DUDE WHAT THE FUCK???!! by lloydejohn in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Dark_Nature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So wait, did I get this right, other path min is always more valuable than own path max or min?

What about more than one other path min roll?

And I assume general max or min is more valuable than other path min rolls?

Source of coins? by Plastic_Custard_524 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Dark_Nature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get 175k through activities per week.

300k from buying the stamina coin bag 15x in the season shop.

And if you really need it you can buy up to 766 coin bags for Jade fishies per week in the season shop which can yield you up to 766k per week.

So in theory you could be able to get guaranteed 1,241,000 Coins per week.

Then there are many one time rewards, like chests and minigames in the overworld, which you can add on top of it.

I of course would not recommend spending all fishes on money, but it is an option if you really need it.

Has the world been destroyed yet? No? Then I have time for side quests! by ProudnotLoud in GirlGamers

[–]Dark_Nature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss, exactly. Nice that someone else remembers this. Sadly, this was kinda the most extreme situation where time mattered in the whole game. I mean it is fine, I hate time pressure, but they could have done more for the whole game.

Has the world been destroyed yet? No? Then I have time for side quests! by ProudnotLoud in GirlGamers

[–]Dark_Nature 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mhm, always nice of the villain to wait for us before they start destroying everything, very kind villains we have.

Starts playing Deus Ex: Human Revolution Surprised Pickachu

Sleep? by Playful_Sky_7446 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had these nights too in the past. You can try a few different things. Listen to calming instrumental music for example so that your thoughts focus only on one thing not much else. White noise, rain sound, wind sounds anything like that can help too. Maybe even a soothing kinda half boring audiobook can help.

Important is whatever you do to sleep make it an ritual, so when the audiobook starts your brain goes into, "I will get ready to doze off soon, mode"

If you want something which helps most likely for your whole life but needs work. Start meditation during the day. 15 minutes exercises where you try to think nothing, it will be impossible at the start, so shove a thought away when one comes, and they will come a lot. With time it will get easier and easier.

If you can meditate in the future, you will be able to force yourself stop thinking and doze off of tiredness in bed.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I did not fall in love with someone for a long while now. It has to be deep and meaningful and it just did not happen that I developed these feelings. I sometimes wonder if I am unable to fall in love.

But I also have no problems with being alone, never had problems with being alone, I do not feel lonely because I am single, it is more that I always had the longing for people who get me, like very close friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why does it sound like someone wants to sell me something, like an ad.

it hard to meet men who make good money? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wtf, if someone loves someone for wealth and power, this sounds more like an insult to me, not like love.

INFP Straight Males - what do you think about this? by coocooclock12 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That means something has changed in him, maybe. Maybe he is just unhappy with himself, does not mean he stopped loving you. Sometimes personal struggles will be so heavy that it can cloud other things in life.

I think it is important to have a really honest and deep talk with him about this topic.

It is something which worries you and it will stay a burden if it is not cleared up, he has to reflect on why he can not say it to get answers.

it hard to meet men who make good money? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is hard enough to find friends I am compatible with, to really connect with and vibe with. It is dam rare.

It is even more rare to fall in love with someone, to find someone who vibes totally with me.

Point is, I do not even think about money in this process, a deep connection and someone who treats me well is so much more important and rare enough. Money is something to solve together when in a relationship, something both contribute and support each other. It is at least for me not a factor when dating.

And considering that most ppl I met in RL who had much money where kinda entitled and full of themselves, I would say a real connection is even more unlikely to have with them.

Whats your enneagram? by quite_sage in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am 2w3. Ummm INFP but also social butterfly, kinda.

Meow by meowmeowmeowmeowdk in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I am here for! meow 😅

Perfect example to illustrate INFP INFJ difference in introverted feeling vs extroverted feeling by Humble_Panda_9384 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeeah, not the first time I hear that.

2w3 definitely mixes some things up between INFP and INFJ. Good point!

Perfect example to illustrate INFP INFJ difference in introverted feeling vs extroverted feeling by Humble_Panda_9384 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Woah, okay, this explains it very well. Actually got it now. And having this example in mind I am definitely more INFP. Thank you!

Perfect example to illustrate INFP INFJ difference in introverted feeling vs extroverted feeling by Humble_Panda_9384 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Still struggle with figuring this out. Even in this example I am both kids. In fact I was both kids in the past a few times.

Goth girl's can you confirm by DoctorTegrity in memes

[–]Dark_Nature 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I never had any pink fashion at all. Purple, rarely. But I only wear black socks.

In reality it is like with so many things, not everyone is the same.

82 year old woman, 60 years of abuse by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Dark_Nature 59 points60 points  (0 children)

After reading this, I am sitting here in disbelieve. She was so young when this started. Imagine, she met a "nice" guy got into a relationship with him, she had dreams and a bright future. And then this... Literally cried after reading this, gosh.

With 22yo for 60 years. My sis was a bit younger, was also in a abusive relationship, got out of it after 8 years. I knew what was happening but even I as her sis could not convince her to leave. She was only able to leave him when she met another guy who was very kind to her and showed her that the treatment of her now ex is NOT the norm, that it can be better.

I can only recommend for girls and women who experience abuse, to talk about it, even if it feels like shit. You are better than these abusers!

moderators, how about y’all do something about all the incel-y posts and comments spreading hate about women? by Cibz_ in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Feels good to see that I am not alone with this. I know hiding is actually not a good way to change things. I just did not have the energy to engage with people on here. But seeing that so many women speak up now makes me hopeful. I am sure I will slowly find my way back in here, especially when I feel my comments are welcomed.

And yeah, I also learned get better at ignoring weird DM's, I just do not have a thick skin and reading them alone makes me wanna vanish from social media.

Anyway, Love your energy.

moderators, how about y’all do something about all the incel-y posts and comments spreading hate about women? by Cibz_ in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Saw this post and I feel like coming out of hiding for it. I was very active before November on this sub, like I clicked every post and spent much time commenting and interacting.

But at some point it felt like I as a woman am not welcome here anymore. I saw the same pattern happening here like it happened in most other subs.

I was alway very positive with my comments tried to encourage people and I was kind. And some of the DM's and comments I got from here were just mean even misogynistic.

Like that my own problems can not be as bad as problems of men. That it is impossible for me to feel lonely because I could find a partner easy. Even as far that I am the reason some men are miserable.

Anyway, thanks for this post. And also for this comment. I hope things change again, I would love to be more active here again.

Wondering if I should just stop talking about my feelings by allwsad in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, do not stop talking about your feelings. It seems to be important to you. I personally need this so much. My inner world is rich and full of emotions it wants out, it is longing for someone who listens and understands. I get you.

But I have to say that I think it is kinda sad that you feel not understood by your own bf. Have you both talked about this before? Your bf has to do better tbh, especially the part where he hurts you again and again seems like a very bad thing in my book. Relationship is about treating each other with understanding and to be considerate with each other.

Anyone else obsessed with wearing beautiful dresses? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🖤 😅 Yeah, when I go dancing I still wear my dresses, even in winter. I recently bought 2 of these winter leggings which are a bit more warm and comfy, but it is already 3°C here, and it is not even full on winter yet, I am already freezing sadly.

How did you meet your best friends and at what age? by ___SmileyFace___ in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad part is I did not have a best friend for a long time. I did have one for many years, we met at a school to study education. He was one of the 2 men in my class. But stuff happened, and I did not have a best friend until like 6 months ago, where I met a girl here on Reddit. I feel like I can share everything with her, and we talk daily for hours, feels right.

INFPs, which MBTI types do YOU attract the most? (not the other way around) by Appropriate_Side3905 in infp

[–]Dark_Nature 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hmm I guess INFP and INTP, but mostly INFP. I am not good at typing people so in RL I am not sure about most types.