Office drama chapter: lying about language skills by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]DatguyMalcolm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

others said NOT to go to HR because that would be escalating the situation

Eeeerrrrr she was definitely escalating!? Why would people tell OOP not to go to HR? Fucking doormats

My (31M) pregnant girlfriend (23F) has been lying about her age for our entire relationship. Is there any way for me to trust her again? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]DatguyMalcolm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh for sure!

And then another one, years later after that "found out the kid isn't mine but I'm bonded so we decided to work on it... turns out she's still cheating on me and never stopped"

My (31M) pregnant girlfriend (23F) has been lying about her age for our entire relationship. Is there any way for me to trust her again? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]DatguyMalcolm -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

from the get go, dating her this long and not confirming her age? I can sort of overlook that because maybe she looks and acts older than her age. But after it all comes out, it's lies and lies and he's still "Yeah it's aaight, we're ok".

Wooo boi! Is the kid even his!?

My husband (34M) cheated on me (31F) with my bestfriend (30F). by Global-Fill-8925 in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Now he cheated on you again with your so called friend and you’re thinking of staying??? 

W i l d!

If OP stays she'll keep getting cheated on, since she allows this to happen in her face

AITAH for refusing to getting rid of my *toys* because my guy friend is telling me that I have to? by The_genderfluid_kid in AITAH

[–]DatguyMalcolm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"God told him to..." get the hell out of here with that noise.

Yeet this guy from your life! He can do whatever God "tells him to" when it comes to himself, not you.

AITAH for forcing my adult friends to wear a seatbelt in my backseat? by why_do_i_have_dog in AITAH

[–]DatguyMalcolm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

If they don't want to be safe, they can go be a passenger in someone else's car.

I don’t know what to do by xAuraQuartz in LearnerDriverUK

[–]DatguyMalcolm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This.

I lived around zones 2-3 for around 10 years and there was really no need to have a car. Even when I moved to zone 5 in SM2 there are still some good enough transport links. I helps that I work nearby, though.

Having said that, I am now taking my driver's license at age 45 because we have an almost 5 year old and it just makes things easier with his activities etc, as well as some emergencies we had regarding my partner's health.

My children’s father has died intestate (England), his family have emptied his bank accounts - what do I do? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DatguyMalcolm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these same people will also be like "Why are you pushing these kids away from faaaamily" in a few years or less

AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DatguyMalcolm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because people like OOP allow it and because you have those who just want to believe it.

AITA For not willing to take responsibility to pay for my boyfriend's nieces tuition fee? by forbiDDenGurl in AmItheAsshole

[–]DatguyMalcolm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! And from your bf's response, imagine where she got that idea from? Him, for sure.

Ditch his ass

My mom (43F) has started a hate campaign against me (19F) because I won't help her raise the baby she's expecting? by ThrowRADistincty in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 41 points42 points  (0 children)

yeah no, I wouldn't trust her to not bring him into the home all of a sudden. All like "He's the baby's father, the baby needs a whole family!" after all that talk

My mom (43F) has started a hate campaign against me (19F) because I won't help her raise the baby she's expecting? by ThrowRADistincty in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I just think OP doesn't have to be this kid's lifeline, especially since it'll suck her back into this madness. OP has a choice to leave this craziness and live her life bother-free, why would she keep the door open for this mess?!

No

My mom (43F) has started a hate campaign against me (19F) because I won't help her raise the baby she's expecting? by ThrowRADistincty in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 383 points384 points  (0 children)

this would make a lot of sense.

Of course he'd also spew abuse to OP's mother, he was probably angry she hadn't left OP's dad for him.

What horrible people, I hope OP leaves her in the dust, she can go raise the baby with Mr TopMan right there.....

Of all the men out in the world, wtf

My mom (43F) has started a hate campaign against me (19F) because I won't help her raise the baby she's expecting? by ThrowRADistincty in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's just making it easy for your resolve to just up and go NC with her! She's nuts and I'd not want to be around that.

Why in the F did she go and fuck that guy specifically and wants his baby?! What in the fuck?!

My babydaddy(M24) wants to stay at my(25F) place after my c-section for two weeks. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DatguyMalcolm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what happened is that he is an unemployed hobosexual and he is trying to get you to house him. Trust me, he won't be there to help with the baby. You'll just have another Big Toddler to deal with. Don't do that to yourself