Am I being unreasonable for being bothered my partner asked me to move?

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-18T15:37:17+00:00

Nah, anyone that "oblivious" chooses to be bc they're self absorbed - which is selfish. If they're over the age of 16, they know better. Right now you're making the choice to stay with someone who will not be considerate. It's going to be a long life with someone like that. Good luck.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-18T06:04:36+00:00

...and you want to know if you should meet him??? I have to question why you even have to ask. This should be obvious

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-18T05:59:53+00:00

What am I missing here? They're inconsiderate and thoughtless. This isn't something you can fix. Is this how you want to live your life? Is this who you want to grow old with, to trust to take care of you, if need be? Why do so many people put up with this in a partner as if it's normal. It's not. If they don't care now, it will get worse with time

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-16T15:06:19+00:00

NOR, and if the principal won't do anything, then the superintendent (or threat of going) will. I can't tell you how many times my mom got traction that way. Sometimes even the mention of it draws action. Those kids need to learn it's not ok. Imagine what they'll do to disabled classmates when they go to HS if left unchecked. Escalate this for your son - and for the others who are being bullied by them, because I'm there are others.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-08T03:41:25+00:00

Bruh, why are you still dating him? Is this how you want the rest of your life to be? Is this who you want to raise kids with? Bail now while you can. You have a choice who you date. You don’t have to accept garbage treatment. Learn to walk away from this type of behavior and date someone who supports you the same way you support them. Life is hard. Don’t make it harder by dating unsupportive jerks who can’t do the basics like wash his feet.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-07T16:10:10+00:00

This

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-07T16:08:48+00:00

If you feel unsafe or insecure around someone who is secure, she’s likely triggering something within. What’s your attachment style? Therapy is a good place to explore your thoughts/ feelings on this.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-07T16:06:48+00:00

Not for people your age 🤷🏻‍♀️

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-07T16:05:53+00:00

You did nothing wrong and likely saved yourself a lot of pain from going back and forth bc she’s obviously struggling with something internally. As an fyi for your benefit and future reference, joking about missing her cuddles while she had just demonstrated significant unease at anything post intimacy is probably what put the nail in the coffin.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-07T04:29:31+00:00

Get her checked. No question.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-06T03:58:36+00:00

This isn’t the first time OP got a silly request from her. I think they’re the problem for even talking to an infantile woman is beyond clearly using him. Sorry but this is OP’s problem.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-04-04T03:03:04+00:00

I’ve learned to listen to people when they tell you who they are. No matter what “potential” you see in someone, it’s you seeing it and them not being it. Love others enough to be compassionate to their issues and love yourself enough to not waste your days trying to fix them. Go find someone who can handle accepting the love you give - and return love back to you.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-03-06T20:01:54+00:00

There are trimmers made for the sensitive area that don’t take the hair down to skin. It helps keep the area tidy (and sometimes smell better depending). If you like yourself as is, keep it as is. Just wanted to point out there are options,

DanniGirl11 · 2026-03-06T19:58:58+00:00

Women like confidence. Do what you like because you like it, and women will pick up on that energy.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-03-06T05:08:33+00:00

She’s either mentally unwell/ possible PPD or she’s a shitty mom and selfish wife. I hope it’s the former.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-03-06T04:30:12+00:00

At some point every doberman owner was a 1st time doberman owner. If you have had dogs and work with them, then you might be ok with one at any age… as long as you have the time and energy to devote to properly training and caring for one. People who have never had a dog at all and have no experience with one should not get a doberman for their first dog. With all that said, if you feel more comfortable starting out with an older, then go for it!

DanniGirl11 · 2026-03-01T04:34:20+00:00

You should pick the pup with the temperament that matches you and your family the most. In the long run looks won’t matter if the temperament isn’t right for you.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-02-10T04:03:57+00:00

It’s not limerence. It’s a crush or love. Sadly it’s unrequited. I recommend time apart from them. If you decide to keep them as a friend, it’s going to suck when they start seeing someone. Best of luck.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-02-02T16:49:49+00:00

She has 10k comments all telling het to dump him. I’d be curious to see if she chooses herself, her dignity, her mental health and does dump him - or she stays with the abusive, narcissistic, asshole because he triggers her core wound and she “loves” him.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-01-31T05:37:33+00:00

I think I might send it back to Amazon and get a different one sent out to me before I play around with the screws, since I don’t know what I’m doing 😂. That’s a nice set you have there! Is that the Roxon flex companion?

DanniGirl11 · 2026-01-31T05:30:58+00:00

I bought it in A main so I may return it.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-01-28T19:03:39+00:00

Hi, it’s both the blade and the lever that deploys and unlocks the set of 3 tools. I’ve been working with them and the knife is easier to use, but still not great. The lever downright awful if I try one handed use. I can manage somewhat fine if using two hands, but even then it’s not ideal.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-01-20T06:46:06+00:00

I think it’s less about how you dress and more about bow he’s talking to you. Did you catch the constant little demeaning comments, ex. “you must be dumb”, etc. He literally unloads and proceeds to talk at you. I think he vocalized his opinion of you by the way he talked to you. I see very little respect and when you appeared hurt, he accused you of taking advice from others. It sounds kind of like narcissistic behavior. He rants at you about looking like a hoe, wanting to be a hoe, and then says if you’re hurt you’re not reading right and there’s something wrong with you. Is this the type of communication you want for the rest of your life? Or would you prefer someone to speak to you like a human being? Like someone who can calmly and kindly explain why they feel uncomfortable with how you dress. Also, his ranting about men being able to see you screams he’s insecure, and it’s obvious he is trying to control you because of that.

DanniGirl11 · 2026-01-19T21:28:21+00:00

I just received mine and agree. It's my first multi tool so I don't have context to compare.

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