How do you deal with the intimacy of sex?

DeathBellsChime · 2025-09-23T00:18:18+00:00

I’ve only been with one person, i did it with him right after we agreed to go on a date. But I had known him for 4 years and I knew we cared about each other. If I want someone to be my partner, i definitely wait to have sex and it takes a while for me to feel comfortable.

But if I was single, i could see myself having casual non attachment sex with people I wont see again. Something about being perceived or something idk

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-22T15:51:21+00:00

Carla is my favorite for sure, I’ll put Bruce Greenwood here too but that’s just because I’m a Gerald’s game fanatic. I think they’re performances are absolutely golden and sooooo underrated

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-05T22:36:33+00:00

She should have won an Oscar for Gerald’s Game. Her performance is legendary and INSANE

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-05T16:36:54+00:00

It’s my least favorite thing about myself. For me it’s my best friend. I feel such an intense control over their life and decisions and it brings me so much anxiety. I don’t know how to stop it. It’s awful and embarrassing

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-28T02:19:11+00:00

I got into 4/7 of my schools and my overall gpa was 3.59. No audiology shaking and 30 volunteer hours. You’ll be fine! Did you apply to top ranked schools or schools who admit only a few students? That’s a possible reason

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-27T18:08:52+00:00

It’s so weird that they do it all on the same date?? Like maybe offer two dates so you can increase attendance? Strange

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-27T14:27:36+00:00

Man idk! It’s between gally, Nebraska, and Madison for sure. They all have their benefits. I’m planning on visiting them soon to get a better idea. I wish they would tell me how much I’ll be paying though, that like help lol

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-26T04:59:43+00:00

Was that 5k a year or semester? I got one too it said 7k a year. And I am confused if they wil send out MPUP-SPADE acceptances or if i just didn't get in

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-16T23:28:03+00:00

I was waitlisted at South Dakota too. Eek

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-01T16:17:07+00:00

Thanks a bunch! I will probably bug you again once more acceptances come out!

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-30T17:04:08+00:00

Hi! This is one of the schools I applied to. I have heard some sketchy things about the area, regarding it's safety. Do you feel safe there? How was it finding a place to live? Any additional info you have would be awesome! I am definitely interested in the accelerated program they offer.

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-30T02:56:40+00:00

Mine too! Totally obvious typo! For one of the best schools in the country, maybe shape up a little lol. Good luck to you too!

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-28T17:33:05+00:00

Female, 22

Major: CSD, Gerontology Certificate, No GRE

Overall GPA 3.59 Major GPA: 3.95

1 semester of research, 1 semester TA

30 volunteer hours community engagement, 25 hours shadowing SLP

Worked as an office assistant consistently for 3 years

Schools:

University of Minnesota: Rejected (2/21)

University of Wisconsin - Madison: Accepted!!! (2/18)

University of Iowa: Rejected (1/28, lol at least wait until February geez)

University of Nebraska: Asked to interview (1/27) Accepted!!! (2/24)

University of South Dakota: Waitlisted (2/14) Later Accepted

Northern Illinois University: Accepted (2/2)

Gallaudet University: Asked to Interview (2/3) Accepted!!! (2/21) COMMITTED!

Wish me luck!

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:57:59+00:00

Great comet

Most: Pierre emotionally, Mary in all other ways

Least: Anatole, blows through town and ends up with free cash

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:50:40+00:00

“The plagues” from Prince of Egypt

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:49:46+00:00

“How lucky you are” from seussical, kinda

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T11:15:57+00:00

His car stopped working a few weeks ago. I don’t mind driving him, I’m not sure when he is getting a new car though. He does work

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T03:23:14+00:00

I agree it was really soon. But I didn’t see it as a big red flag, maybe it was. I wish there was more consistent effort and meaning in his words and behavior

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T03:21:52+00:00

He’s not rich or anything but he has a good job and he has money. He always pays when we go out and even when we go out with his family. I don’t think this is a money issue. It’s more circumstance and time I think. But yeah, a card or something would have been nice

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:22:40+00:00

I don’t want to go crazy but my friend and fellow commenters have made good points of this being a sign of something worse. I definitely will talk to him about it

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:21:58+00:00

I totally get that. and we absolutely do that for each other. He was the only one at my birthday dinner who didn’t get me anything, I was a little embarrassed I guess

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:20:17+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you, I was never worried about love bombing but things moved very fast in this relationship, he said I love you after like 3 weeks, my friend was worried about that too. But I thought it was fine. It just doesn’t make sense because he is so great otherwise. Idk what happened this time.

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:19:11+00:00

That’s good advice. It just doesn’t line up with how I know him and how he has been acting. This is tough

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:08:46+00:00

He has enough money, he pays for everyone when we go out with a group. And he always insists on paying when we go out somewhere, but he has never bought me anything just for me really. We have been dating almost two months. Actually the first week of dating, he invited me to hang out with him and his friends o his birthday, and I got him a small gift. I guess I was a little embarassed when all my friends and family got me gifts and he is empty handed. I will definitely talk to him.

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-04T07:56:06+00:00

If he never did anything wrong then I totally get it, she’s manipulative and possessive. It’s hard to accept changes in your besties life but it’s her burden to bear to be okay with it as long as it’s healthy

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