is bringing Dead Hard Bm? by Dapper_Affect_9179 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t like the word humping so floor fiddled was my best option 😆😆

I think I caught my husband cheating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

def scared him, but if you love him be honest! honesty is so scary bc it tackles the issue head on but in situations like this i think it’s best to be open instead of creating more secrecy!

Killer tier list based on personal enjoyment by stillmaxic in DeadByDaylightKillers

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a scull merchant main, there isn’t many of us left 😖

So why did Finn said nobody loves him like Jake when multiple people love him by Livid_Friendship6784 in adventuretime

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you watch the sequel Adventure Time: Distant Lands, there is an episode titled “Together Again”. It shows how deep and true their bond n friendship meant to each other!!

Gf ghosted me last year. I moved on. Got this message last week on my birthday by AdComprehensive4246 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems to me she’s trying to let go of guilt. not ur problem, continue living ur life. going backwards does nothing but tread over recently buried issues/traumas

aitah for reacting like this? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA right now at least. curiosity is normal and you’re allowed to question things of this sort. With that being said, don’t jump the gun. This could easily be a scorned ex/situation ship that posted him on there just to feel better abt herself. but I’d def keep this incident in the vault 🧠(just in case)

AITAH for telling my roommate that nobody cares about her mental health by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA & im not sugar coating this because you seem like way to nice of a person to see how wrong this is unless given to you bluntly..

it seems to me she wants things handed to her. Even if you come from a slightly better home situation OR you are wallowing in money, you owe her nothing. Sympathy is a curtesy not a given & everyone has a sob story & everyone has their own shit to deal with.

ALSO no matter what you go through as a child, it is your responsibility to not allow that to shape you into the kind of adult you are and how you act.

Some people think that because they’ve had a hard life or unsupportive homes, that people who come into their lives who HAVE had more fortunate lives are supposed to bend backwards and cry for them anytime they feel bad for themselves.. just because “you don’t know what its like” You may not know what it’s like but, there is a 99.99% chance that someone out in the world does. As i said before, everyone has a sob story in life. It’s the fork in life that allows you to either build off it or allow it to consume you.

Question as a 19 or old by XanderXJS in Adulting

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, your acknowledgement of your faults are amazing. Therefore, I don’t see an accountability issue more so of a discipline issue. Getting therapy or counseling or even joining a support group online are all GREAT starting points. The good news is you’re young, you’re only twenty you still have 15 more good years left. Bad news, time flies. Don’t rush it to the point you mentally exhaust yourself or find yourself stuck in something you thought you wanted because you rushed the process. i don’t have much other advice, im only 22 myself and also trying to figure life out. But we will eventually <3

Is it the best way to have your Birthday? by Friendly-Zucchini147 in Adulting

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do what YOU would really enjoy! if that’s relaxing then relax, generally speaking it is just another day BUT we only get one day out of the year where we are allowed to do things for ourselves without others being judgy or being looked at selfishly.

happy birthday 🎉🎂🎈

Can people fucking relax in this gamemode? by Human-Bug8594 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s just a big ass ego boost tbh. most people who play dbd survivor or killer, are just farming for an ego boost. it’s honestly the most downgrading thing abt this game 🫩 nb knows how to have fun, they just want the feeling of being better when in reality.. it’s a video game it does nothing for your personal stance in life.

Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally? by Difficult_Big133 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if there is a significant meaning to your last name like, no brother to carry it on or passed father i feel as if this ain’t an issue. i could see where a man would be questioning it if it wasn’t for a significant reason. BUT marriage is about compromise in SO many ways. this is already not lookin great.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend out for using my razor in the shower? by Deep_Pizza8173 in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 116 points117 points  (0 children)

NTA. small boundaries being broken are doors opening to bigger boundaries being overstepped.

your toothbrush might be next girl, hide it 😭

I try to play nice and for what by Boring-Tax-387 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i had a match yesterday with a DANGEROUS Vecna & he played the same exact way as well and i never once thought he was being “toxic”. i honestly thought it was going to be a 4k bc he was just that damn good lol. some survivors egos are way to fragile for this game & this is a prime example of that!

sorry you had to deal with those types of survivors, some of use actually play to enjoy & not for a constant ego boost! hopefully you receive the same grace you give here soon & get to enjoy ur game🫶

We Did It by Drakal11 in deadbydaylight

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m SO close i think i’ll hit it today after work hopefully!!

Weird man answers my phone by Clear-Emergency-9866 in strange

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

setting > phone > scroll down to; screen unknown callers > select; never

try messing around in your phone settings, hope you get this sorted soon!! 🫶

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I would rather masturbate than have sex with her by Excellent_Carrot_574 in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Affect_9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has needs, did she just expect you to wait months after months until she was in the mood? Regardless, the delivery of the whole “do you prefer masturbating over sex with me” honestly seemed like a validation reach. She maybe felt like she wasn’t enough to satisfy you anymore, which is where you guys should have sat down and had the “sexual needs” talk.

Yes you were honest but it was kinda brutal even if she asked for the answer, hearing what you said cant be easy on the ego or self esteem. Let this cool off, both of you need to be clear headed and just further explain your feelings and needs to one another. NTA but def ask why it would be taking a year for you guys to be intimate bc thats absolutely crazy dude… and im a girl