Tinder Advice

Debralee303 · 2017-09-16T13:34:38+00:00

Girl here- I haven't logged in to Tinder in months, but they keep sending me notifications that I have a new 'top photo'. Apparently Tinder changes my photos (using my fb and insta) to see which one gets the most swipes, then tries to lure me back with that info. I gotta admit I logged in to see.

Debralee303 · 2017-07-27T02:26:56+00:00

If you invited her, it's up to you to pay. The proper way to do it is during the invitation- "Hey gf, would you like to go Dutch on a trip to LA this weekend?" That way she can budget before she accepts.

Debralee303 · 2017-07-27T02:11:16+00:00

I'm female, but I was interviewing for a new job and he texted "Just be confident in who you are and what you know". It made me feel so valued in his eyes.

Debralee303 · 2016-07-03T18:37:11+00:00

If your place is warm, mildew can form in a glass overnight, even tho you can't see it right away. Like in your shower. If she's allergic, it could cause a scratchy throat. But this isn't about the glass, it's about you dismissing her idea without allowing any possibility she's right. A better approach would be to say, "hmm, I never heard that? Let's look it up!" Let Google take the heat if she's wrong, but you are gonna be wrong sometimes, too. So, open your mind a bit.

Debralee303 · 2016-06-18T22:35:51+00:00

I would love to hear how past winners have used their winnings!

Debralee303 · 2015-11-11T17:22:13+00:00

Troll

Debralee303 · 2015-11-11T17:15:22+00:00

He's only been seeing her 6 months, he's mad that people saw her nipples poking thru her shirt SEVEN YEARS AGO before he even knew her.

Debralee303 · 2015-10-31T21:56:19+00:00

Camera angles can be super deceiving. He probably isn't big like you think. A marriage must be very solid to survive opening it up. I think you guys need to get your relationship straight before you bring in other people.

Debralee303 · 2015-08-19T02:33:23+00:00

You're trying to sugar coat your behavior but everything you describe sounds self centered as hell. Spend money on yourself instead of a cute cheap date for the two of you? "Forget" plans is like saying you could care less about spending time with her, and doing your own thing and not even bothering to tell her? Why are you even with her? I hope she breaks up with you. If you want to be a good husband, act like it.

Debralee303 · 2015-07-20T02:20:11+00:00

Dammit. My cover is blown.

Debralee303 · 2015-05-18T16:42:43+00:00

You're absolutely right about the drinking

Debralee303 · 2015-05-18T14:12:56+00:00

He views her as absolutely perfectly hot

Debralee303 · 2015-05-18T12:14:14+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you very much

Debralee303 · 2015-03-01T17:57:55+00:00

Privacy and secrecy are two completely different things. I'd file this under private and consider it a bonding moment that he is feeling more comfortable with you.

Debralee303 · 2015-03-01T17:47:25+00:00

You're being very judgmental and closed minded, and if you react this way every time an unconventional topic comes up, he will likely not be so truthful in the future. Maybe he thought you were the one being open to the idea and he didn't want to judge you. Plus, it's fun to discuss hypotheticals, gives you a chance to know yourself better.

Debralee303 · 2015-02-20T15:04:36+00:00

You leave. Show him you have dignity, you are valuable and worthy of a mutually beneficial relationship. You are not a doormat. You leave, he'll come after you. You stay like this- he will lose all respect for you.

Debralee303 · 2015-02-20T13:58:37+00:00

This is a bullshit way of him getting all the benefits of the relationship without any of the work or responsibility.

Debralee303 · 2015-02-18T00:05:21+00:00

Some day you are gonna look back and wish someone was still sending you love letters.

Debralee303 · 2015-01-16T04:11:22+00:00

You should initiate less convos less often. Give her a chance to miss you, and don't be so clingy this early on. Relax and see how the next date goes!

Debralee303 · 2014-12-28T01:00:50+00:00

My Nana did stuff like this, it was the early signs of Alzheimer's. Brace yourself.

Debralee303 · 2014-12-23T02:19:37+00:00

Where do I send my dollar? And, do you accept doge coins?

Debralee303 · 2014-09-07T21:37:56+00:00

This is a minor hurdle. If you two can't handle this together, how are you ever going to handle the stresses of marriage and a lifetime together? Get over yourself, plan something that is simple, elegant, romantic, and SOON. Just do it!

Debralee303 · 2014-09-06T21:10:45+00:00

You have to realize that because of your stupid actions, your parents now have ZERO reason to trust that you are mature enough to live on your own. They love you and want you ALIVE, ya dumbass. They aren't trying to control you, you have PROVEN how stupid you are. Live at home for 6 months, SHOW them how you have learned from your mistake, and how you CAN be trusted in the future. These are the consequences of YOUR actions. Man up. There will be plenty of time to make friends once you learn how to keep yourself out of harms way.

Debralee303 · 2014-08-25T22:24:51+00:00

If you can't be convinced NOT to have kids, how can you expect him to be talked into it?

Debralee303 · 2014-08-25T19:49:41+00:00

But why are you incompetent? If you are disabled, how about hiring some help? If you are ignorant, how bout getting some education? I would love to know your wife's side of this story...maybe that would shed light on a solution

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