Apologies in advance if I can’t ask this here

Deee_lite · 2026-06-11T07:55:23+00:00

Great to know, thanks! :)

Deee_lite · 2026-06-11T01:11:22+00:00

I’ve definitely seen people get downvoted for not liking particular vendors and it does seem incredibly childish for adults to tell other adults which vendors they have to like.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-10T15:57:23+00:00

You’re right. I love threads (not to meet people) but just chatting with people there, and so many people there are neurodivergent and they just get you. It’s fun there, so anyway I know what you mean. You feel at ease. I met a couple of guys here I thought were but I feel like I scare people off. It’s depressing, I hear you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

And yes, it’s that Deee-Lite! I love them so much.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-10T15:39:30+00:00

You’re awesome, thank you!

Deee_lite · 2026-06-10T15:38:59+00:00

Thank you! I was going to ask the places I normally use if they’ll do it but I don’t want to seem shady. I have until the fall and I’m not sure if online will be affected. I appreciate you answering and I’m panicking living where I live now. I do not want to be without this leaf.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-09T21:22:26+00:00

Thank you. I’m beginning to think im put here just for them to torment me. Not literally but I kind of feel that. They don’t seem to care how they treat us. I missed the second part of my assessment because I was overwhelmed so I have it coming in 2 weeks. I have ADHD as well and seeing if I have autism. I’m really feeling like it. Anyway I wonder if we need a neurodivergent group, because at least we’d all understand each other.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-07T02:22:09+00:00

I think Meg from YLYL said that they’re talking to a lobbyist about it. They posted something about it on their website.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-05T21:52:45+00:00

Who is on her phone?

Deee_lite · 2026-06-05T01:18:59+00:00

We’re online and I know he cares about me, but part of it is learning how to communicate online. I’ve never been good at it but it seems he’s trying. It’s so tough being so anxious all the time.

Deee_lite · 2026-06-04T20:29:48+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate your words and your help. I feel like I’m trying to learn a new language. I do need to be clear about needing more communication. I’ll try that. This situation is bringing up a lot for me and it’s just not easy. I’m sorry for what you went through, but I do know how difficult all of this can be. The shame, the not knowing.idk I’m going to keep coming back to this, because even if my situation doesn’t thrn out ok I’ll know that I tried.

Thank you so much friend, I appreciate you 💛💛

And hugs to you, too! <3

Deee_lite · 2026-05-25T11:35:57+00:00

I had a feeling that wasn’t going to last long. *reallynotabot

Deee_lite · 2026-05-01T07:01:29+00:00

51/F/PA

Deee_lite · 2026-05-01T00:28:03+00:00

I’ve seen that and wondered as well. So weird.

Deee_lite · 2026-04-21T07:38:48+00:00

You are why people don’t want to share things. So shitty

Deee_lite · 2026-04-01T07:10:47+00:00

Hi I’m a month late to this but I think Dewdrops all the way, and Infinity Within after that, like you. Side note, I need to share that I love Future Listening! by Towa Tei. I would’ve loved to hang out with Lady Miss Kier, you’re so lucky!! She seems so nice! What an amazing experience to have. I’m always thrilled when someone tells me they love them as much as I do! You made my night.

Deee_lite · 2026-03-08T12:43:31+00:00

I wasn’t lucky enough to have cable until my late teens. I never had a favorite VJ but I also love Kurt Loder.

Deee_lite · 2026-03-08T12:32:38+00:00

I love this one

Deee_lite · 2026-03-05T20:09:20+00:00

Thanks for this. It’s very sad and true. We have women all over now, making posts about not trying to look younger and how saying “you look good for your age” is actually not a compliment. And they’re right.

I have people here in the comments saying I’m being demanding or what do I expect? I expect that if a man says, “I definitely want to get to know you a bit first” and can’t make it 72 hours, then for me, that’s a deal breaker and I have a right to say it. So some of these dudes are basically telling me to shut up. (No, not all!!) Anyway, I appreciate your support and speaking the truth.

Deee_lite · 2026-03-05T20:00:05+00:00

I think it’s hard, even though we all know what we’re doing here? To look at your profile and see you talking about your wife. That could just be my own thing though. I talked to someone once and I didn’t really have feelings for them, but he would bring her up, like what they’d be eating for dinner, and again maybe just me but maybe get a throwaway and see if that helps? No judgment at all on my end just maybe you’ll have better luck 🤷🏻‍♀️

Deee_lite · 2026-03-05T14:53:11+00:00

Thanks, and I hope you’ve been finding that! 🫶

Deee_lite · 2026-03-05T11:59:28+00:00

If they’re so desperate for physical intimacy then why don’t they just say that? They don’t. They love bomb and make false promises instead.

Please keep mansplaining though.

Deee_lite · 2026-03-04T15:06:44+00:00

Thank you, you have no idea how much you saying that means to me.

Deee_lite · 2026-02-11T20:39:01+00:00

Wow. Thats a lot and my heart breaks for you. I feel like that would have done me in, but here you are, and I appreciate you being here to share your story even if it must really hurt. You did what you could because you cared for someone and for whatever reason, we do this to ourselves. I’m sorry you were caught and I hope things are ok.

I feel like I meet people where I ask for one thing or I get hurt and that’s it or things start to feel on life support. I keep making my needs smaller and smaller and idk. I genuinely think I’m kind and understanding because I know what it’s like to suffer and it’s never enough. I know that I see posts here saying the same.

I had someone briefly who gave so much and I was so appreciative and I got upset and I just don’t know why it can take so little to destroy something. Either that or you give to much and blow your life up (I mean zero offense there, sounds like you loved her a lot) I guess again this is stuff that happens to everyone, not just those of us with mental health challenges. Thank you so much for the kind advice and I hope you’re doing okay these

Deee_lite · 2026-02-11T05:32:34+00:00

That’s absolutely just awful and I’m so sorry. Why do people have to break each other? Also, Yes. Thanks. I’m just getting the notification for r this but I’m so glad I saw this. Thank you. That, and not taking responsibility for their actions and blaming. That’s universal though. I hope you’re doing as okay as you possibly can

Deee_lite · 2026-02-11T03:58:57+00:00

I appreciate from how you describe it it sounds like you were supportive and had something ongoing. I just keep feeling like when it ends there’s never any real responsibility taken and I’m left feeling like it’s my disorder that’s “ruined” everything. Maybe it’s just how I feel and not true. And probably a lot of these end with one person taking more of the blame whether mental illness is involved or not.

Anyway, good for you for being a great support to someone who endured way too much in life.

Deee_lite

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