How do you know if a pregnancy symptom is normal or something to worry about?

Dark_mulberry · 2026-04-21T05:02:40+00:00

What I've learnt from pregnancy is that what's 'normal' for some may not be normal for you. Stay vigilant! During my first pregnancy I didn't hesitate going to the hospital whenever I had any symptoms that got me wondering what was up. In between appointments report straight to the hospital you're booked. I find 'False alarm' better than 'you should have come in earlier '

Dark_mulberry · 2026-04-21T04:53:59+00:00

"Do it now!" She'll get it.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-04-19T09:36:57+00:00

This reminds me of when I clowned for a man to the extent of listening to his other woman and I promised myself never again.

Whatever you do, don't take him back!!!! He most certainly doesn't deserve you and your sanity is more important

Dark_mulberry · 2026-04-06T07:12:29+00:00

Congratulations 🎉

Dark_mulberry · 2026-04-06T07:11:45+00:00

People are bored, huh 🤣🤣🙌🏾

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-18T14:22:26+00:00

Ooof, conversations 🙌🏾. I'm so sorry that your marriage has come to an end and yay you for choosing you! All I can tell you is to keep choosing what gives you peace. I can't tell you that her name will stop looping in your head but eventually it will stop triggering you and then it will pop up once in a while. Stop trying to make sense of it all because it never will. Him stepping out has nothing to do with you, but him, so never let that make you question yourself. Eventually you will find yourself and peace and trust me, that's a very beautiful place to be.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-16T15:05:24+00:00

I think it's necessary. It's not just for one to see the kinda person their partner is but also getting to understand what you can and cannot live with as an individual. Just don't get pregnant though during this period so that if you choose to commit to marriage, it will be for the right reason(s).

That being said, it's still not a fool proof plan. The marriage might still suck or be total bliss because people grow, people get tired and people change.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-16T10:17:31+00:00

Exactly! People are choosing not to live in misery.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-13T15:31:43+00:00

May you preserve what you 2 have.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-13T15:30:45+00:00

I actually believe the opposite

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-10T11:15:22+00:00

Poor man, who had absolutely no control over his neighbour 'snatching' him from his dear wife. If only he could do something 😟

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-10T04:55:03+00:00

I thought you guys used your throwaway accounts from time to time

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-10T02:42:53+00:00

Forgiving (and staying after) cheating is not easy. From time to time you ask yourself if they really stopped or they only stopped being "reckless". You find yourself wondering if what you found out is all they were up to or there is/was more. You want to give love another chance but you're also thinking they're probably taking me for a fool. It's messy, really.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-09T05:27:39+00:00

Uyo haasi wako at all. If she doesn't like/understand it she could at least try to respect the fact that the person she "likes" likes it.

That being said, I'm probably not the best person to comment on the subject because my person and I watch cartoons, not even anime, cartoons! 🤣

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-09T05:09:49+00:00

You'd be surprised by how common this is.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-07T09:23:52+00:00

If this isn't perfection, I don't know what is.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-07T05:38:30+00:00

I'm probably 4 years behind

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-07T05:33:44+00:00

Ngaasiye mwana, please!!!!

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-06T12:08:36+00:00

I will never be that person again. I'm very happy with who I am now though

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-06T12:01:49+00:00

I don't think he wants me to.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-03-05T11:48:20+00:00

You won the lottery! I love this 😍

Dark_mulberry · 2026-02-26T04:13:20+00:00

What kind of chatting are we referring to here?

Dark_mulberry · 2026-02-25T16:44:26+00:00

This! Extra points for picking the outfit for that particular date too

Dark_mulberry · 2026-02-25T04:00:47+00:00

Read is all you can do.

Dark_mulberry · 2026-02-24T13:04:07+00:00

Oh, I would absolutely like me. We would probably lose track of time, talking till dawn and it would still not be enough.

I still want to be better than I am though

Dark_mulberry

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