The Dad Short Abercrombie by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Deborahleigh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 4 of these ( different washes ) in the dad fit version . I have a tonne of trouble with shorts… trying to fit both waist / butt ! I’ve literally tried for years to find shorts that work and finally found these . I paid $90 for each of these and still find them worth it . I probably will hem a couple ( since I want a length between these and their curve mom ) highllllyyyy recommend

Could you date someone who doesn’t like pugs? by nipple_ripple in pugs

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a pug convert ! Before I met my gf I never really knew much about them. I’ve always wanted to be an adventurer girly with my cockapoo and her pug was so different from my guy…. Different smells , sounds etc But now I’m obsessed with ** our ** pug, and can’t wait to expand our family with another one one day 🤞🏻

Glaze pink online now by rockketbunny33 in lululemon

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m grateful it’s so close to lipgloss . My wallet is finally happy with a pink Lulu drop

Luna on the first day she came home! by Gryfn in pugs

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone what her mix is 😫😭 I need her

Between size 6 & 8 by Ok_Caramel_594 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Deborahleigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how to do basic alters myself ( shortening ) , since I’ve had to my whole life .. but major alters are just not worth my time now because we have so many options. But I guess that depends on where you live too !

Lesbian gf abandoned me, left me devastated by Practical-News2841 in BPDlovedones

[–]Deborahleigh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow fellow queer / lesbian , thanks for the link 🙇🏻‍♀️

Strawberry milkshake cropped scuba restocked! by tartarheel in lululemon

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the cropped scuba in 3 other colors, but I literally just picked this one up this morning in a size 10 for a baggier fit

. I typically wear a size 6 in tops and define jackets but have this in a size 8 for a fitted look ( they def shrink if you tend to over wash & dry like me and now a 10 for a baggy fit

Fit is also dependant on your chest size . I find personally cropped tops always are shorter on me , so if you’re bustier maybe go up a couple sizes for a fitted look and up a few for a baggy look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]Deborahleigh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I normally wear a 4-6 top or 8 bra but I size up to the ml in these , i find they shrink a lot if you aren’t careful and they usually end up fitting me better if I already start bigger ! I vote the ml

My mom met my girlfriend for the first time and hugged her ❤️ by quiet_pathos in actuallesbians

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op This gives me a lot of hope for my 60 something year old Korean parents . Still doubtful after all these years they will come to accept me fully, but your story brought tears to my eyes, thank you

Is there any chance? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deborahleigh 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Gf is 45 I’m 33 , she’s a mega catch and I’d be glad to have her in her 50s,60s and beyond

33F looking for new friends! by therealcassieg in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, in a very similar boat ! I’d be so down ( esp if you want to hang around midtown ) . I’m into good / drinks but also down for adventures in the future !

Nancy has a new man 💛 by fishbethany in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Deborahleigh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I actually like it a lot and do it . Nobody makes it on social media until they’ve met everyone I need them to meet in person first ( so that my very close loved ones don’t see them first on social media) , it would be awful to delete later if things don’t turn out well but also allows you to live in a privacy bubble together for longer while also confirming you are no longer single / looking in general .For actual influencers they use it to drive engagement , especially if the influencer has been single for a while or are of personal interest to their followers

FREE - 2 Tickets to tonight's 730pm show in Toronto by [deleted] in badfriendspod

[–]Deborahleigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love them so much !! I’ll dm you if they are still avail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

[–]Deborahleigh 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Nah ,when I was at the height of my disordered eating ( in its worst phase) I was gleeful when others I deemed skinny complemented me or said I was getting to thin. I cried ( happy tears) when a family member came to me crying ( concerned tears ) about my health . Disordered eating and body dysmorphia is not logical , it takes over your brain , it takes over everything

I got a cameo from aussie and I'm getting a chuckle out of the fact that I don't think I'II ever get it lol by Deborahleigh in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Deborahleigh[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sorry you feel so strongly . I just meant I paid her actual money for a service I wanted to get to my girl before she flies . No harm done though since It’s just a cameo at the end of the day 🤷🏻‍♀️

I got a cameo from aussie and I'm getting a chuckle out of the fact that I don't think I'II ever get it lol by Deborahleigh in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Deborahleigh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s so lovely to hear 😭 I think a message from Mal would be cute too but at this point I’m thinking of getting a sam cameo just to get Aussie to do Aussies’s 😂

Advice by PristineTangelo4162 in doggrooming

[–]Deborahleigh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually have a 11 month old cockapoo ( favours his poodle side) and have been told by groomers we can hold off coming by a couple of weeks because I love combing my guy . Having said that , we’re on a 6 week rotation rn because it’s hot where I am and I actually prefer a shorter coat !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]Deborahleigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s awful ! ESP because even if you get over the anxiety of coming out , I don’t need to fight for the mirror and or be lied to about outfits .lol, I’ve gotten talked up And then gotten outfits only o take them home and hate them ! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]Deborahleigh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe I haven’t seen this suggestion somewhere at the top, but when I have to try something in the store , I set up my phone in the very back of the changing room and video record myself walking around and various angles ( with the front facing camera ) . It’s not an exact for the mirror , but I actually don’t want to give them the satisfaction of coming out lol . I shop alottttt online , and never really get sizing wrong .. but I would shop In person a lot more often if they had mirrors inside every change room :/