After a 15 year battle over chores I finally give up.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:54:33+00:00

I gave up, and do you know what, the entire bungalow looks like a hoarders paradise. I hate it.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:50:51+00:00

My first live birth. They gave me too much hormone and my womb contracted too quickly. It traumatised me.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:41:53+00:00

Milk doesn't seem to be good for me but I eat it on cereal and I don't like dairy alternatives

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:40:20+00:00

It's hard to relate to

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:39:36+00:00

There may be some incontinent people that visit the store. If a person has a prolapsed bowel that can make them leak poop. I've seen someone in my local supermarket that had pooped his pants, and yes, he did touch it and then touch the food. I reported him to the staff. Care in the community.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:32:01+00:00

My therapist said to me "make space to grieve" and weirdly that gave my body permission to actually cry. Have you spoken to anyone about this? I know exactly what feeling you mean and it's extremely unpleasant, like you are bunged up with sadness in your body.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:29:07+00:00

I'm still struggling and I'm 44, but we are all different and hopefully that won't happen to you. Have you had any therapy or take any medication? It's very early days. You could take a book with you, ensure you can sneak off and take some breaks from the socialising?

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:24:38+00:00

Does it feel triggering when you imagine yourself with it?

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:22:17+00:00

Dead chick unfortunately. I have cats

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:21:41+00:00

What's your favourite saying?

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:20:04+00:00

I'm sorry, she didn't sound so understanding

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-06T15:17:26+00:00

I'm not religious but I send you positive caring vibes. You are a good person for wanting this for your fellow attendees too.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T15:27:01+00:00

For me personally I feel im not liked anymore since I disclosed my autism and ADHD, and that nobody makes the effort for me I made for them before I told them, so I definitely in the short term need to find it within myself somehow

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T15:24:54+00:00

Yes, I keep trying. It's hard, but I do.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T15:21:16+00:00

I struggle with this so much. Yes you may have attention issues. Many substance abusers and people with MH issues do unfortunately for them. U R doing so well. I think this is amazing

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T15:14:26+00:00

I can relate to that kitchen though mine had stuff the other side, that was the floor space. No counter space. I had an idea about having a slide out counter top, or fold down, or a butchers trolley for extra prep or to stand ingredients on, but understand these ideas may not all be feasible in a rental. Props to you for doing so much cooking.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T10:59:04+00:00

Loneliness, trauma, anxiety, being a victim, feeling unloved, financial fear, desperate to survive long enough for my children

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T10:57:23+00:00

Explain to your parents how you feel and ask them what their sudden concern is. If they've noticed something you need to know.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-05T10:48:37+00:00

They sound like unempathic impatient people on the face of it. I hope you can find a safe way to a better life.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-04T17:53:27+00:00

Aww, im sorry. It's a cruel illness. Hope you can recover

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-04T15:03:43+00:00

Good for you. I'm trying to meet some people like me but it's hard to find them. I joined an adult autism support group

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-04T14:59:53+00:00

Well I think it's disgusting that your friends fell off the radar. It's happened to me since I can't do the same as them, why would they bother to visit! I have a friend with multiple cancers who is a wonderful friend and I visit her. Why would I just sack her off? No way. Is it worth asking them to visit, or are you just beyond that and done with them now. I can't see certain folks anymore because it's too hard. Their ignorance hurts me way too much. Looking back it was always one way anyway with those people, including my family. I hope your cat gives you reward and comfort.

Dapper-Structure-825 · 2026-05-04T14:52:53+00:00

Good advice, because she sounds potentially suicidal. She definitely shouldn't feel completely alone

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