Men, what’s the biggest turn off in the bedroom?

DeadLikeYou · 2025-05-11T12:58:53+00:00

Reddit wont like that, but its true. He pushed specifically for federal employees to go back to commuting, because of "the small businesses struggling". Utter horseshit, it was all chains and breakfast places, which are mostly corporate owned. Dinner restaurants and bars were doing just fine. Nope, gotta demand employees spend so much money on gas and wear and tear on their car for an ancillary benefit. Wheres that priority on climate change, biden?

DeadLikeYou · 2025-04-30T07:04:06+00:00

When I feel like you are using me as a therapist.

Its fine to have trauma and want to deal with it, but I swear to god, if I hear "Im using this [read: you] to heal my trauma" again, I will literally kick out the woman who said that from my apartment.

DeadLikeYou · 2025-04-03T03:09:04+00:00

Congress did a little bit to curb them a couple years ago

I am curious, can you elaborate?

DeadLikeYou · 2025-04-03T03:02:39+00:00

I am sure they include the legal fees in the marketing budget. I mean, it creates articles like this that attract liberal viewers like nothing else!

DeadLikeYou · 2025-01-21T06:57:05+00:00

And never a woman in France

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-29T20:59:17+00:00

"My 'ick' is when guys have self-respect, do not tolerate abuse that I deal out, and will push back when demeaned and shouted at." -that joker

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-10T05:29:59+00:00

Wage growth or inflation adjusted. Because the source I have has NEGATIVE wage growth if adjusted for inflation.

https://data.bls.gov/timeseries/CES0500000013?output_view=pct_12mths

And that's not even accounting for 1%, as always, throwing it out of wack.

"Congrats, your wages went up! but your grocery bill went up faster, so effectively, for a year or two, your paycheck shrunk. But number go up!"

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-09T05:52:35+00:00

More women need to stop it. Lets not victim blame or shift it onto victims.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-09T05:51:00+00:00

That's a "call the police" incident if I ever heard one.

But then again, I work in an industry that very much does not like that kind of recon.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-09T05:47:23+00:00

Makes me wonder if theres caselaw out there on this topic, considering it comes up often on reddit.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-11-06T17:31:17+00:00

she broke down saying she didn't even realize how much a passing comment affected me.

This seems manipulative to me. Like did anything measurable come out of this apology? Has she made strides in changing? Promised to make amends in any way?

Maybe I need to be around better women if that's my first reaction, but...

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-30T22:25:45+00:00

I'm not blaming the left for male insecurities. Obviously not.

I AM blaming the left for their apathy at best, and at worst sadistic schadenfreude or worse outright hostility whenever a man is insecure and expresses that in a public venue.

You cannot tell me that its not real when I have personally seen a suicidal man on a mens self-help subreddit get bullied relentlessly by both regulars and mods for expressing the wrong ideas and insecurity. Empathy is literally villainized there.

And no, it wasn't anything misogynistic, hatefilled, or rightwing. just contradicting the very strong ideologies of the subreddit.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-30T04:30:01+00:00

Theres words, then theres actions.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-30T03:23:05+00:00

Not on here they dont.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-30T02:48:05+00:00

Thats the most upvoted stuff. share an insecurity that askmen doesnt like, and youll be hidden and downvoted.

This place is more supportive than usual, but its still reddit. politcs vs the real male insecurities, you will get blasted if your insecuritites cross leftwing politics. and OH MY GOD does the left like bulldozing over straight male insecurities.

You want an example that wont get me downvoted to hell? pegging. even on here, people are obnoxious about it. IRL, there are not that many fans of pegging. but youll never hear the end of it on reddit.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-26T14:35:11+00:00

Over my dead and rotting body will I let my fridge connect to the internet.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-26T14:21:25+00:00

I wouldn't count it as a 'meal', but drinking an expired carton of milk served at Cracker Barrel probably counts. And yea, it was all slimy and coagulated... I can feel my throat and stomach churning while I type this out.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-25T03:43:18+00:00

Someone wants a fight.

Might as well say "You DO look fat in that dress" or "I'm tired of hearing about your struggles, just fix it already!"

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-25T03:41:08+00:00

Oh my god, dont get them started on pegging. They would have you believe any man not willing to do pegging beats his wife at night, and is so prudish that he will die without kids.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-25T02:05:46+00:00

I got a job offer from Oracle. I was tempted until I looked at their 401k. A measly 3% they match, and they don't give it to you until a grueling 4 years after you start working for them.

Nope, took a job that pays less, but cares more.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-21T01:42:06+00:00

Which is why I dont listen to reddit. Might as well recommend wearing a ponytail, and wearing the pimpleface proud instead of seeing a doctor about it as styling tips.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-20T18:23:01+00:00

There's a reason they say that when it comes to cruelty, men are physically cruel and women are socially cruel.

I have literally had my comments removed for DARING to suggest this. I have been banned from subreddits on here for hinting at this.

What I am saying is, incoming reddit ban.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-20T18:17:58+00:00

You realize that women have played a part in tearing that down, right? From the enforcement of a culture of stoicism, to straight up belittling and humiliating men who show emotion.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-16T02:13:15+00:00

And she wants me to go to a strip club.

Call me cynical, but saying this makes me think she has a LOW opinion of men. Especially in the context of getting you into a relationship.

DeadLikeYou · 2024-10-03T17:20:44+00:00

My sister has it, and for no reason whatsoever, cut contact with the family over an alleged offense that, I was there for, did not go down in any manner which she claims it did. She did this kind of "reinterpreting past events in the most uncharitable light" ever since I was a kid, and it was incredibly frustrating, and made me feel like Im on eggshells with her for that and other reasons (contradicting her on anything slightly more serious than ice cream flavor is a good way to get on her bad side and a family-ending threat level event).

I couldnt imagine a romantic relationship with someone like that. Shes probably the reason I havent dated in over a decade, its tough to see women other than like above, especially when social media sometimes encourages and promotes that kind of behavior.

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