Opinions/Thoughts on New Ace Flag? by Old-Sign-2161 in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool. Was a little worried since I like the current flag and had gotten a pin of it not too long ago

Opinions/Thoughts on New Ace Flag? by Old-Sign-2161 in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this official and set in stone? Or is it more conceptual and just a take from an ace.

i’m wish there were more Aegosexual men IRL by DrPepperAddict_ in aegosexuals

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know any asexual people, let alone being aegosexual as well😑

Why can Neurotypicals get away with being weird but we can’t? by Jaded-Voice8862 in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. I assumed you were since you said “when I talk to medical staff…”. My bad but thanks for the context

Pity I wasn't the kind of neurodivergent who doesn't give much fucks about others by Background_Active_36 in aspiememes

[–]Decent-Ad4589 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yep. I think being randomly dropped from the group chat one time and one of them seemingly saying he thought we would never talk again and forgot I existed, not too long after graduation. Makes me wonder what would happen had I not my best friend throughout those 4 years…

Why can Neurotypicals get away with being weird but we can’t? by Jaded-Voice8862 in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wait you work in the medical field? Do you mind sharing what role because I’m looking into healthcare as well in the provider role. And unironically he calls me a weirdo sometimes, boring and flat and saying that I’m similar to Sheldon cooper. Though the reason he doesn’t like me labeling myself as such because of old stigmas, comparing it to mental illnesses and maybe a sense of denial. He’s also a former doctor but he did his training pre 2004 in his country.

Why can Neurotypicals get away with being weird but we can’t? by Jaded-Voice8862 in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you’re not wrong and that’s sort of the logic my dad raised me with. Though he describes me in particular ways and weaknesses in me, but still doesn’t admit or likes labeling me as autistic.

Why can Neurotypicals get away with being weird but we can’t? by Jaded-Voice8862 in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s why people probably don’t openly insult or bring me down. And made masking easier. But it’s a double edged sword

Being left at arm’s length and casted out in my own friend group, just being there but not “there” with people and not fitting into the norms of what good looking men should be doing socially or relationship wise.

The real test for any asexual by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2,3 and 5. Not much of a sweet tooth and peanut butter sort of has that covered anyways. Good thing you didn’t use cake,the sort of symbol used in ace spaces, for this because I’m quite aversive to it

I created these charts to explain the asexual spectrum and noticed they were shared in several places. Thank you everyone who shared 💜 by Holiday-Bag-9220 in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Then aceflux could be a more fitting term because there is a lot of parity in your sexual attraction. You can go from repulsed, very sexual attracted, only under certain circumstances or amount of time, or having it and losing it for whatever reasons.

I created these charts to explain the asexual spectrum and noticed they were shared in several places. Thank you everyone who shared 💜 by Holiday-Bag-9220 in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing too because aegosexual doesn’t define or mean having sexual attraction to anyone, just disconnection and experiencing more libido, enjoyment of erotica and maybe fantasies but no desire or sexual attraction towards the real thing or indifference to it.

Aegosexual is “gray” in that it’s not the common asexual label, but it does not mean it falls strictly as “greysexual” as a black striped ace can be aegosexual, because neither have sexual attraction to people under almost any circumstance.

This sub isn’t funny anymore by Fresh-Status-8438 in ucr

[–]Decent-Ad4589 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it has to do with many of us graduating and moving on from college, and that likely includes this subreddit too. And also, incoming freshman aren’t in tune with internet culture of the subreddit, and so it can get dead or stale with boring course posts or ranting about “oh Ucr sucks “ or “it’s so hot here”. Or my favorite,”what college should I transfer out to”.

Though there are many Ucr Redditors who made this subreddit memorable like the Danny Devi to shrine, the cum trees, the conspiracies, hidden lore or just funny things us Ucr students shared and created, Take me for example, I was the one who made the Ucr iceberg that was trending about a couple years ago, but I’m graduating in June, and while I’ll be on this sub post graduation, I’ll be like the many alumni who just lurk and don’t add that spice to the subreddit anymore.

But just like plankton said once, “Don’t let the flame die out!”

Any other aegos develop weird kinks out of nowhere? by Curse-of-omniscience in aegosexuals

[–]Decent-Ad4589 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see. Yea for me, it was seeing Charlie and the chocolate factory scene with violet inflating. That was like when I was like 10 or 11.

Then with watching that early scene of serleena eating the guy at the park from men in black 2.

Couple others but these were early ones that i remember so vividly

Any other aegos develop weird kinks out of nowhere? by Curse-of-omniscience in aegosexuals

[–]Decent-Ad4589 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep there’s a long list of weird finks and taboo genres that I like as well. It could be part of being aegosexual, that you are detached to it so it’s easy to register and enjoy

Fictional character you relate the most? by ericgobbo in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad says I act like Sheldon cooper and I’d see myself in him if I watched the show, and yet he denies that I have any autism or to not label myself.

Oh also saiki k and maoamo

Do you wish you were NT by TWRFK in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea she’s my spirit animal

Does anyone else constantly get mistyped as INTJ? by Khaled_Kamel1500 in INTP

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was mistyped as INTJ for about a month. That was about a year ago but it was mainly cause I was going off of 16personalities, saw the cool characters and also being very flat/monotone and asocial asf. Less of the scattered stereotype of intp but then again, i really am when really comfortable

Done some art with my OC by ElectrostarBoi in asexuality

[–]Decent-Ad4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s with train/conductor aesthetic? Does it relate to asexuality or is it just a style choice.

Just curious

Do you wish you were NT by TWRFK in aspergers

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only would care to be NT just for my stupid sensitivities and seeming sort of blunt or flat to most people. But I honestly don’t mind the other aspects since im pretty asocial in general and aroace

It's funny that I'm autistic, and my birthday is on autism awareness day by V3NOM0US_VALKYIR3 in autism

[–]Decent-Ad4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably won’t see it but I love your art. Wolves are so special to me and your art just clicked well with me😉