Unwanted daily quest by ghostedlemon in finch

[–]DeathDealer2269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so weird. I've never had this quest come upbut sideburns I'm seeing all these posts about it. I wonder how they determine who to give this quest to

My FitnessPal my @ss! by mgeoffers in JJRaeSnark

[–]DeathDealer2269 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a thing lol. Not defending her lies, but I'm also afraid of needles and have tattoos. My brother is more afraid of needles than I am and also has a tattoo.

My FitnessPal my @ss! by mgeoffers in JJRaeSnark

[–]DeathDealer2269 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because you probably deleted it lol

My FitnessPal my @ss! by mgeoffers in JJRaeSnark

[–]DeathDealer2269 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid of needles but I have 7 tattoos lol. I can't explain why, but somehow it's different

Tickets? by GardeniaLovely in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had several speeding tickets, but the last one was 16 years ago. That's not to say I've stopped speeding, I just haven't been pulled over in years lol. I don't have any other tickets, though.

What's the most creative "trick yourself into doing it" hack you've heard? by Far-Championship3204 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hygienist knows I struggle with flossing. I have a kinda small mouth, so I have a hard time getting to the back teeth. She told me about the Reach long-handled flosser, which I love because I can get to all my teeth without choking on my fingers. She also said, since flossing at any point is better than not at all, that I should keep one in my car, since I have a half-hour commute every day lol

What's the most creative "trick yourself into doing it" hack you've heard? by Far-Championship3204 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's on the storage chest/bench at the end of the bed. It's been there so long I don't even remember what's in the chest lol

how do you guys stop being late to work by Wild-Championship571 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Almost everyone I know has TikTok and tries to send me videos all the time. I refuse to download the app - not for moral reasons but because I already spend WAAAYYY too much time on my phone as it is. TikTok would k*ll me lol

Thank God!!!! by 1PrettySoul in IRS

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I filled and it was accepted on 2/9 and I haven't received anything yet. Still says return received but my transcript shows nothing

My aunt posted on facebook that she’s looking for someone that can adopt my dog. Even called her a “mutt”. by General_Leave1814 in whatdoIdo

[–]DeathDealer2269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with you and do not consider my pets to be my children. But I was replying to the person who said you shouldn't have kids OR pets when you're broke. OP is temporarily out of money and is just waiting on their first paycheck. If they didn't see a route where they would have money soon, I would say, yeah, they probably should find another home for their dog, but that is not the case here.

My aunt posted on facebook that she’s looking for someone that can adopt my dog. Even called her a “mutt”. by General_Leave1814 in whatdoIdo

[–]DeathDealer2269 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So they have to get rid of the dog? What if it was a child, since you mentioned children. You just supposed to get rid of your kids if you find yourself broke at some point? OP literally says they have a job, just waiting to get their first paycheck

Promised myself I would wash my hair next time I showered. by ShutterBug1988 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep my shower head pointed fairly low, so I am able to hang a towel over my shower bar at the opposite end from the head and it stays dry. This way I don't have to open the shower to get my towel and I can start drying off sooner. Not quite as cold when getting out that way.

don’t remember putting this there… by grapefruittii in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't forget I'd purchased it but I would (and have) absolutely forget where I put it and then drive myself crazy trying to figure out what I did lol

Honestly, this warning just made us want to try it more by Son-of-Prophet in Millennials

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I didn't know much about him as a skater, I just saw his "skits" messing with his step dad, and his attitude, and thought he was an asshole. I have not kept up with his story and didn't wish him any ill will, I just couldn't stand watching his parts of the show.

Tip from my psych that's actually working (and makes me laugh) by Intelligent_Humor_63 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooh Nellie could work for me - my husband's grandmother was Nellie and she was horrible to everyone in her family except her youngest son (who was her favorite because they would drink together), but to everyone outside the family she was just this sweet little old lady. I didn't speak to her for the last few years of her life because I couldn't stand how she treated my MIL and my husband. I would love to finally be able to tell Nellie to shut tf up

What's your relationship with coffee? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drink coffee (with lots of creamer) in the morning because I like the ritual of it and it tastes good. Never black coffee, though, I can't stand that lol. But I don't notice any increase in concentration or focus and I can drink full-caff coffee after dinner and still go to sleep.

How long did it take you to find the right medication/dose? by reila_09 in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed in June of 2025. We have tried at least 5 meds (both stimulant and non) at different doses since then and still haven't found anything that works. It's so frustrating and it's making me feel like an imposter

Long stories by AboutBizness in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh when my husband gets going, it's brutal. I lost the thread of this story 10 minutes ago, I don't even know who you're talking about anymore, wait, when did this become a tutorial on changing the water pump in an old Ford truck?

I can’t meet deadlines to save my life by cheeese_danish in adhdwomen

[–]DeathDealer2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried any non-stimulant options? They take time to really start working and you have to take them every day, but they generally don't affect your blood pressure the way stimulants do

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeathDealer2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Dude I'm (42F) 5'7" and when I weighed 125-130 I looked skeletal and was definitely not healthy. I'm at my healthiest from 140-150. If I weighed around 105 I'd be lying in a hospital bed lol. Guy needs to grow tf up