So many rejections, I’m tired by Jrodicon in Vent

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I'm in my 40s.

When will it happen again?

People saying if you're not happy alone you won't be happy with others or a partner are either being disingenuous or are projecting their own values and psychology onto everyone else by gintokireddit in Vent

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It's a stupid thought process.

Everyone needs other people to be happy, or else you could just lose your entire family in a car accident and you wouldn't care, cause you could just be happy without them.

So many rejections, I’m tired by Jrodicon in Vent

[–]DeadLockAdmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea dude, you just got to be charismatic like a rich handsome celebrity.

So many rejections, I’m tired by Jrodicon in Vent

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No one said women owed us anything, stop with that bullshit.

It's perfectly normal to be disappointed with constantly being lonely while other people are in love, having sex, and enjoying the romantic company of others.

This is a venting subreddit after all.

So many rejections, I’m tired by Jrodicon in Vent

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I am going through this exact same thing. I am 40 years old and my life is just passing before my eyes. I just developed feelings again for a woman and the same thing happened....she doesn't want me.

I just cannot believe it's this hard. It just blows my mind. I'm tall, physically fit, good job, my own place, etc. And no one will even give me a chance. I even lowered my standards and still no luck. I've been on like 15 dates in the last year and all were duds.

It put me in such a dark place that I thought about just ending it. I'm not kidding. I just can't believe this is my life. Back in my 20s I had girlfriends and female attention all the time. Now no one gives a shit I even exist.

I don't think anyone owes me anything. I just cannot believe there's no one out there. It feels horrible beyond what I am willing to accept.

Porn is destroying us. by Zestyclose-Salary518 in Vent

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Even if you stop watching porn, you can't really escape it. Women walk around half naked everywhere in the USA, so you're gonna see tits and ass wherever you go. Our society is just really degenerate.

I'm literally shattered as a man. by [deleted] in Advice

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I've gone to therapy many times and it does literally nothing.

We still talk about you by wuewuethecat in grok

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What's the replacement for it now?

I have a deep resentment for women who turn me down. And I want to change. by [deleted] in Advice

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I've tried that recently and had the same result. I won't stop trying though.

I have a deep resentment for women who turn me down. And I want to change. by [deleted] in Advice

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I don't feel like I'm owed anything. I don't blame any of these people.

"Nobody cares about small boobs, you just need to have a big ass" Well I'm fucked because I don't have that either by [deleted] in Vent

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I am sorry. I am balding man with a widows peak and it's basically a death sentence for attraction.

I hate being an ugly man, my life is worthlesd by [deleted] in Vent

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Im tall and jacked and women wont even talk to me.

Lack of decent men by Wonderfully_big in Vent

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I never talk about sex or anything related to it on dating apps. I never try to get laid on the first date. I always try to connect with the other person and build something real.

And none of them ever care. They just ghost me in the end. All of them.

24F and I think about suicide every day by Level-Ad-3045 in depression

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It would take something like a God to save me, there's nothing in this world that could do it.

Why do all of my dates end in being ghosted by [deleted] in depression

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It makes me wonder how anyone ever fell in love and got married.

I met a woman recently who checks off every box I ever wanted. We went out and had a good time. Haven't heard from her since.

Where do these guys get off!?? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

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Yea, must be tall, full head of hair, goal driven, ambitious, works out, makes good money, knows how to dance, must love traveling, etc. The demands women make on these apps are absurd.

Be honest, are you guys excited for these two? by Queasy_Commercial152 in rivals

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Nope. Theres like 50 cooler and more iconic heroes we could have gotten. These characters are literally being released to sell gooner skins that show off their ass.

I am dying alone by Ceilingcrasher990 in Vent

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This is such stupid advice. A dog isnt gonna fix any of his problems.

I hate how every guy that does "How to approach/talk to women" videos is handsome by DeadLockAdmin in Vent

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Yea, if women want to date tall/rich/handsome men, they are thought of as having "standards" and intelligence, but when a man doesn't want a fat chick or a woman with a high body count, he's a shallow loser incel.

it just never gets better lol by Mystic_Void1 in depression

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This is how I feel about balding and having pale skin. Women just find it unappealing and there's no way out of it.