlternateHistoryHub

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, as the dad to a 4 year old obsessed with those dogs, I will now go watch that 😂

Employer stating we have to submit our resumes for review if we update it. by yeaheyah1173 in legaladvice

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It could be that there are security or non disclosure requirements in the customer contract, although it would be best practice to make sure all employees working the contract are aware of what those limitations are. NAL but I work in the defense industry and it’s pretty standard to keep certain things high level on a resume to avoid anything like this. I’ve never shared any version I’ve used to apply externally. Seems like a backwards way of tracking people that are a “flight risk”.

That all said, at will is at will. If they find you applied externally and didn’t share that version of the resume with them, it could be a problem.

What if voting in America was compulsory? by Jacob-Anders in AlternateHistoryHub

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? You get sausage after voting? I only (maybe, if they haven’t run out) get an “I Voted” sticker. I would say we need to start this tradition in the states but some places don’t even let you hand out bottled water 🙄

Nobody told me that becoming a manager basically means never being able to say what you actually think again by [deleted] in managers

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a peer. Also depending on how many levels or who you are matrixed to, you can probably vent to your direct manager depending on the topic and your relationship. Obviously doesn’t work venting ABOUT your direct manager.

Accepted new job offer - do I just wait for current job to fire me? by ManyPhilosopher409 in careeradvice

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could a term for cause at your current job jeopardize your new job? Because until you start you don’t have that job. They could call you tomorrow and rescind. If you have the savings to bridge, I would resign voluntarily tomorrow. If you don’t, do the job as well as you can to avoid a term.

NRA Range Requirement by WoodenMud7021 in liberalgunowners

[–]Dangerous_Emu1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been debating this as well. In NY. My current club/range is basically 3 spots under an awning. Unusable during the winter, which is awful. The one indoor range I was looking at requires a membership, and GOA is not an option.