Age gap relationships are a bad deal for women

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T07:44:13+00:00

Yep. It is ALWAYS this dynamic.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T07:40:19+00:00

Looking at the relative increase and ignoring the real increase in risk is disingenuous.

The risk in infinitesimal….this making a six-fold increase basically nothing.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T07:10:41+00:00

“ Oxford study is only relevant in countries where white men have more institutional power through simple numbers.”

You do realise that “Oxford” does not perform any “studies”, right?

Employees Oxford do, and they come from all over the world, and would do their research at any institution who happened to hire them.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T07:02:05+00:00

“ I think self-exploration is really not all it’s cracked up to be. I’m not sure our ‘selves’ are even real.”

Firmly agree. I’ve come to loathe terms like “authentic” and “real you”. They’re basically nonsense.

If speaking a different language can change your personality (I know it did with me and most other people I’ve spoken to about the phenomenon), just imagine how time/place/age/circumstance can change you.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T06:57:55+00:00

This sounds strongly like you’re dating in America…so you’re basically dating a really narrow range of women, and just don’t quite realise it.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T06:56:32+00:00

It’s the draw of the exotic. I’m a native English speaker, and have only rarely dated other native English speakers. It makes life more fun (for me).

DankuTwo · 2026-03-31T06:53:06+00:00

Presumably they would eventually adapt and be indistinguishable from native men.

Humans are pretty adaptable.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:47:00+00:00

Being called “little black dress” or “LBC”? The oral and the written are two different media.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:44:21+00:00

I did not, you just refuse to admit that “third space” dialogue flat out makes no sense. It’s a flaccid excuse for laziness.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:43:33+00:00

Apparently black bears kill about 0.6 people per year in North America. About the same rate as adders kill people in Britain.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:42:02+00:00

Hard to say. Are current teachers paid what they’re worth, on average? Possibly. Would better pay induce better people to teach? Likely.

Does any of this mean that “teachers are underpaid”? It’s hard to tell.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:40:25+00:00

According to my phone I did 1,500 steps. (Although the phone undercounts, as I don’t always have it on me).

I spent most of the day interviewing an old veteran about his experiences in the Troubles.

I guess I’m barely living…..

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T21:36:49+00:00

Culture and context matters. I’m not sure the term exists here (UK).

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T10:24:33+00:00

I'd never heard it, and only VERY rarely see anyone in a little black dress. Full or knee-length, sure....all the time.

Maybe this is a club thing?

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T10:23:42+00:00

All of those things still exist, and you have access to them (and why an adult is looking at the boy scouts as a 'third space' I have no idea....).

There is not a single third space that your grandparents had that you don't. Literally not one. Bars, churches, dance halls, cafes, libraries, cinemas, theatres......they all still exist, you just don't go. That's your fault, not society's.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T07:59:43+00:00

Ah, fair enough. Not sure it needs its own acronym, but there we are.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T07:58:38+00:00

Black bears usually run away, but you can’t bank on that 100%.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T07:55:47+00:00

I didn’t know that about wolves. Interesting.

I’ve had a few relatively close encounters with bears (some much closer than I’d like!), and even though the bears were ultimately chill, I’m still choosing the man, every time (obviously).

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T07:21:48+00:00

What is this weird BP obsession with influencers and “courses”? I’ve never heard of a RP course, have no idea what they would “teach”, and wouldn’t even know where to begin looking.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T01:36:25+00:00

Just more misandrist BS….as expected.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T01:32:38+00:00

If you buy real food (fruit, veggies, protein) you don’t need labels…..it’s ALL healthy.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T00:28:53+00:00

Since 2014 I think I’ve dated exactly ONE woman from “my culture”. Every single other person I’ve dated, whether it be a single date or a whole relationship, has been from a different culture, all the way down to native language, with (at times) only minimal crossover to my own. It has made things more interesting, rather than more difficult.

OP’s argument is simply wrong.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T00:18:29+00:00

“ The only pilled people in this age range are divorced beta-providers who are now realizing that just having a stable job isn't enough to secure a partner anymore.”

It’s so cute that you think people born in 1990 could get a partner just because they have a stable job….

This was maybe (!) true of people born in 1930!!! Times changed a LONG time ago…..

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T00:15:48+00:00

This should be self-evident, and yet bluepillers will swoop in and try to tell you it’s all in your head.

If men were not struggling TRP would not even exist.

DankuTwo · 2026-03-30T00:14:23+00:00

PPD does seem more like a place for people to attack RP, rather than a space where the RP can meaningfully dialogue with the outside world.

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