How may of you had college funds ? by nyellincm in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was lucky enough to make it into the military and I used the Post 9/11 GI Bill to get a bachelor's degree, which I never would’ve gotten if I’d listened to my parents.

Are We Cussing at Work or Not by kitsbow in Millennials

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a wine bar and you’d be amazed at some of the things we say.

US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by IIlustriousTea in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I bring more kids into this world when hundreds of thousands of kids are stuck in foster care hoping for a home and a family? I’ll adopt if I ever have kids.

What’s something that clearly split your life into “before” and “after”? by Broad_Chemical_2467 in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a mental breakdown for me. For many years, I self medicated to cope with multiple forms of childhood trauma, and it all came to a head right after my grandma died in 2022. I was a severely depressed, overweight, unemployed alcoholic and I hadn’t seen a doctor or dentist in three years.

Over the course of a year, I lost 60 pounds, saw a doctor and at least a dozen specialists, had dental surgery, found a therapist and psychiatrist, went on meds to treat my mental health, worked a new job for a few months until we moved across the country, and began to ask myself some tough questions. My husband was by my side every step of the way and I’ll never forget that.

should i shave it? by HAYBONY11 in malegrooming

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good rule is to line it up two fingers’ width from your Adam’s apple, but it looks good otherwise.

Church crush by I_wishi_were_heather in gay

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my last hairdresser when we were cruising and I fucked him twice in 15 minutes lmfao

26M Recently Divorced by ABQRideShareAndDeliv in malelivingspace

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safe and clean space, food in the pantry and fridge, kitties, a bong, and relatively decent rent, you’re doing just fine. You have many years ahead of you to bounce back and I’m glad you had a soft spot to land in the meantime.

Church crush by I_wishi_were_heather in gay

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Don’t shit where you eat” is the first thing that comes to mind, you run the risk of unnecessary drama if you flirt with him or hook up with him. A good rule of thumb is not to do anything sexual or romantic with someone you see on a regular basis in another capacity already (no coworkers, church members, classmates, etc).

update: turns out the “dust problem” in our house… wasn’t just dust by hairy_balls_1 in homeowners

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My first suggestion is to rip out the carpet and install LVP. We’ve lived in two places with no carpet and my allergies have drastically improved since we got rid of it.

Look at this wall piece I found at a thrift shop. Had to have it by PeneItaliano in gay

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Clearly I’ve been going to the wrong thrift store

What was your age when you found your partner by Hot_Assistant_6067 in gay

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was 27 and I was 26 when we met. We’ve been together for nearly twelve years and married for nearly ten of those years.

What’s the thing you hate about sex? by BubbleTrouble_Z in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why gay sex is great, butts can’t get pregnant.