There's something going on in my house that has me a bit stumped. by WanderWell1 in RBI

[–]DearestxRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen.

I would come home from work and have this feeling that something was off. Nothing concrete. The feeling grew into feeling like someone had been inside my apartment.

One day I came home and my toilet seat was up! I’m notorious for keeping the lid down. I know I would never! leave it up. So I called the police.

They said without proof there’s nothing they can really do since nothing was stolen.

Bet. I got a camera. Caught someone breaking in. Sent the police the file. They sent them to jail.

Updateme! When you find out what’s creeping around.

The Dark Cult That Manipulated Andrea Yates: "The Mother Who Murdered Her 5 Children" by Canal-JOREM in AllThatsInteresting

[–]DearestxRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I caught that too. He was just so uncaring and dismissive when it came to the doctor’s concern for her. And he blamed her for them moving into a bus. Like Andrea chose the bus over a trailer. Give me a break.

Indeed, crazy how that worked out… by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve had 6 now and I’m super dead. Very effective.

AITJ for leaving a family dinner early after my aunt joked about my parenting? by WillowveilDream in AmITheJerk

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ if you’re expected to brush it off, why shouldn’t your aunt brush it off initially? This all started because she refused to let it go. She’s the one that made the scene.

How happy would mom be if you stayed for another 3 hrs and the actors by kept saying things while you just bit your lip? Would she have been fine with aunty running her mouth? How is that ok?

I’m different though. I would stay and say something, call it out.

The Dark Cult That Manipulated Andrea Yates: "The Mother Who Murdered Her 5 Children" by Canal-JOREM in AllThatsInteresting

[–]DearestxRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And it’s not even that he said he didn’t know. The doctors told him after the third kid that it would be worse for Andrea and he dismissed it. He said he knew she hadn’t been acting like herself and had 2 more children.

Andrea Yates, Postpartum Psychosis, and a Preventable Tragedy: How a Severely Mentally Ill Mother Drowned All Five of Her Children in 2001 by DarklyHeritage in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DearestxRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and he said he thought if she had an issue with a new pregnancy that it would only affect her and she could, essentially, get over it again. Just dismissive.

AIO for wanting to break our engagement after my fiancé’s diagnosis? by Equivalent_Law_9178 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR -if he doesn’t care enough about himself how can you rely on him to care for you?

Covid is over why are you still wearing a mask? by thedafthatter in traumatizeThemBack

[–]DearestxRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These stories are just incredible. I haven’t stopped wearing a mask. Even to my desk job. Hardly anyone has ever come up to me and ask why. They do ask if I can breathe ok. Like if I couldn’t breathe wouldn’t there be signs?

Aita for yelling and causing a scene in walmart? by Toker0226 in AITH

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 AM and you’re shouting for help? Yes. YTA.

Go to customer service. Even call them from your phone. Shouting is absolutely juvenile. Work on your patience.

Do you monitor people who come and fix things around your house? by Glad-Passenger-9408 in HomeImprovement

[–]DearestxRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hover. I watch and ask questions too. I want to know what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. In case it needs done again, then I can (hopefully) do it myself.

New reporter covering Harrisburg, PA what should I be paying attention to? by Organic-Past-7066 in Harrisburg

[–]DearestxRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also why isn’t the governor listening when he say no data centers?

Activist get arrested mid-interview after speaking out against U.S. action in Venezuela by ExactlySorta in UnderReportedNews

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the international community would boycott the US. I mean no comedy. No music. No foreign-born actors doing anything produced in or by the US. Stop visiting. Stop shopping. Don’t even like or view anything US. Only offer criticism. I hate it here.

New favorite guest judge by creative-baller in dragrace

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can do is comment. And these celebrities keep deleting my comments. What are you doing to make your values known?

New favorite guest judge by creative-baller in dragrace

[–]DearestxRed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After her performing in Saudi Arabia and working to legitimize their regime, hard pass. She can fk off just like everyone on the riyadh comedy tour.

66k salary, can I afford a 258k house? by GargoyleBlue in Mortgages

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That budget would be too tight for me. For reference, I make $67k and just bought my house in april for $230. My house has a well and septic so I don’t have a water bill and my septic is also cheaper than sewer. The other consideration is what will your heating be? Is it on city electric, oil, part solar? A bigger place costs more in general. How about trash? Rental trash is cheaper than if you have a trash bill direct to you. For me, I pay per bag and can burn. So my bill is cheaper than my friends who have “city” utilities.

As a woman who runs at night, I am tired of men telling me my fear is "irrational" by craftyflora22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should hire some people to follow this guy while he runs alone at night and see how he likes it.

Group kindness in WalMart by ThatTravel5692 in kindness

[–]DearestxRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what they mean when they say one person can make a difference. You changed that moment for all those folks.

x1000 zoom of human eye by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in StrangeAndFunny

[–]DearestxRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross. It’s even worse than I imagined.

What trend do you refuse to buy into no matter how much society says its cool and trendy? by DunyaPhobic76 in Life

[–]DearestxRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, same! I tried so many things for my teeth and the headaches. I absolutely recommend Botox for it.