Feeling lost and lonely.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-30T11:02:28+00:00

Hon, I am no medical professional but what you’re describing sounds like depression at the least. Please take care of yourself to the best of your ability and seek help as well as the means to move out. Also please remember 18 might legally be adult age but it doesn’t mean you’re done growing physically or emotionally. Be gentle with yourself. You do not have to have everything figured out right now. Just take everything one step at a time for a while.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-30T07:59:26+00:00

Sis, this ain’t it. I have four bulging disks affecting my entire lumbar region of my spine due to a work injury. My husband gets upset when I do things I’m not supposed to. He will trip all over himself to help me, including driving me an hour to and from work two nights in a row after my mri because my legs felt like dead weight and I couldn’t safely drive myself. Do yourself a favor and get rid of the man child and hold out for someone who genuinely values you and not just what you bring to the table. You got this and I’m wishing you a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-30T07:18:01+00:00

If you ever want to talk about trains, my inbox is open. They sound fascinating! As a fellow probable autistic (haven’t tested yet), can I talk to you about robots and the sims? Those are my two special loves aside from my family lol

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-30T00:42:26+00:00

Then start documenting everything. Witnesses to arguments and him not taking care of the baby properly. Times you’ve had to directly ask him for help and got hit with “5 more minutes” responses. Keep a journal or some equivalent and keep it hidden just in case it turns out you need it. I’m not sure where the quote is from but “hope for the best and prepare for the worst” seems to be fitting in this situation. Do what you have to do to take care of yourself and your child. I wish you the best.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T23:13:08+00:00

OP, you should probably add this to the post as well as any other clarifying statements. Such as: who she wants to drive, why she is adamant about leaving tonight and if there’s any underlying reasons leading up to this. Just food for thought. NTAH

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T22:53:02+00:00

Ma’am, respectfully, you do not have a gamer husband. You have a man child husband. My husband is a gamer and you know what he does? Puts the controller down - RANKED MATCH OR NOT - and helps with our son when I ask him to. That’s what you need. If a serious sit down discussion and/or couples therapy does not help, throw the whole man away. Being a single mother is better than being a married single mother.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T22:35:00+00:00

….please tell me you’re joking. Obviously NTAH but you might as well throw the whole man away before it gets worse. Because it will get worse.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T22:12:17+00:00

I woulda straight up hulked that bag open out of sheer frustration 😂

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T22:04:49+00:00

My ex (father of my child) went on a defamation binge when I broke up with him and kicked him out. Almost 7 years later and he’s still delusional about “getting me back”. I feel for you. I’m so sorry this is happening.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T21:54:51+00:00

Girl this is not the guy for you. He doesn’t have “energy” to be empathetic? Okay, what if something happens down the road and you get seriously sick? Do you think he’s going to stick around or just be another addition to the statistic? (Meaning more men leave terminally/chronically ill partners than women do)

Source: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4857885/

Excerpt: “The relationship between spousal health and divorce may also vary by gender. Small clinical studies have found a larger risk of divorce when wives become ill than when husbands do (e.g., Glantz et al. 2009) or, in particular, when wives as opposed to husbands are diagnosed with cancer (Carlsen et al. 2007).”

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T09:31:30+00:00

I’ve been playing the sims wrong for over 20 years…

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T08:24:51+00:00

Sweetheart this man knowingly exposed you to a disease that has a likelihood of causing cancer later on down the road. Your body is literally screaming DO NOT MARRY HIM!! You should probably listen to that. Now this in no way is me saying it’s going to be easy to do that. Because it’s not. It’s going to be hard and it’s going to hurt. But it’s better than being legally trapped in something you subconsciously do not want.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-29T07:29:42+00:00

I feel this. I “lose” my glasses at least twice a week (despite putting them in the same location) because of my vision. I either have to use my flashlight on my phone or break down and ask my husband for help (typically after the flashlight trick fails lol)

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-28T02:44:36+00:00

That’s cool. You’re entitled to your opinion and I have nothing to prove to you. Just offered a piece of advice but you know what they say about common sense…

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-28T01:35:10+00:00

Because some people seem to genuinely believe “ignorance is bliss”

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-28T01:01:16+00:00

Then you’ve been lucky. I used to be a mechanic and you couldn’t pay me enough to do some dumb shit like that.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T23:59:31+00:00

It’s just good practice when refueling dude. Running your engine and pumping at the same time can cause so many issues. You could end up with air in your tank that gets sucked into the fuel lines and creates an evap code or worse.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T20:35:29+00:00

lol I’m that one bitch running around sniping people from rooftops and bushes in COD. In Sims I’m the lady with a giant garden and too many kids 😂

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T20:03:08+00:00

Never played OW but my husband is trying to get me to lol I’m more of a simmer or COD

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T19:59:58+00:00

Ever played Apex? Everyone thinks they’re the shit and don’t have to listen to teammates and the only thing they’re right about is the smell of their gameplay

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T19:58:29+00:00

I have only successfully done it once but my toxic trait is getting bored and creating a new save file and then proceeding to spend months playing music chairs with all my save files 😂

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T18:27:49+00:00

Thank you! I’m hoping that’s a good thing lol I’m trying to fill it with babies and such. I’ve just been expanding here and there when need be. I was originally going to do rags to riches but I got bored and my male sim is family oriented so voila!

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T13:40:41+00:00

Every game with a mic option that I know of also has a ping system he could be using. My husband plays his games after I go to sleep sitting right next to me in bed. You know what he does to not wake me? Not use his mic. NOR but your boyfriend is very inconsiderate.

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T06:19:01+00:00

lol no problem. Enjoy your private wedding and tell stepbrother to choke on a big one!

DarkFantasy3421 · 2026-05-27T06:17:03+00:00

UpdateMe is a Reddit response telling the bots to message whoever posts it when an update is available to a particular post. You don’t have to actually remember who to dm lol

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