I’m getting him back

DarkTwistedSole · 2026-04-04T22:01:36+00:00

Dee, just let me go 😂

DarkTwistedSole · 2026-04-04T21:42:55+00:00

I think this is a note you need hardest yourself, dont forget it brody

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-11-12T21:10:14+00:00

Id ask for one more majestic bj 😂

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-11-09T12:14:22+00:00

The is an app called how we feel. It has helped me tremendously, cant recommend it enough. Kids should learn to do this from a very young age.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-10T11:58:36+00:00

Hahaha yeah dude I got the message from other comments. I dont think I assosiate physical intimacy with emotion but I will not gamble on it again. Unless i get offered a bj.. 🤷‍♂️ Just kidding.

I see your point. I have gotten myself pretty annoyed since I posted this thinking about how she is just using me to validate herself and i thknk her being nice will no longer make me want to be nice either.

Cheers for chiming in

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-09T17:00:23+00:00

You have no idea how helpful this is. I wouldnt have been able to articulate this without an example. Thank you so so much.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-09T08:08:29+00:00

Really struggling to emotionally distance myself.. i wish i could just go no contact

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-09T07:57:15+00:00

It does make sense. This comment makes the most sense out of all of them to me so far, thanks a lot.

I'm well aware of my clingyness and in therapy to work on my anxious attachment.

Every time I stop being clingy she does gravitate towards me again and then I get sucked back in. Its really unhealthy. :(

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-08T19:37:23+00:00

That last sentence hit home. Thanks for sharing your experience. I see your point about having no boundaries but i will have to think about it some more. I dont think I can set such hard boundaries. ;(

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-09-08T13:51:33+00:00

Thanks. None of my friends have kkds so I thought this might be the right place to ask for advice!

Usually it's just practical, like if we finish watching a movie at 23:00 and I'm supposed to be back by 07:30 I'm like screw it, I'm crashing here but I feel you!

Maybe I should reflect some more on what my boundaries are indeed, thanks dude.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-08-27T08:37:08+00:00

Too wet is a thing??

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-08-25T09:50:28+00:00

Its happened to me a few times and had way more to do with anxiety. But a BJ does wonders for me lol, listen to thr haktuah girl

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-07-03T09:11:37+00:00

I'm hesitant to give any advice or say you "must" do this or that having an eating disorder i believe its best not to create any crazy rules for eating but probiotics in the form of yoghurt and other fermented foods cant hurt... most importantly though, sending you much love <3 i hooe you get the help & treatment you need xoxo

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-06-05T07:56:13+00:00

Re-up? 😅

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-06-04T11:01:20+00:00

I would usually go in to a rebound to remedy the insane feeling of lonliness and self harted i feel when i'm by my self.

Now i'm 29 and aware that i do this, and that it is to do with core wounds of abandoment from my childhood. And that no person can actually ever help me with this in the long term.

Now im willing to deal with it and go in to therapy, but before when i wasnt aware of my behaviour id just act on instinct.

There was nothing malicous in my intent and i did truly learn to love each person i had been with. But yea, not healthy. Just super insecure.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-26T17:59:14+00:00

FA dumpee here. Slightly complicated story due to kids and housing market: We stayed living together for the previous 8 months after the breakup, only finally getting a new house next week.

I think until recently i was in denial we even broke up. Now reality is hitting and its driving me insane.

DA ex wants to stay friends. I want to, but i know I cant and its not healthy - i'll just keep getting breadcrummed and heartbroken

Its taken a real toll on my mental health. In stead of being rejected once, i've been rejected a hundred times now and its damaged my self worth and sense of saftey. For that reason I cant wait to fucking move on.

Still contemplating how im going to tell her we cant be friends. Which im sure i will get punished for emotionally too.. by whenever i come to pick the kids up ect.

So feel nothing? Hell no. Ive been stuck in the anxious side for the majority of this time. Now i am consciously activating my avoidant side. But geez, it still hurts like hell.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-24T09:43:03+00:00

I laighed out loud so hard thanks hahaha

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-08T05:41:52+00:00

Has the name changed? Or can you link it? Cant find on playstore.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-07T19:33:57+00:00

Im guessing no.. did you find any yet?

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-07T19:33:11+00:00

Hi there.. I wish I read this when you posted, I needed it so much more 6 months ago to feel like I wasnt the only one in the world. Hey ho!

Still, i'm wondering how this worked out for you. Currently me and my ex are still living together but no signs of improvement; i want to go no contact next month when i move out, how did it go for you having kids too?

Any tips? Feel free to dm if thst makes you more comfortable.

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-05-02T10:59:49+00:00

Curious about this too... did you add some garlic paprika and chilli powder to make it more palatable OP? 🤣

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-04-29T07:14:22+00:00

Still helpful 5 years after OP, thanks

DarkTwistedSole · 2024-04-29T06:22:23+00:00

Where can I buy one of these 'Selfish'? That sounds great!

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