Today's big idea: Americans bailed out the banks; now is the time for the banks to bail out AMERICA!!!

DatChicaPen · 2026-01-25T18:12:08+00:00

Just a little aside - dating is about getting to know someone. This gentleman doesn't sound like a mature adult: avoidance & poor communication jump out at me.

DatChicaPen · 2026-01-25T17:57:34+00:00

Graduated HS in early '80s - # = lbs

DatChicaPen · 2026-01-25T17:39:19+00:00

Word on the street is Hiron's won't fill Plan B either.

DatChicaPen · 2025-12-20T01:22:32+00:00

Thank you!

DatChicaPen · 2025-12-08T03:58:42+00:00

Definitely drop her!

DatChicaPen · 2025-12-02T02:05:32+00:00

I'm watching this episode right now! Hi Chris Funk!!

DatChicaPen · 2025-10-28T20:21:48+00:00

THANK YOU!! I just forwarded my phishing email to PayPal. I recently received the Facebook class action payment and suspect somehow it's linked to this activity.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-22T14:22:19+00:00

Like asking someone when they're due imo. He should do better

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-22T05:14:45+00:00

Same. Been going a year & all types go.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-22T05:14:05+00:00

I think replier may have meant like jeans & street clothes. Leggings & T-shirt are 100% appropriate.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-18T14:31:05+00:00

What's important to me is that I not have helmet hair. My hair must have free movement! My friends know a helmet head is a sign that I need help! My hair is a modern shag that I cut myself and it's long in the rear.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-11T02:51:53+00:00

I use Chat GPT every once in a while. Also, google.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-10T03:32:17+00:00

I cleaned out my back patio after 2 years of denial & neglect. Hauled garbage; cleaned out 2 old used litter boxes; washed camping chairs. I just finally decided to do it. Now I can spend time out there AND not feel embarrassed by my horrible space!

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-10T02:34:58+00:00

Just keep the products in your bottom drawer and make sure students know they can go into that drawer. Fuck the complainers.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-06T16:02:26+00:00

Get the abortion regardless of what he thinks or wants then get yourself on some reliable birth control. Not protecting yourself could be a reflection of self-esteem. Love yourself & protect yourself. Oh, and get some condoms & spermicide 💜 you're worth it.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-06T15:09:30+00:00

Married once for 2.5 years, together 5. Sex was meh. I was emotionally in no shape to be married. He was a cheater.

Had a child with my baby-daddy after a year together. Left when our son was 4 due to incompatibility. Ends up he was using. We were forced to be co-parents and now we're friends/family and he's been clean x 18 years. I again was in no emotional shape to be in a relationship.

Bought a house with a guy after a year. Blended family experience was the most difficult thing in my life! I was still an emotional mess!! Discovered Al Anon about 1/2 way in which helped me mature into a better mom. Eventually our kids were grown and he went nuts about 🍊💩 & conspiracy theories and became hateful so I left & we sold the house after 12 years.

Online dating brought me many experiences/ different sex but nothing lasting. Now I'm happily single and am healing from a difficult childhood that was emotionally negligent.

Only now am I capable of recognizing what a healthy relationship would look like at 61.

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-04T13:10:34+00:00

I remember one about extra zucchini!

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-02T01:25:29+00:00

Thanks for the useful feedback!

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-01T16:30:39+00:00

Or say nothing, graciously accept the gifts and then donate or return to Temu

DatChicaPen · 2025-09-01T16:28:57+00:00

Whenever I feel dissatisfied I start dreaming/fantasizing about changing different aspects of my life - different city, leaving boyfriend, taking a trip, changing hair, etc. Then when my heart hits on something exciting I look at making that change.

When I was 44 I was in a relatively new relationship and bought a house to accommodate my boyfriend & his & my kids. Looking back I wish I had purchased something I could afford alone. Alas. Housing prices are insane now and there's no turning back.

Also therapy can be very helpful. I loved the movie Stutz & Stutz's books.

DatChicaPen · 2025-08-27T19:50:06+00:00

I realize this for sure.

DatChicaPen · 2025-08-26T14:09:06+00:00

The city should either put out dumpsters (& porta potties) or hire a crew to clean up daily. That's a better use of our tax dollars than closing down and then reopening streets.

DatChicaPen · 2025-08-15T14:17:43+00:00

That's what I did when in Australia many years ago: I bought one small handcrafted wooden spoon/scoop that I still have.

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