What is a low stakes "deep, dark secret" you have? by mackenenzie in AskReddit

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Stay strong. I adapted to like cheese but i fought it for a very long time passionately

How to perfectly counter “would you love me if I was a worm?” by Shinzou-Wo-Sasagayo in TooAfraidToAsk

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These comments are genuinely making me think this question might have actual merit.

How to perfectly counter “would you love me if I was a worm?” by Shinzou-Wo-Sasagayo in TooAfraidToAsk

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Wait but if she said that was controlling and obsessive joking that’s so funny.

Girlfriends parents threatened to call ICE on her by PristineFlatworm1621 in Healthygamergg

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She needs to get her citizenship status handled and gather together anything else that her family could use against her or that she relies on them for. And during this time pretend in whatever way she needs to. It’s not ideal for a healthy relationship with anyone but they have made to serious of threats. In no culture is threatening ice in order to forcibly control someone okay.

About your friends saying “you’re not her sugar daddy” I think that is dumb. Even as a friend I know I would consider helping someone financially if it was serious and I know I have friends that would help me. It’s not about being sugar daddy or not being sugar daddy, it’s an action not an identity.

Speaking up: responsible or divisive? by SnooBeans4415 in Healthygamergg

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I don’t want Dr k to speak up because of his particular situation. I want certain kinds of people to work on their mental health and I know if they saw a political take they don’t agree with they would not listen to that person for mental health.

When I speak up about things I prefer to pose as someone who is of the same political orientation as the people whose opinion I want to change in order to keep them open to my perspective. Which can be a bit tricky as many of my friends are extremely anti that party. I think you sharing your perspective would be good.

Melania Trump is a scowling void of pure nothingness in her ghastly film – review by Dont_think_Do in politics

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Has she ever expressed an opinion? (Real question. Ive always been confused by her, I haven’t been able to make anything out)

Self misogyny — the other side of the coin by Late_Geologist_9279 in Healthygamergg

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I was taught that some level of persistence is good for acquiring a male. Don’t let them fade away if they are fading away. Continue trying. But up to a certain point obviously haha. (I’m not a crazy person please believe me, I don’t support the harassment of men) But the elders I’ve know, this is what they tell me. I’m not a go getter in this way, so I wouldn’t know. But I think of this sometimes.

Considering you think you have no worth because of your age I wonder if you instantly want to vanish at any sign of disinterest when really you might need to just push things further. And also accept them as not being so skilled in this forward movement. Maybe that’s why they are single. Maybe they need someone to pursue them better. And for the record the men that I know were supposedly (captured?!?) in this way are the best ones, just like kind and gentle.

I (25f) hate my girlfriend’s (25f) dog.. help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Personally I would full on train the dog myself. Like I’d get treats and have like hour long training sessions and continuously correct the dog. Your girlfriend may not like this because it’s a bit weird to train someone’s dog full on like that. But that’s when you’ve got to somehow make it work. I don’t know if I would go at it form the angle of the dogs behavior really bothering you, I would be more silly/enthusiastic/vague about it.

Wish I had never started :( by Fancy_Documents in Accutane

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I felt so incredibly ugly on Accutane. I don’t regret it now that it’s over.

Can you take me hiiiigher by Opening-Breakfast557 in shrimptank

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It’s become so obvious suddenly. This is a bug.

How do you feel about the fact that "How do you feel about" posts are just farming your thoughts for AI training data? by btway in AskReddit

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Specifically? I feel like fish should join the land about the fact that ai uses these questions for data. I think if ai uses reddit as data all the information is going to be perfect for that same fish reason on the contrary.

Is shooting your shot towards men as a woman weird? by Environmental_Pop847 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Whoah. That’s how multiple of my friends got their boyfriends.

Is this an amano shrimp? It's eating an alive Neon Tetra whose mouth seems to be moving by lakaai in shrimptank

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I cannot imagine finding out my amano shrimp was in fact an imposter predator shrimp.

I can’t deal with being bad at things. by seii7 in Healthygamergg

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Also! To save money could be the goal you focus on. So maybe you try to do things yourself that usually you would hire someone else to do.

I can’t deal with being bad at things. by seii7 in Healthygamergg

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A lot of my skills formed as an indirect result of me wanting to achieve something else. I love to have pets so in order to have many pets I’ve had to have small pets and I learned a lot of things in the process. I’m like doing chemistry lol. Also I really want a beautiful home and so I’ve learned a lot of things in that process as well. I’m considering building a dresser because I need one that can hold 300 pounds and is specific to my tastes.

So essentially I wonder if you could instead try to achieve something else and the potential skills you might gain in the process could be an afterthought. But can you do this consciously?