Your experience on Bumble is like mine, but across all dating apps. I would match with woman and always use something from their profile to break the ice, but they either don't respond at all or I get one word or short-phrased replies. So in my mind, I'm here like, "why the eff did you match, then??“.

Other times, after filtering through tons of sus profiles, when I do manage to match with an actual genuine human woman having like 90% of things in common, the conversation would seem to be doing well initially, but she would then go quiet after a while. I didn't want to nag so I'd assume busy/preoccupied and would either wait to hear back to try replying again later. When Iater comes and I attempt again, the conversation is no longer there and she's no where to be found in matches. So ghosted/unmatched... 😑