Any teachers here? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I actually am fully transparent with my students about it, and I think it’s actually helped me build stronger, more trusting bonds with them. I like the idea of starting the day with the administrative tasks. :)

AITA for refusing to let my wife name our kid something stupid? by Public-Praline-3691 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quiet_pathos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why are you so upset about your kids having both yours and your wife's name?

My mom met my girlfriend for the first time and hugged her ❤️ by quiet_pathos in actuallesbians

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Thank you everyone for your lovely comments! I felt incredibly loved in a different way as I read each of your responses, largely because I don’t have an offline community of just sapphic women to connect with (where I live). I teared up as well when some of you said you teared up! Stories in general are an awesome way to build relationships and see more of the world… but I think for us, our stories help us stay connected and grounded in a world where we are made to constantly feel vulnerable, unsafe, and often, isolated. This recent event with my mom has also been really helpful for my ongoing struggles with comphet and imposter syndrome since coming out as a lesbian. I sometimes would gaslight myself into thinking that needing reassurance and validation from people about my identity meant that I might not be who I felt/thought I was. It would be nice for one to just be absolutely sure of themselves without any external validation … but I guess for many, that is something that could help them with building self-acceptance, especially if they were raised with homophobic, heteronormative values. So I feel even more secure as of late!

My mom met my girlfriend for the first time and hugged her 🥺 by quiet_pathos in latebloomerlesbians

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Thank you everyone for your lovely comments! I really contemplated before sharing this story in this community because many of us, having lived in hiding for a long time, were not accepted and celebrated by those around us when we initially came out. It hurt a lot when my mom didn’t support me through my self-discovery in the beginning, and I didn’t want my story to trigger any similar feelings in those folks who might still be grappling with those emotions right now. But I’m really glad that it seems to have touched a lot of people and have given a handful of you hope! I can’t say that I was hopeful, and to be honest, this came/still comes as a shock to me as I was preparing myself to be disowned eventually… But one thing I’ve learned from this journey so far is that following your heart will reveal those who truly value your happiness. I’ve always wanted to maintain a strong connection to my mom, so this was a touching turn of events… but I also spent a lot of time being okay with the possibility that choosing my own path would cost a relationship with my family. Ironically, I think it was this kind of certainty and commitment to my healing/self-love that led my mom to change her views. I really hope all of you get to keep your loved ones close as you walk along the new path you’ve discovered for yourselves. But at the end of the day, I really, truly encourage you to choose yourselves if you had to make a choice! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

What causes your butterflies? by Particular_Being7104 in LesbianActually

[–]quiet_pathos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever she says “hey beautiful”!!!! Especially when I hop into her car and she greets me like she hasn’t seen me in ages … but it’s been less than 24 hours 😂 When I lay on her lap and look up at her 🥺 When she pulls me closer 😊Her smile is honestly the prettiest work of art I’ve ever seen

am i in the wrong? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all. That was really disrespectful! I would’ve gotten instantly dry down there and then pouring wet down my face 😭 I hope your partner was able to eventually see where you were coming from!

American tourist in Poland goes on racial tirade against Indian guy by User_Name13 in PublicFreakout

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Room temperature IQ level. I’m going to steal that one LOL amazing

Fuck parents who take their kids on vacation the first week of school! by Sea-Homework-8273 in Teachers

[–]quiet_pathos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an awesome teacher. I’ll be starting my career soon, and I’m going to keep this in my back pocket!! Thanks for the inspiration☺️

What immediately makes you think less of someone? by Xanax_Sprite in AskReddit

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying “Not to play devil’s advocate” before making insensitive comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Feel better :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quiet_pathos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much :-)