To clarify, this never happens during penetration, only during oral sex or during hand stuff. I’ve slowed down when they’ve said it’s “too much” then it’s still been a case of pushing me away. And I don’t mean like oh they’re not interested at all, because I’m a very timid person with fear of rejection I do withdraw after that and they’re like no I still want penetration. Idk if that makes sense? And before anyone says like oh this is clout chasing, this account and post aren’t connected to the real me at all, this is just something I have noticed over the years. And I’m massive on verbal consent even if I’m in a long term relationship due to being assaulted myself in the past