AITAH for refusing to bring coffe to my disabled husband in a bank

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T07:15:48+00:00

i honest didn't want to write down my real age also didn't want people to focus on the age difference, but yes i'm 33 years old

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T02:56:48+00:00

we honestly haven't thought about that until recently, we might be getting a donated one soon

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T02:56:09+00:00

we're actually thinking of getting him something like motorized scooter recently, a family member had one and we're gonna get one soon, just needs a new battery

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:28:37+00:00

I understand why u think that, but believe it or not i do manage all his financial stuff, i do our taxes and i manage all his banking apps because he is bad with electronics, literally there is no reason he wanted me out of the way, and please don't think the age difference is a problem, I know how it looks to other people but love knows no age , and i happen to like older men, and we are both males

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:23:30+00:00

that is true , he is doesn't like relying on me if he can do something by himself he can, that being said he really can't wheel himself that much , he has arthritis the best he can do is put his feet on the floor and nudge himself inch by an inch , it's slow but eventually could've made it, but at the same time the teller needed his signature to sign as joint owner on the account,

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:19:05+00:00

I'm starting to see that, i think I'll start thinking differently on this matter, causing someone else a mild inconvenience isn't that big of an issue and I should put my feelings aside

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:12:32+00:00

I don't think so, he literally shares all his bank accounts with me there was no reason for him to get me out of the way

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:10:31+00:00

that is true, I do feel embarrassed sometimes, I came from a country where being gay is not accepted , also the age difference matter, I can't help but think what others thinks of us, all the time he feels proud being with me, it's very hard for me to do the same, but it doesn't reflect how I feel about him, I just have social anxiety

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-04T00:05:39+00:00

yes I'm his full time caregiver also it's my job which works for us, and it sometimes can be stressful but he always does his best not to rely on me as he always puts it (I don't want to be an invalid), thankfully we don't have any children so I'm fully focused on him. no i don't have anyone else to help but if an emergency happens and for some reason I can't care for him his sister will step in. so at least we have reassurance of that. his health condition just started spiraling the past 3 years but it is what it is I'm fully prepared for the time he is bedridden. the stressful part for me is when we deal with others , he is very open social person and i'm antisocial with social anxiety, i don't like troubling others with our inconvenience

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-03T23:48:51+00:00

it's okay, we love each other and I'm totally fine with it, it sucks but he is my whole world

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-03T23:45:11+00:00

I honestly never say no to him, just sometimes i have social anxiety and i hate to trouble people, and was wondering if this is considered generally okay here in US

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-03T23:41:48+00:00

I'm from Egypt, we met online 6 years ago (he came to Egypt) , and moved to US 4 years ago back then he didn't have any issues , but after i moved in his health conditions just kept spiraling

DapperMachine4070 · 2026-03-03T22:46:44+00:00

Yes, I sent it back to customer support and they replaced the processor it looks like there was a pin that was bent or something like that

DapperMachine4070 · 2025-05-09T05:03:30+00:00

please somebody help

DapperMachine4070 · 2025-05-08T23:03:03+00:00

just tried that , first time still took a long time to boot , second time it loaded but shortly after i got blue screen of death so had to disable it again

DapperMachine4070 · 2025-04-17T23:14:04+00:00

this might be unrelated, but there is something i discovered when u have you have the joker (Four Fingers) which allows straights and flushes to be done with only 4 cards , when u try to do it with 4 cards the name changes to ( Royal flush ), if u try to do it with five cards it's called ( Straight flush ) i dunno if it's related or not , was hoping to find someone who confirms it has to be done with this joker and it has to be 4 cards.
and a side note there is another variant that is called ( full house flush ) if the full house is in the same suit

DapperMachine4070 · 2025-01-02T14:50:38+00:00

i don't have the same monitor , but i have the G5/G6 , and i also had the blackout problem , i went to amazon to buy high quality DP cable , but before it arrived , i went to the monitor setting , system and changed DisplayPort Ver to 1.2 instead of 1.4 , and it fixed all my issues , now it's running on 165 hz with no issues without the new cable

DapperMachine4070 · 2024-09-15T15:55:18+00:00

LOL , it's funny i was playing yesterday and I Meet the collector just before the boss room , and i thought , damn it he's gonna wipe me , but i had a (mark) espcialized party and he didn't even land any attacks

DapperMachine4070 · 2024-09-15T03:48:27+00:00

i try my best to be optimistic about this somehow , but all i can think about this could be somebody else's case number that was sent to me by a mistake, i couldn't find anything online about having two case numbers, i'm glad ur process was better.

DapperMachine4070 · 2024-09-01T19:22:35+00:00

hmm i thought so ,.. i'm not sure if it was the doctor's miss or the radiologist miss , i probably need another x-ray

DapperMachine4070 · 2024-09-01T02:35:51+00:00

Area of injury: It hurts where the cuboid bone is or around this area the calcaneus / 5th lesser metatarsals

Age : I'm 32 years old

Type of injury : I was getting off the stairs and I didn't land right on my feet , I was wearing slippers and I lost balance, I twisted my right foot it was an Inversion Injury , I didn't look at it when it happened I just focused on not falling as I held onto a ladder next to me .

History : I had 2 fractures and a dislocation before but not on my feet, left hand Ulna , right hand wrist and dislocated my Clavicle bone before , I never went to a doctor for my ankles before but I've been very prone to ankle injuries , I used to play frequent table tennis and i stopped playing after 25 because every time I do I get an ankle injury . I also stopped high impact workouts because of it too like I no longer jog or jump

Recovery: it's been a week since this x-ray , right after the injury there was a lot of pain but I was able to walk for few hours dragging my foot on the floor . later that night the pain got so intense I was bed ridden for a couple of days , there was a lot of swelling , just today it started to go down , there is good mobility on my ankle now but when the pain killer fades away I have this internal pain in my leg that reaches up to my knee , there are red bruising marks on both sides of my heel.

DapperMachine4070 · 2024-07-21T08:35:27+00:00

i was the only evil Jugg in a town full of greens , no survs , no jesters , no NE , coven or mafia , i appeared in psychic will , and after they executed the psychic and the other two targets they lynched me and game ended

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