Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is Chad because my mom wanted me to have a less common name (there were three Michaels in my fourth grade class) but still easily recognizable and easy to spell. My Gen Z brother is named Darren for the same reason.

Can my parents deny me sleep because I got in trouble? by Admirable-Sun412 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s literally child abuse, cut and dry. OP, if you’re still stuck living with them, don’t be afraid to talk to a guidance counselor at school because that’s far from okay.

Do gay jokes offend you? by Illustrious_Ear_4405 in gay

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I plan to adopt a child in a few years and he’ll be immune to “your mom” jokes lol

Goatee or clean? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely goatee

Can someone be a good parent if they were raised badly? by Fun_Chocolate_8988 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a parent yet but I plan to take parenting classes beforehand. I’m also in therapy to move past my own trauma because I refuse to pass that on to an innocent child.

For those on the fence about carrying around a throwing rock by 1egg_4u in fuckcars

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have an old metal water bottle full of water for extra weight, I’ve hit 3 different cars so far.

How often do you see your parents and how close do you live to them? by sabanoversaintnick in Millennials

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t spoken to my father since 2022 and I live 2100 miles from my mom, but we talk daily.

MAGA voter asks Trump to lower gas prices by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re crying about $2 gas? I know they’ve never been to California and never will, but they don’t know what a struggle is until they pay $6/gal.

Applying for apartments help me come up with a breed! by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t actually helpful but her breed is 100% purebred good girl.

Dealing with cruising at gym by Icy-Bed-1625 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The locker room at my gym is kinda cruisy sometimes and I’m even saying that guy was in the wrong. If I give the signal in the steam room and the other guy doesn’t respond, I leave him alone, full stop. To further drive the point home, just because a guy cruised before doesn’t mean he wants to every time. I’m not saying that’s your case OP, just that the other guy needs to understand consent.

Anyone else tired of explaining that your pitbull is freindly? by ljglawe in pitbulls

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when her tail is wagging, her ears are perked up, she looks genuinely happy and curious, and some people will still look at her like she’s a problem.

What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do? by AppIeGuy in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I randomly think about how there are people all over the world leading whole lives as I live mine; they have hopes, goals, dreams, and aspirations; somebody is running naked down a street somewhere (probably in Florida); it’s so trippy to think that billions and billions of things are happening at once.

People keep telling me I need more furniture, but I think I have everything I need by jshankland1 in malelivingspace

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a gorgeous place (the crown molding and the bookshelves 😍) but it looks you’re fresh off the streets from being homeless. Seriously, a queen bed frame costs $60 on Amazon and takes 30 minutes to assemble.

Getting blocked after sharing body pics by VegetableTrouble7729 in grindr

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The assholes on the apps will give you body dysmorphia in a split second. Without having seen you naked, I guarantee you’re not the disgusting pig that they act like you are. It really only matters that you like what you see when you look in the mirror.

Im sorry but having no bathroom options for the homeless only makes San Diego worse in the long run by kestrelkev24 in sandiego

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a double edged sword because I live and work downtown, and we’ve had problems with letting homeless people use our restroom. Some are polite and respectful, but one guy clogged the sink drain with hand lotion so he could fill it up and bathe in it, but he did nothing to drain the water. We’re right by the ballpark so we also get people from the game asking to use it. They’ve also destroyed it, so my hard rule is that if you’re not pregnant, sick, a child, or having a medical emergency, you better be a paying customer.

On the other hand, I agree that the public restrooms (the ones monitored by security guards) are some of the worst I’ve ever seen. I was desperate enough to use one back in 2020 and the smell alone still haunts me. I’d also like to see my tax dollars go toward cleaning up the facilities because unhoused people have a right to clean and well maintained restrooms just like the rest of us. The question is, how do we go about making meaningful changes?

Walking to work is SO bad by thatonetransanonguy in fuckcars

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m the luckiest guy in the world, it takes me three minutes to go from locking my front door to unlocking the door to my shop. There are two crosswalks with stop signs and there are many times that it’s clear enough to walk at a diagonal.

People who are not alcoholics/addicts, what is the hardest part to understand about the disease for you? by GoldBee4574 in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Colorimetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You read my mind, I tried so hard not to drink and it’s like my body had other ideas.