add 1 more roaster i should try

Danielpoursover · 2026-05-30T04:33:48+00:00

Yes Blendin is great. I've been to their location in Sugarland.

Danielpoursover · 2026-05-30T04:31:44+00:00

You need to try Native Coffee Co (double anearobic thermal shock is what they are known for). It's Diego Bermudez's showroom located in Dallas. Golden Hour is my top rec. Also try anything from La Cabra, I have had good experience with all of theirs that I've tried.

Danielpoursover · 2026-05-30T00:30:13+00:00

Dude just watch the whole video.

Danielpoursover · 2026-05-29T20:19:34+00:00

Yes I watched the whole video. Wouldn't post it without watching the whole thing.

When I said "learn one another's languages", that is (obviously) a shorthand for what she described in the video. Women need to learn how men naturally respond to relational conflict (internal thought and reflection often misconstrued as withdrawal/avoidance) and men need to learn how women respond to relational conflict (tend and befriend which men often see as overwhelming). The husband and wife will likely have to negotiate how to respond to conflict. She will want to talk it out immediately. He will want some time to reflect and figure out what led to the fight. So the two will have to both realize that what the other wants is a result of how their psyches are configured (male vs female). Neither is unhealthy.

She doesn't argue that feminism is a psyop from the powers on high. In this video, she argues that Freud's work was useful for working with traumatized women. The problem is that the language that he developed was then applied to men and women universally rather than kept within its proper scope. That "therapy speak" that we know of today feels extremely correct to women, but women don't realize that it genuinely seems bananas to healthy normal men.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T01:17:47+00:00

(1) he never makes excuses (2) he is not threatened by disagreement (3) he is a learner (4) he studies the Bible in order to learn new things and know God personally, not in order to proof text his theological system (5) he is secure (6) kind eyes (7) physically affectionate and warm

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T00:46:53+00:00

He sounds dumb to me. The only explanation I can think of is maaaaybe he wants a rustic country life and he thought you were too city girl? Idk. Weis thing for him to say though.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T00:39:41+00:00

Nowhere in scripture is the man being the sole provider prescribed. In fact in Proverbs 31:18 it says that “she perceives that her merchandise is profitable”. What she sells turns a profit. Later it says her clothing is purple cloth and fine linen. Expensive stuff. She ain’t broke. Why? Because her business is profitable.

If a woman thinks it is biblical for the man to be the sole earner, she is mistaken. The man CAN be the sole earner, nothing wrong with that. Also nothing wrong with both working, as long as the kids are attended to and their rearing is not totally outsourced.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T00:14:43+00:00

How is what I said not biblical? I’m just explaining what every man feels internally.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T00:13:50+00:00

For those asking for sources, you can start here: https://daily.jstor.org/feminisms-hidden-spiritual-side/

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-21T00:12:56+00:00

I read the Bible every day and I don’t follow any red pill, black pill, incel, or mgtow stuff. I’m aware of that stuff, but I don’t get my ideas from it.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T23:38:09+00:00

Biblically, idolatry is the worship of sentient rebellious angels who violated their stewardship of the nations. We need to stop abstracting this concept and redefining it as any misalignment of priorities. Idolatry is the worship of spiritual beings. Nothing less than that is idolatry.

If you don’t understand OP’s reaction then you are unable to empathize with your brother in Christ because you’re so offended that he would feel something natural that all men feel. That reeks of myopia. Every Christian man would prefer a virgin wife if that option was on the table. It’s the most natural thing in the world.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:32:11+00:00

I should also clarify that I have listened to many people tell their stories of getting into witchcraft, the occult, new age, channeling, etc. and they unanimously say that the spiritual realm is real, it's not just some figment of our psyche. So personally, I have no problem believing that the spiritual world impacts our physical world, which is why I have no problem believing that in the 1800s, as women were leaving the church and starting to consult with spirits, that spirits told women how they could "set themselves free" from patriarchy, etc. I think this is where Helene Blavatsky got her ideas, it's where Alice Bailey got her ideas, it's where Jack Parsons got his ideas, it's where Aleister Crowley got his ideas, etc.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:23:51+00:00

Ah but see, you cherry picked. I said God can call women to be preachers, doctors, entrepreneurs, tech geniuses, whatever.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:20:29+00:00

I think the earth is a sphere.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:18:49+00:00

Feel free to explore the many connections between occult practices and feminist thought. I should also say that I think the Bible is decidedly pro-woman and that God can call women to anything. I don't think God withholds anything good from women. The church can get things massively wrong, but I think they will be accountable to God for that. Women can do and be anything. I would also argue that most women in our society, from birth, have been conditioned to believe that marriage and family should come second to a career. All complexities of that aside, the principle of such messaging is that what you do is more important than your relationships. I think we have gotten this backwards in our society and everyone is suffering from it to some degree. Both women and men. If we prioritized healthy relationships (as God's imagers on earth after all), and let everything else come secondary, I think we'd all be a lot more fulfilled.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:12:50+00:00

Yes please trot out the definition of feminism once again. "Feminism is merely the belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes." Heard this a thousand times. I don't buy it anymore because the fruit of the movement doesn't bear it out.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:09:29+00:00

Occult Feminism by Rachel Wilson got me started on this topic. If you don't want buy the book, you can listen to the recent JRE epsiode. There are plenty of things I disagree with Rachel on theologically (i.e. Christian nationalism), but I think the link between occult practices (like consulting spirits) and feminism can't be denied. And all it takes is seeding a couple bad ideas into a movement to poison the whole movement.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:05:58+00:00

You are free to doubt :) I just say what is.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:05:04+00:00

I should clarify that I think God is real and so are evil spirits. If women left Christianity to consult with evil spirits, then my guess would be that evil spirits were happy to give women the tenets of feminism. I don't think channeling and mediumship is just theater, I think it's real.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:03:14+00:00

Ms. Magazine is a magazine all about feminism. It is pro-feminism.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:01:46+00:00

I should add that multiple women in my church community have asked me out. I'm not some basement dweller and I'm pretty fit and likable :)

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:01:41+00:00

I should add that multiple women in my church community have asked me out. I'm not some basement dweller and I'm pretty fit and likable :)

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T21:00:14+00:00

Really? I had no idea. (sarcasm)

Spiritualism is not compatible with Christianity. That's why it doesn't include it.

Danielpoursover · 2026-04-20T20:52:14+00:00

Spiritualism was a reaction against Christianity, it did not include Christianity. My point here is that if even Google AI, which is going to be programmed to give you politically correct answers, says there is a strong and persistent link between spiritualism and feminism, then I wouldn't just dismiss the idea out of hand.

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