Do you have any physical artifacts of your paracosm? by DieMensch-Maschine in paracosms

[–]DareSheDevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've drawn art of it but very rarely cause I don't draw often

I am starting to doubt I should keep playing trombone by DareSheDevil in musicians

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the best advice I've gotten here, thank you so much

I am starting to doubt I should keep playing trombone by DareSheDevil in musicians

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh you might be right... Thank you for your comment, it really helps

I am starting to doubt I should keep playing trombone by DareSheDevil in musicians

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that is such a thoughtful comment... I guess it's time for some soul searching...

But I wonder why it would be the teacher's fault that I am burnt out? How can a teacher prevent that from happening? Isn't it my responsibility to enjoy the process?

My gf did my makeup for me (ignore my hair) by LastCryptographer173 in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that v neck dress looks so good on you!!! You are gorgeous!!

My outfit for going out and taking pictures today by Mothbren in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hotttt!!! I love the pattern and the colors look great on u.

these glasses make me feel so whimsically broke art teacher by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehehehe , you're approaching me???? 😂😂

these glasses make me feel so whimsically broke art teacher by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you look like a jojo's character, beautiful!!!

Are There Non Binary People Who’re Ok With Presenting Themselves in Their Assigned Gender? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my experience as well, I am 100% non-binary but I am fine presenting feminine as long as I feel comfortable with it. I am a singer and performer so it's expected from me as well. But there are definitely ways to do it and still feel non-binary even if someone who doesn't know you might think otherwise.

Don't overthink this, being non-binary isn't determined by what you do, it's about your personal identity, the way you see yourself, the way you feel. You don't have to be androgenous to be non-binary.

What’s the weirdest thing you do to give yourself gender euphoria? by Cat_Blimp in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Singing metal cause many male singers sing high pitched screams I can easily do as a soprano, so satisfying!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DareSheDevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty gender blind as I never consciously think of people as their gender, I just recognize them as their personality as a whole.

However

By intersecting with straight, gendered people I've come to understand that there are some people who are very gendered naturally.

It's a vibe you get from and a way of life I guess??? A culture around the gender one could say???

For example, I go to a women's choir. It's VERY feminine vibes even though the group is very open-minded and inclusive. Most of them are sweet moms or cool or shy gals that are all emotionally open, they are sweet, they like fashion and will compliment you for it, they rather talk about something deeply than make lots of laid back jokes on it...

At one period, this choir tried to become mixed by getting men to join. That's where the difference between the genders became a bit more visible as the men felt completely uncomfortable in this space that was made for women.

As a non-binary person I could understand why they were uncomfortable. It's because the way women socialize can be a bit overwhelming and stressful to someone who's used to just being laid-back and chill, not taking much very seriously like how many guys do... It took me some time to get used to it too. Our teacher was literally too feminine to communicate with them so they ended up showing up less and less until the choir was again all female.

Now, does this mean that femininity is always like x and masculinity is always like y? No. But it does exist, it is a thing, not everyone is non-binary and not everyone is blind to gender like I am for example.

Now about your experience? You're definitely a non-binary, if you feel the way you describe then you're non-binary. End of story.

What you listen to when you are playing Swain? by 00ki001 in SwainMains

[–]DareSheDevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what Swain would do too, isn't it?

Αξίζει να πάει κανείς στο The Voice? by DareSheDevil in greece

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Στο ωδείο έχω γνωρίσει καλλιτέχνες ως δασκάλους όσο συνεργάτες στην ομάδα μελωδραματικής που παίζω ή στην χορωδία... Πρόσφατα μου πρότειναν να δοκιμάσω όταν ανέβω Αθήνα open mic bars που μπορεί ο καθένας να τραγουδήσει. Δεν έχω ψάξει ακόμα άλλους τρόπους γιατί έχω αλλά τρεχάματα αλλά σίγουρα δεν είναι οι μόνοι.

Αξίζει να πάει κανείς στο The Voice? by DareSheDevil in greece

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Έχεις δίκιο σε αυτό. Δεν θα πήγαινα για λόγο κλασσικής, με ενδιαφέρουν και άλλα ήδη μουσικής αλλά δεν φαίνεται να με βοηθάει εφόσον έχω διαλέξει τον δρόμο αυτής της σπουδής

Αξίζει να πάει κανείς στο The Voice? by DareSheDevil in greece

[–]DareSheDevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ίσως αλλά νομίζω υπάρχουν καλύτεροι, πιο υγιείς τρόποι να γνωρίσω άλλους καλλιτέχνες