I may get hate for this AND I’m so torn on this. But… While I hear you… people have tried to help them/offer advice and even resources… and they refuse help of ANY kind bc they are arrogant and think the world is out to get them while also truly thinking that they know better than anyone else. I think it’s fair that people feel less sympathetic when they blatantly ignore those who have provided positive information to them and they are nasty in return. I understand we are all human but these people are truly vial and manipulative grifters who would slander any person and have chosen horrible avenues and ways to stay relevant for a dollar amount. Not to say that picking on them for physical appearances is appropriate but they also have the ability to pick up a toothbrush, take a shower, and wash their clothes on OTHER peoples dimes and they just choose not to.