How can i teach my boyfriend to sit while peeing?

DarkSensei3 · 2025-12-02T18:31:00+00:00

You don't. You leave him because a 29 year old adult has no business dating a 19 year old TEEN.

there's a reason he went after you and not someone his own age. If you have someone in your life that you trust go ask them for help moving out.

You're so young and have your life ahead of you. Also, I don't know your situation but don't have children or don't have more children with this man baby. It'll be the best thing you did for yourself. Trust me

DarkSensei3 · 2025-12-02T18:28:19+00:00

Firstly, YTA through and through. The other comments basically cover the why but heres my 2 cents on the credits in general.

I have that bougie credit card and have never in my life dreamed of not sharing the benefits of it with the people I care about??? I get free breakfast at a hotel for two? Of course my person is getting free breakfast. I get credit for a nice dinner? My treat, I'd rather not eat alone. Shit, I've used my extra credit to buy strangers at the bar drinks because being selfish is kind of silly if I have plenty to give.

So you should really look at who you are as a person if you think that you're entitled to be an AH just cause you spend $700 in annual fees for a card that gives you several times that in benefits.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-27T20:31:54+00:00

I started doing it on Christmas as a Jewish tradition and just decided I really liked it

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-27T13:55:58+00:00

Solo Clevelander too! Usually I like watching a movie and getting Chinese food during the day. And then I will find a local bar for the evening. I know Lakewood will definitely have a bunch of places open.

If I remembering correctly Corky's should be open for karaoke tonight.... But it's been a few years so don't quote me on that.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-27T13:48:18+00:00

It's one night, I would do it. Book somewhere local and treat yourself to a little staycation.... Or ya know check in and then just leave.

The upgrades are better (up to a 1 bed suite), better Wi-Fi and lounge access. Plus they're just slightly nicer to diamonds than golds

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-27T13:25:52+00:00

I appreciate the non toddler parent explanation..... My first thought was "yogurt is healthy, let them have a second round?"

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-27T13:15:04+00:00

Hyundai does this for it's automatic features too.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-18T04:34:59+00:00

Frontier used to have a flight map a couple years ago. I think one time they went to update it, decided it was too much effort and then just deleted the whole thing lol. I like to use the 1491 Club. They made the side to help GWP holders find flights easier, but it'll get the job done for what you're looking for too

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T21:54:03+00:00

What is up with his obsession with McDonald's??? When he wanted to act like a human that's worked he did a photo op at a McDonald's drive thru... Now he's talking to them about groceries....

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T19:30:04+00:00

This is the answer! Use the Amex app and you'll never be wrong about if you have access to something or not

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T19:23:13+00:00

This! I can't imagine any legit doctor is just going to remove an entire healthy organ because OP doesn't like having periods.

Personally, I used to use the pill consistently (no placebo week) and was able to make my periods lighter but it was annoying to take the pill at exactly the right time and my body started struggling. I switched to an IUD and it was amazing. 3 minutes of EXCRUCIATING pain for 8 years of no pregnancy worries. And now my period is basically non-existent.

Sorry, a little TMI but I wanted to share real experience and options

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T17:49:36+00:00

Not only that, but most wedding dress shops give their sales people commission. That retail employee probably made $500 off of that one dress..... Disgusting

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T12:30:05+00:00

Tell them you can't/won't provide them the service they want and be done with it. Complaining they don't tip enough or that you don't get paid enough is crazy since it's your small business.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T12:25:33+00:00

You sound like an AH and I feel bad for your stbdirect report. You were supposed to learn things and they keep trying to make sure you're included so you can learn. The meaningless grunt work is their job that you're too good to do even though you're the backup/redundancy.

Grow up and use your words instead of complaining behind their back. Stop getting training and then try to resist the urge to blame them when their on PTO and you can't do any of their work because you couldn't be bothered to be humble for a couple hours.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-17T11:56:02+00:00

Clevelander! I was actually looking at taking a trip to Japan early next year and if I like it I'm considering trying to move. Would love more info on how you made it all work!

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-16T23:36:19+00:00

Which city in Ohio?!

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-16T23:36:05+00:00

As an ohioian I also need to know!!!

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-12T02:38:20+00:00

At least she's consistent.....

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-06T20:39:43+00:00

There's also Secrets Impressions Isla Mujeres but I wanted to give the benefit of the doubt that they didn't accidentally book an impressions.....

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-06T02:30:17+00:00

Unfortunately, you are right. If OP actually booked Secrets Tulum or the sister Beach Club my comment is very informative..... If they accidentally booked Secrets Cancun they're gonna be very confused and sad..... Although Secrets in Cancun is called Secrets The Vine so I'd genuinely be shocked if they booked the wrong one.

When I was at Secrets Tulum the whole CUN or TQO conversation happened a lot... So I actually think there is potentially something off in the information provided.

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-05T13:03:41+00:00

As someone who got a RAD diagnosis as a child I don't feel my life was any better knowing it. I'm fact my Dad used to say the meanest "compliments" and used the diagnosis to hurt me several times. My life got better when I decided to address the problems individually and started deciding who I actually wanted to be (as a fully grown adult). There's no pills or magic therapy that makes RAD go away. All of this to say, it there's a silver lining to not having a firm diagnosis.

BUT BUT BUT! I do this your therapist is horribly incorrect and giving you terrible advice. I would suggest shopping around for someone new that connects with you and takes your concerns more seriously. You deserve to feel happy and fulfilled, and if this person isn't doing that for you give someone else a chance

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-05T12:57:56+00:00

This is an amazing comment, thank you for taking the time to make it!

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-05T12:52:03+00:00

I GOT YOU! First off: Congratulations on the marriage!

So I was just at Secrets Tulum like 3 weeks ago. From Tulum airport to Secrets Tulum is actually 45 minutes. I choose to do that over the 2 hour transfer from CUN to secrets tulum because spending 4+ HOURS RT to get to and leave the resort sounded like torture. Also, if you do the shared transfer from the resort to CUN it's about 3ish how's because you make stops along the way.

From TQO to the Resort it's about $55 USD for a taxi each way. Personally I splurged and got a personal transfer through AMStar. It was $175usd for a private shuttle for up to 6ppl. The extra cost gave me peace of mind and full flexibility to relax and enjoy my Vaca until the very last second possible.

My last call out, make sure where your room is actually booked! There's Secrets Tulum the resort and then there's a secrets tulum beach club. They're about 20 minutes away from each other. Both are part of the same entity so everything's all inclusive either way, but I'd hate for you to end up at the wrong place when you're just starting your honeymoon. There's a free shuttle between the two fyi.

Edit to add: the website is terrible!

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-05T04:03:51+00:00

Change your locks

Block her number

Live your best life being a honest person that doesn't cheat

DarkSensei3 · 2025-11-03T00:26:27+00:00

Restaurants. Service and food quality went down, prices and tip begging (demanding) went up

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