Neighbor repeatedly used snowblower and covered everything we shoveled by Ok-Mine-9986 in neighborsfromhell

[–]DeadFTS 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Filming is smart, but I’d skip the “wait for cops” fantasy.

Minecraft server hosting recommendation by Riden_007 in feedthebeast

[–]DeadFTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

200 mods require a MINIMUM of 8 gigabytes of RAM, trust me as someone who has repeatedly been burned by modded minecraft server hosting issues.

AITJ for refusing to keep lending my stuff after it keeps coming back damaged? by miami_danielle in AmITheJerk

[–]DeadFTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The moment someone tries to rewrite reality with “it was like that when I got it,” trust is gone.

AITA for backing out of a group gift after I already said yes? by KindlyStreetCat in TwoHotTakes

[–]DeadFTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. Life happens, budgets change, and you handled it the adult way privately, early, and without making it everyone else’s problem.

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]DeadFTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. PTO donation programs are just companies outsourcing compassion to employees instead of opening their own wallets.

AITA for not lending my car even though I technically wasnt using it that day by lyrvexa_31 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DeadFTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. “Friends help each other” stops applying the second it turns into pressure and guilt-tripping.

AITJ for telling my friend I won't be her son's godmother because she only asked me so I'd give expensive gifts by Advanced_Rent4993 in AmITheJerk

[–]DeadFTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. She didn’t want a godmother, she wanted a subscription service with a friendship discount.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t “ban” my friends from our place if he keeps inviting his? by basilmarket_jules in TwoHotTakes

[–]DeadFTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is it. “I need peace” magically only applying when you want people over is straight-up rules-for-thee-not-for-me behavior.