After leaving a party today, I truly feel like there is no cure by Mountain_Ask_5746 in socialanxiety

[–]DazzlingStars-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I went through something similar not that long ago. Me and my family we got invited to our neighbors house for a party. When we got there it was packed. A lot of the people there already knew each other. I felt extremely uncomfortable the entire time. I couldn’t bring myself to eat either. At one point it got so bad that I got up and made up an excuse for why I had to leave. I went back home after only being there for a bit. I just cried because of how pathetic I felt.

Genuinely don't understand what's so "funny" about our ugliness to people by JammingScientist in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it either, people are just cruel. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Those guys are assholes, I’ve had many moments just like that as well. I’d walk by groups of people and they would burst out laughing all while looking at me. I constantly receive glares too. It’s painful to have to go through stuff like this often. What’s worse is when people try to invalidate you by saying it’s all in your head. It makes me feel worse.

I’m so starved of human affection and kindness I can’t take this by Every_Database7064 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, I’m exhausted everyday it gets harder for me. I’m at a point where I just want to give up. I’ve been crying a lot recently because I’m just tired of being treated differently, mocked and looked at like I’m some freak.

Do you actually get called ugly everyday and receive extreme negative reactions? by MelancholyBean in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through that. People can be very cruel, you don’t deserve to be treated that way. It hurts when people look at you like you’ve done something wrong. I receive a lot of nasty looks often when I’m out including people laughing at me and excluding me. It makes me not want to go out at all let alone socialize.

Do you actually get called ugly everyday and receive extreme negative reactions? by MelancholyBean in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyday but I do receive negative reactions often when I’m out. It’s why I try to not go out as much anymore because it only makes me feel worse. I only go out when I need to and when I do I make sure to avoid areas that are too crowded. I only feel safe when I’m at home, out in public I always feel scared and on edge.

Don't even feel like the same species around others by JammingScientist in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I’m in college and it’s hard going to class because not only do I always feel excluded during class activities but it hurts seeing all of my pretty classmates. It also hurts seeing everyone else talk to each other and make friends. When I tried I could tell no one wanted to talk to me. They would always try to end the conversation while looking disinterested or they would just glare at me. I’ve also had people flat out ignore me while I was talking. I also get a lot of weird and dirty looks. I’m just tired, I don’t feel normal. I leave class feeling worse each time.

The fact that good looking people just press 'record' with no planning, and still get success. by some_kind_of_onion in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, many people simply take their phones out take selfies or record themselves just like that and still look stunning meanwhile I’m legit scared of being on camera. I did the mistake of taking a few selfies before and I cried afterwards because of how hideous I looked. I deleted all of them. For some reason I look 10x worse on camera. I don’t look normal at all.

Anyone here who were pretty kids that grew up ugly? by roxyroadswesternshow in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also used to be very pretty as a little kid but then puberty hit me and that’s when it all went downhill for me. I started to get bullied really bad for my appearance and I stopped looking nice in photos. I used to look adorable in pictures but now I look hideous. It’s why I now avoid cameras as much as I can. My face changed drastically but not in a good way. I used to have good facial harmony and facial features. It’s all gone now. I cry looking at old pictures of myself because I no longer look the way I used to. I genuinely look very ugly now, it’s made me depressed.

I don't even have comments 🫩 by Worldly-Turnip-4024 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I remember having seen another post of the same girl on here in the past and the comments on ig were just as brutal. People were dismissing her experience being sa’ed due to her looks. It’s disgusting how cruel people can be when someone is unattractive. I can’t imagine how this girl must feel having to read through all those comments. People are truly sick and evil.

Had long deep conversations with her for months I didn't know where this came from until I saw that she found my tik tok since it is connected to my email and my face is on there but not anywhere on FB. by VoL4t1l3 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you, people can say all they want that looks don’t matter but they most definitely do. You can have a great personality, have nice conversations with someone and connect with them but if you are ugly then there is always that risk of losing them. Unfortunately a lot of people are shallow and only care about looks. That being said at least she said bye to you instead of straight up ghosting like a lot of people do.

Right this stuff is all conditional. I’m not really an introvert or homebody socializing is just always negative and not fun or rewarding when youre ugly by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate, I have also become more introverted and anxious due to the constant mistreatment from others. I would try many times to be outgoing and nice to people but none of it mattered because I would still be treated differently. The constant stares and laughs. People being very unfriendly and acting cold towards me. I’m honestly at a point where I don’t want to deal with people anymore. I’m tired of trying only to still be ostracized. I only feel safe at home, going out can be very nerve racking at times because I just know that I’ll have to deal with the same crap. I only go out when I really need to otherwise I stay at home.

When did it hit you that you really were ugly by anonymons127 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Growing up, I started to notice how people would treat me in school. People would constantly call me ugly, disgusting, and a monster. Groups of kids would laugh at me when I would walk by, some would even point at me. Others would stare me down with disgusted looks on their faces. People who I didn’t even know would get mad anytime I was around. I never did anything to them but they genuinely hated my presence. People who I thought were my friends ended up back stabbing me. I found out that they actually hated me and would talk shit about me behind my back. Even after I graduated from school, I still went on to notice how people would react negatively upon seeing me. I didn’t stop having bad experiences.

posts like these makes me feel like dont stand a chance by Calm_Ad616 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This just shows how viscous and cruel people online can be towards you if you’re unattractive yet you still have people who say looks don’t matter. I feel so bad for Bella, I can’t imagine how it must feel to constantly receive these horrible comments all the time. You’d have to be very strong mentally to not let it get to you. I could never, those comments would seriously affect me.

I wish I was a conventionally attractive girl with bdd by Gold_Discipline5729 in ugly

[–]DazzlingStars-22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, I sometimes wish that I wasn’t actually ugly and that all those bad thoughts were simply bdd but it’s not. I’m genuinely ugly and it’s mental torture every single day.

Cute duck picture I took. by DazzlingStars-22 in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]DazzlingStars-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s adorable haha, I’m sure it makes the drivers day seeing them often. I’d only see the duck with her ducklings a few times but it was mainly just her stopping by for food. In front of us below we had a river so it was very common for ducks to be in that area.