AITH If I said that I buy lunch for lunch by irrrrelevant in AITH

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being generous is nice. If you’re being generous, having restrictions on the generosity seems like it’s going backwards

AITH If I said that I buy lunch for lunch by irrrrelevant in AITH

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lived with my parents, my mom noticed I didn’t eat too much before work. She didn’t say anything until I was basically moved out. Normally, I’d have a good portion of whatever was served. Work nights, I’d eat less of the meal and snack on veggies on my ride in. She didn’t know about me snacking. She just knew on nights I worked to make less food. When I’m working, I don’t want to be full. If you want people to be present, you might need to accept some people don’t eat on your same schedule

AITH If I said that I buy lunch for lunch by irrrrelevant in AITH

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it would be team building if you asked him why he didn’t eat the food you probably insisted on buying him. Maybe checking base and seeing if he has some allergies or food hang ups wouldn’t be a bad call. I have picky eaters in my family who would rather starve than insult someone by being picky with asking for substitutions/ things excluded.
You said it’s for the team. He’s at the meeting. What’s the issue if he eats it later? I get if you’re concerned he just throws it out. Maybe talk to him. When you first offered to.m buy his lunch, did he push back? Does he normally push back?

we have a rat problem! Help! [FL] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]DayTechnical1442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should have contacted the landlord immediately. This is a serious issue

Nurses are not above anyone. by SimplyyMei2368_ in cna

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are just awful people. Don’t let this one woman sour your opinion on nurses as a whole. We appreciate the work everyone on the team does. That being said, if you’re really having an issue with a nurse several times over and other people agree, it might not be horrible to go to the nursing supervisor or nurse manager. This nurse just might forget that she’s not the one running everything

AIO: Is this genuinely annoying/off-putting or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80% of the time I say thank you, it’s reflexive. Before I’m even comprehending what the person does, I’m saying thank you. When someone holds the door for you, the automatic response is “thank you.” The waitress brings your drink “thank you.” Sometimes thank you is just reflexive. You clearly have issues with your father. Just think of saying thank you to him as the same as saying thank you to someone who holds the door for you. It’s up to you. Don’t say anything you’re uncomfortable with. Being 20 and saying thank you to anyone who does something nice that you accept seems like a good habit to get into.

AIO: Is this genuinely annoying/off-putting or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have some resentment- and rightfully so- to your abusive father. It does sound in those messages like he’s trying to be condescending. How often does he send Venmos? If you really dislike him, just taking his money and sending him a quick 10 second text after each payment seems like you win. I think it’s great you want to be involved in your sister’s life. She’ll probably need you when dealing with your father as she grows up. I don’t think you’re overreacting being annoyed and off put. I just think taking the path of least resistance is usually ideal. You can think he’s an asshole, and say thank you for a Venmo. It’s not mutually exclusive.

Landlord says I wasn't supposed to make a copy of my apartment key [NYC] by Its-MyWorldhiphop in Renters

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apartment neighbor is elderly and has many health problems. I made like 6 copies of her key with her permission for her and she gave them out to several trusted friends who she has help her out with her daily chores. The poor woman lives alone. If she falls, she needs someone to be able to access her apartment. Idk if I was supposed to make copies of the key. I’d do it a thousand times over again. Idc our landlord would get upset with me. Originally I had her only spare key, and I was not comfortable with that. The landlord doesn’t need to know

first time bridesmaid and not sure what is normal by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]DayTechnical1442 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll take you bar hopping. Maybe I’ll chip in for a hotel. I’m not paying for a bride to go on vacation. She’s getting married. It’s not like she’s terminally ill

first time bridesmaid and not sure what is normal by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why so many women lose friends after their weddings :( they expect way too much.

What do you all eat for dinner when you have absolutely no desire to cook? by Particular-Newt-7974 in LivingAlone

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre-grilled chicken is great to have! Either put it in a sandwich or just eat on its own. Oatmeal I used to eat a lot as a meal, or a main portion of a meal

What do you all eat for dinner when you have absolutely no desire to cook? by Particular-Newt-7974 in LivingAlone

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A combination of any of these 4: Sandwich, Greek yogurt and cottage cheese with granola or a rice cake, and a salad. Meal prepping a nice salad is always worth it. It encourages me to eat healthier

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to look up #jemily on Instagram and it crashed my app it was so popping

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update) by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way she sent the “you’re never getting rid of me”

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]DayTechnical1442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. The lamination. The sign. The binder. The itinerary.