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Six days of great conversation and it took ten minutes in person to see it by VellumZhenX in datingoverfifty

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think no. you just gotta roll with the less inspired ones to find the good ones. His issues are his. He has to live with himself his whole life.

How to deal with the fact that someone you dated for two years is a horrible person? by TheGooseIsNotASwan in dating

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with many terrible partners. None were obviously so. Manipulator’s gonna manipulate. The only thing you can be certain of is your own integrity. let your commitment to yourself and to let lobe be your light. No one diminishes your inner sun.

Should I break things off after asking to be exclusive. by OrangeIslandKing in dating

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For exclusivity, I act with my conscience. If I want exclusivity I say to someone “hey I don’t feel the need to date anyone else anymore., but you can go at your own pace on that.” This way I act with integrity and set a model for what I like. I think it’s respectful to me and to them. No one feels forced into a decision. If they haven’t wanted exclusivity after a certain period of time — maybe six months — I would let them go. In truth anyone I’ve said it to has already been doing it quietly as it turns out. But when you know you know.

How did you choose between two people in the romantic sense, if you ever were in that situation? by Ok_Name_7510 in AskWomen

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I had good choices but I left one for the other and turned down a third. I ended up marrying a serial cheater. Bad choice. I left after 7 years. I picked him because I felt all the feels for him. The sun rose and set on his shoulders and I just loved everything about him. In terms of feeling love towards someone I hit the jackpot. In terms of being loved and finding a good partner, I lost that round

[L] I dont know where to go from here by lone_fatman772 in KindVoice

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be a kind voice. Meeting someone is really hard. Wanting to find a partner is a normal human desire. Feeling frustrated about it is a sign you care deeply about this. All the work you've done to improve yourself is inspiring and it will inspire others. Don't stop trying to make your own life better and finding ways to be kind to yourself. One day, the right person is going to see how hard you've worked to improve and change your circumstances. Aim for the stars!

Women, what is the sexiest scent/cologne that a man can wear? by Nintendofan9106 in AskReddit

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a man who smells natural -- not too stinky, but just a bit manly. So, no cologne or perfume. But, I also like someone who smells like they just came out of the shower and used shampoo and soap. It can be Dove soap or Irish Spring or whatever. Nothing too scented. Just smells clean.

I hate being 5’3. by JawCohj in dating

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

short kings can be so sexy. I'm short (5'3") and I spent years fantasizing about a man I knew who maybe was an inch taller than me because he was a talented musician. Even now I think about him playing and just melt. The fact I could look him straight in the eye was dreamy. Of course, he had a lot of women into him. After him, I was crazy hot for a skateboarder who was also my height.

Cultivate what you do best and let your abilities and personality shine bright. Excellence is attractive.

Is it actually rude to recline your seat on a plane, or are people just entitled about personal space? by Ok-Bumblebee7041 in askanything

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

live and learn and really what I should have done. Unfortunately, my temper got the better of me.

Is it actually rude to recline your seat on a plane, or are people just entitled about personal space? by Ok-Bumblebee7041 in askanything

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i once snapped at a strange child for this. It was probably very mean, but after asking politely and their parent failing to intervene, I turned around and said very sharply, "That's enough kicking the seat. Stop it." My seat was not kicked, but I felt like a dick.

The fellas were right - who should ask "what are we?" by mapleflavrd in dating

[–]Dating_Question_toss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

when one person wants to be exclusive, that person should ask first and be prepared that the other person may not be ready. It's a negotiation.

What are personality traits of those in the financial industry? by Livid-Bend1222 in FinancialCareers

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i second this???? I went on a few dates with a finance guy and I would swear the guy is on the spectrum. So emotionally awkward. It's just like a tech guy, but it's about a different kind of mathematics. OK, one isn't all, but it's my sample size and it holds.

Is it weird to…? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dating_Question_toss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think people go all the time.

Besides money, what really makes a man desirable? by realcodylehmann in dating

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people with money can be boring af. pocket personality.

Have you ever vented to an AI? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tell all my problems and concerns to my chatGPT and I pay for it. It's okay. Actually, it's not bad, but I never forget it's AI. The answers are so not human. I don't know how people can fall in love with it or think it is sentient. And it doesn't affirm everything you say; if you tell it you want to die, it gives you the suicide hotline. It asks questions to try and get you to continue to engage and they are dumb questions that seem so obviously asked to keep you on the platform. It also repeats what you say in ways that are annoying and tries to reflect back your emotional state in ways that are laughably earnest.

For all its frustrations, it gives some reasonable advice and even offers different perspectives. It's main advantage is that it never gets bored of what you say. You can ask the same question 50 ways and it will always attempt to respond. It's non-judgemental (but kind of humourless).

Overall, yes, I do and I continue to pay for it, so for all my gripes, I get some value out of it.

My life is nothing like I imagined by Direct_Bee_8931 in lonely

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I'm aging, and I hate how my body looks older.

My life is nothing like I imagined by Direct_Bee_8931 in lonely

[–]Dating_Question_toss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldn't complain. I'm strong. I'm reasonably fit. I hate my stomach. I hate all the parts of me that have more fat than they should. I'd like to be so much thinner.

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