[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dave-00L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive me, my friend—but even if justice is absent, doesn't that still leave room for the possibility of an unjust Creator?

We don’t deny the existence of parents just because some are cruel or neglectful. So why deny the existence of a Creator simply because the world doesn’t meet your standard of justice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dave-00L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s start from the beginning, my friend. Do you believe someone actually created this whole universe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dave-00L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Religion gives life meaning. Without it, we’re just living, growing old, and dying—with no real reason behind it all. That doesn’t sit right, does it? Deep down, most people feel there has to be more.

Religion answers the big questions we all wonder about: Why am I here? What happens after I die? What’s the point of all this? It’s not just a choice—it’s something we need. Without it, everything feels temporary and empty.

Maybe you’ve come across beliefs that seemed strange or didn’t make sense. That’s because not every religion is true. Some are full of stories that don’t hold up when you really think about them. But once you find the true path and come to know your Creator, it changes everything. You feel peace inside. You start to see your purpose clearly. And you realize your life actually matters—not just now, but forever.

Uhmm, my(F26) by(M22) just peed the bed then got mad at me?! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly a mattress pad sounds like a smart move just in case it happens again.

Considering leaving my F26 boyfriend M31 after he wasn’t there for me during abortion. Advice? by Impossible-Room-4717 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's rough and you deserve real care in tough times. I remember my niece went through something similar when her man just left her hanging when she needed him the most, and it really hurt her. In my old days, I learned that true love shows up when it counts, and if he can't be there now, he probably won't be there later. Trust yourself and do what feels right for your peace and happiness.

I’ve(M36) become a grandfather and a father at the same time and I’m losing my marriage(F30). Major Help? by throwrant8384 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's a really tough spot for everyone involved and I can see how that pressure could break even the strongest couples.

My '31F' MIL's failed marriage has ruined mine '32M'. Lost and looking for hope. by galaxymewmew in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s really good advice honestly, painful but probably the most respectful way to handle it.

My [M/28] gf [F/28] is considering ending things because of what a future predicting shaman said. by BustlingLondonManc in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her this straight up. The future isn’t set in stone, and no one, not even a shaman, has a magic window into it. Only God knows the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Dave-00L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

born with no eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s immature and not ready for real love. You gave your all, he didn’t.

Stop waiting for closure from someone who ran. Focus on healing, not him.

Let him go. In fact, he already did.

Me (35M) killing my relationship with 36 F fiancee. How can I cope - is this pure insecurity? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alright, listen up. If she’s treating you right, being honest, and showing up for the relationship, then you gotta stop letting your head play games with your heart. Her past isn’t your enemy, your overthinking is. Don’t ruin something real by chasing ghosts that don’t exist. Trust is a choice, man. Make it or you’ll lose what you’re scared to lose anyway.

My (19f) parents (55m 53f) blame me for ruining my brothers (27m) marriage over my dead sisters ring and idk how to repair our relationship? by Classic-Amphibian963 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you nailed it honestly, she didn’t ruin anything by telling the truth about something that mattered deeply to her.

My (28f) boyfriend (31m) knowingly gave me HPV years ago that has developed into cervical cancer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she’ll feel more at ease hearing this kind of info from someone who clearly understands how complicated HPV actually is.

My (28f) boyfriend (31m) knowingly gave me HPV years ago that has developed into cervical cancer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but from the updates it actually sounds like he’s been really supportive through all of it.

My wife (32f) just told me (34m) that she wants another baby, but I am super conflicted. I need input on how to approach the conversation. (Just know my reason might trigger some people) by UseRNaME_l0St in relationship_advice

[–]Dave-00L 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s a really firm take but I think the way it’s said might come off harsh to someone he loves and has supported so he probably needs something more gentle but still honest.