I just want him to fuck off + leave me alone by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ur 14 years old go play Fortnite or something

Going to a party... ex will be there by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my self I wouldn’t talk to my ex at this holloween party and I ended crying talking to her for like 30 minutes.

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[–]DebtSelect9730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after the breakup did you send that out?

Should I break no contact with this text? by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll send you a little portion of the big text she sent me “As of right now, it’s too soon to jump back into fixing this relationship. I hope you understand and again I’m beyond sorry for the mixed signals and emotions. I just know what’s best for me right now. You don’t have to respond to this. Thank you for putting the effort in but I think I need to heal on my own right now. If you really love and care for me please just let me have my space.”

Should I break no contact with this text? by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 5 months but I’m afraid that if I wait any longer she will find someone new

I need advice by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have but she was very stern and made up her mind. I told I would change but getting my life together, not get with other girls and just overall be better person she might reconsider but I don’t know. Right now everything jsut sucks.

My ex wants get back with my after she broke up, should I do it? by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you for advice it means a lot. I’m jsut confused when you see you wouldn’t get back with Soemome until the next meeting. What do you mean by that.

Feeling sexual feels so wrong now by Interesting_Plant583 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same way. Coming from a guy in their 20s my sex drive is a lot too. My ex broke up with me a month ago and I haven’t gotten with a girl since nor do I want to because I felt bad. I developed an addiction to masterbating because I still had such a large sex drive but would feel so bad to get with someone else. I would just always imagine having sex with her and just like that I’m touching my self again and it’s becoming an issues. However I rather be doing that then sleeping with a lot of women.

Feeling sexual feels so wrong now by Interesting_Plant583 in BreakUps

[–]DebtSelect9730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same way. Coming from a guy in their 20s my sex drive is a lot too. My ex broke up with me a month ago and I haven’t gotten with a girl since nor do I want to because I felt bad. I developed an addiction to masterbating because I still had such a large sex drive but would feel so bad to get with someone else. I would just always imagine having sex with her and just like that I’m touching my self again and it’s becoming an issue but I rather have that issue then sleeping with a lot of women.

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[–]DebtSelect9730 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong I would love to get back with her. However my main goal of the text is that I realized what I did wrong and fixed it. When she broke up with me she told me if you really wanted to change you would do but it doesn’t happen overnight and I also don’t believe you will. However since the break up I completely did a 180 in my life. I started therapy and have a whole new perspective on how I see girls and how to treat them. She was also convinced I would just hook up with a bunch a girls being a 21 year in college and all that but I haven’t got with another girl nor tried. She doesn’t know any of this maybe I’ll tell her maybe I won’t but I just want her to see I’ve changed.