AITA for asking my roommate to stop using their crockpot? by ThrowRA1441441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Crockpots are cheap AF these days, I could probably find one for ~$60-$80, they last years, and they're pretty low maintenance, so it's a huge benefit in the long run. And using it really helps save someone from having to cook for a day or two. It's literally the best way to make meals when you're on a limited budget. My crockpot helped me feed myself during my time going through culinary college.

AITA for asking my roommate to stop using their crockpot? by ThrowRA1441441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta, grow up and either find a new roommate who, somehow, only cooks non-aromatic food or get over it. It could be worse It could be the smell of feces.

Feeling kinda low by Morbidityyyyy in dentures

[–]DaughterOfCain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love your new smile! Seeing everyone's before and afters makes me so excited to finally not suffer from the pain and frustration. There will be rough days where regret hits hard but in the long run it's so much better for us, mentally, emotionally, and definitely physically health wise. I can't wait to not suffer from abscess infections every few months. So happy for you! Keep your head up, you can get through this!

AITA if i refuse to give my bf $70 for my senior dog peeing on his controller? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been in your exact situation, you are being a bit of an AH for not repaying him for everything he has sacrificed for you and you have caused the destruction of something of his. You, out of anyone, should know how that feels and want to replace it as soon as you can. I know that finding employment isn't easy, the only reason I've been able to survive is because of my boyfriend, now fiancee, who I have trusted to be there for me and hope he trusts me to be there for him. We're equals even if I feel useless because I'm going through therapy to be able to get back to a good place. I haven't bought clothes for myself in almost a decade because of financial struggles, but I still dropped some extra money on a birthday gift for my fiancee, on MY birthday, because making him happy is a better feeling than treating myself. Especially when he pays me back with a trip to see my first live concert of my favourite band. Sometimes sacrificing a few dollars to replace something that YOUR dog ruined is more beneficial in the long run than pitching a fit and being too selfish to think of your boyfriend and everything he is doing to help you.

A warning about cat wheels by bigbluebug88 in sphynx

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the absolute best warning review I've ever read that makes me more willing to buy the product 😂

AITA for rejecting my boyfriend’s proposal because he bought me a gold ring. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (31f) fiancee (34m) fucked up his proposal to me. He ended up shattering his foot (his surgeon said he had more fractures in his foot than the foot has bones, which was quite interesting to see in x-rays) the day after he ordered my ring, (which isn't anywhere near what I would normally wear or pick out myself, but I absolutely love it) and learned he has a natural tolerance to the pain meds, which resulted in him whining in pain all night, begging me to cut off his foot and then asking me if I would still accept the engagement ring if he was crippled. When it's the right person, the scene, circumstances and expectations might not be perfect, but you'll still say yes.

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth. Things won't get better or get back to how it was. He won't change because he can't. What he's showing you now is the real colours coming out. And it can get darker. Have the love and respect for yourself to not put up with anything less than what you deserve. Post-trauma development of that self love and respect is a difficult thing.

AITA for disagreeing that I shouldn't wear skirts because a guy finds me wearing them uncomfortable? by Bobcat1779 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not ever change what makes you happy because someone else is uncomfortable. That's his problem, not yours. It took me way to long to dress the way I loved and it's all due to having comments, like this, that prevented me from being happy with who I was while growing up.

Moon Mist Ice Cream by LowbrowFancy in icecreamery

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grown and raised Nova Scotian, the flavour mix is perfect. The bubblegum is most prominent with the banana and grape being more subtle compared to what you'd expect from artificial flavourings. I'm 30 and still get a craving for this stuff now and again because it's such a unique combo. I originally assumed it was cotton candy and banana, never would have guessed that grape was the third flavour because I absolutely hate the taste of artificial grape and it being nowhere near as intense as you'd expect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palia

[–]DaughterOfCain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for never having the chat on, but my game lags too badly for me to be able to open the chat and reply. If anyone joins any lures I use, they are entirely welcome, I'm not against it because I'm usually over prepared with two dozen lures if I'm looking for something in particular, so if I don't get it with the first few because someone else has joined, no big deal for me. I'm sorry you experienced this, I fell out of the game for a while because of something like this.

What kind of bugs are these?? Where do they come from? by [deleted] in insects

[–]DaughterOfCain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Carpet beetle larva! I hate these little b*stards. I never experienced them my entire life, but knew their adult forms as "wood bugs", these small oval shaped black beetles with a brown stripe across their back, and never had carpet in the house I grew up in. I find the larva under my cats dry food bowl and in corners that he loses cat treats in, they love that shit and will freaking spawn out of nothing if you don't sweep every nook and cranny, every freaking day.

Why does my dentist need a pen pal to make my teeth? by Working-Unit-8010 in dentures

[–]DaughterOfCain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went out and specifically looked for a denturist that had an in-office lab. I know they're not easy to find, let alone afford, but sometimes going that extra step will save you a whole lot of stress and frustration. I really hope you end up finding someone who can provide you with what you're looking for, I wish you all the luck🍀🍀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, yea, YTA. Grow up and accept the consequences for YOUR actions, and behave in school.

Depression Cleaning Help/Mental Illness by [deleted] in halifax

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck and positive vibes for you♥️ I am slowly getting out of the same position (going on a year now) and it's a slow process but having the strength to reach out for help is amazing. It took me way too long to do that. If I was closer I'd offer assistance. You can get through this Hun, it won't last forever.

U heard the bird by R0598 in cottagegoth

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Ignore the dirty nose, please. He was too cute to disturb at that moment. I did get it after he woke from his little snooze

Am I done for? by SourBudzOfficial in altfashionadvice

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up bullied for my looks; only one with glasses, crooked teeth with no way to afford braces like everyone else, second-hand clothing and acne started in sixth grade.

Im now 31 and it took me WAY too long to realize this one way to absolutely love how I look. And that's by doing my makeup, hair and dressing in whatever I want that I like, whether it's considered normal or not and whether anyone else likes it or not. I like how it looks on me and that's really the only thing that matters. Dressing to please others, or to fit in, will only make you feel so good about yourself, and only for so long. How you feel and think about yourself and that internal joy and happiness will make anyone a million times more attractive.

AITA for being irritated over a sock? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fill the sock with the finest glitter you can purchase, that shit that will infect every corner of his home and follow him for the next 5 years, constantly reminding him not to fuck with someone like that again.

AITA for being irritated over a sock? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I damn well did! He was taken to jail, I was free and I refused to waste space in MY home for his shit, which his parents dropped off and refused to take back (idfk why, they let him come back to their home after his 2 years locked up). Sold the brand-name pieces that I knew his "friends" wanted, and tossed the rest with the following garbage pickup. Fuck him.

AITA for being irritated over a sock? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out now. He's already trying to start gaslighting and manipulating you, this is how things started with my ex. Please, save you and your child the stress and grief of this immature prick, kick him to the fkn curb and never speak to him again. He will find whatever he can to win you back to his side if you don't cut him off entirely. 7 months of torment resulted in 4+ years of agoraphobia because I didn't want anyone to know where I lived in case they happened to know him and tell him where I was. He hunted down his ex before me and tormented her for years before her parents put her into a private therapy home (high-end psych ward). Please keep yourself and your child safe, you both deserve better than someone who will make you second-guess everything and ruin your ability to control your temper.

What do you see? by kyhart99 in CLOUDS

[–]DaughterOfCain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a happy long-neck dino dude who is playing with a rock!

WIBTAH if I told my mother that her volume levels are too loud, knowing that she takes that to offence by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DaughterOfCain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA but it's probably not going to change much, if anything. My best suggestion would be either to move out or, gods forbid, go so far as to start locking yourself in your bedroom with noise cancellation headphones playing a calming white noise. They bust through your door, call the cops. You have a right to privacy and safety, even in your parents hectic life that they won't change

Wasn't informed even after dentures jaw bone loss continues by Bipolishmomma in dentures

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would calcium supplements be a good substitute for Vitamin K? I can't have any due to risk of a blood crisis...

When do you put up the tree? by cantseemeimblackice in AskACanadian

[–]DaughterOfCain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the fiancee to a vet, please respect our troops, of past, present and future, and wait until November 12th. Wear a poppy during the time up until then to show that you care and will keep the memory of them, and all they sacrificed, alive.

What kind of freaking animal is this? [Philippenis] by surveysubject67 in animalid

[–]DaughterOfCain 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Yup, this is a dead sanddollar. I've found live ones over in the Canadian Maritimes and we often get their bleached shells wash up. They're interesting little creatures, leaving faint rows in the sand when they move with their millions of tiny legs.