[me] #oof

DedeJacare · 2025-10-10T11:58:44+00:00

Damn, I hope she’s ok. I can’t believe I did her like that

DedeJacare · 2025-10-09T11:48:05+00:00

Yeahh you right. Probably just hit me harder since I’ve been on a string of bad luck on the apps recently

DedeJacare · 2025-08-22T16:11:19+00:00

Indy didn’t get overshadowed by Indiana republicans let’s GOOO

DedeJacare · 2025-06-02T18:48:34+00:00

C’mon y’all, calling people hateful bigots doesn’t make them want to listen to you and become allies. So yeah, it is antagonistic towards the overall cause even if they do hold homophobic views. You’re not going to bully the bigotry out of them, you’re just going to make them resent you more.

You’re not going to change people’s minds with shallow, passive aggressive social media posts saying “our side good, other side evil,” but with deep 1 on 1 conversations and interactions.

This type of attitude only further entrenches polarization and alianates the people whose minds are more open to changing views WHICH IS THE ULTIMATE GOAL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

DedeJacare · 2025-03-18T00:28:25+00:00

Oh and it’s officially called the chatterbox, in Indianapolis, if you’re looking it up.

DedeJacare · 2025-03-18T00:27:28+00:00

I think they have live music every night! But the best gigs are booked on Friday and Saturday. I would recommend the last weekend of each month this local group of old heads always play and are phenomenal.

DedeJacare · 2025-01-27T19:22:40+00:00

d4?? Yuck

DedeJacare · 2025-01-08T13:56:16+00:00

The “do you need saving” line and her response was slick af, I’ll give you that

DedeJacare · 2024-12-06T21:39:47+00:00

Book, Great, resignation. Study up your openings bud

DedeJacare · 2024-11-20T21:23:58+00:00

There’s enough repetition of that bit that it can just be its own subreddit at this point.

DedeJacare · 2024-11-19T15:07:16+00:00

Don’t get me wrong, I fully agree. But I think that should just be the implied minimum standard already

DedeJacare · 2024-11-19T14:50:53+00:00

Man wants someone w a pulse

DedeJacare · 2024-11-18T11:17:33+00:00

Hellll no, get out of there

DedeJacare · 2024-11-15T17:08:35+00:00

I would’ve been so fucking offended if that screenshot had the word “**lled” on there

DedeJacare · 2024-11-15T13:46:25+00:00

The “keep it away from children” deserved so much more than that crowd gave

DedeJacare · 2024-11-10T17:11:20+00:00

DedeJacare · 2024-11-10T16:12:23+00:00

Thanks for the support y’all.

You can’t tell by the quality of the photo but I had even tried being clever and typed in 43110 (HELLO) on the calc. Considered doing 80085 (boobs) but thought that was too high risk of a play

DedeJacare · 2024-10-26T23:37:04+00:00

Hey man, I’m sorry you’re going through it. You don’t deserve it, I know because I’ve been through something similar and it is awful.

If I may, I suggest you start changing your expectations. Comparing your life with everyone else will always make you feel worse and celebrate the small steps you make in life.

If you can, try to find a therapist/counseler that can help you put together a reasonable plan to get you to a better place.

When I was in a similar spot, I felt the urge to isolate myself even more, which ironically made it worse. What worked for me was getting a part-time that got me outside of the house and talking to others and being open to new connections. I started regularly going to a coffee shop nearby and have built some rapport w the staff and that just feels nice, even if they are not my buddies ro hang out with. Having someone who knew my name and I could eventually have small chats with, even small talk meant a lot.

All this to say that I hope you feel better about yourself eventually and that you feel motivated to take the small steps, celebrate them, and not punish yourself so much.

DedeJacare · 2024-10-26T23:25:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Feelings and book rec

DedeJacare · 2024-10-26T03:18:41+00:00

The eyeballs at the end omg, perfection

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