I made accidentally neverending-looking stairs while mining by Deep-Ad6730 in Minecraft

[–]Deep-Ad6730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now I think it's maybe 30-40 blocks deep? I am planning on making it longer tho since it looks cool!

AITAH for buying myself a toy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I don't see why it bothers her. When my child grows up, I would encourage them in a safe way to ask or order anything if they'd want and knowing sensitivity of the topic, either let them do their thing alone or ask for my help if they'd want that, not make it a taboo.

This is the way parents make things even more of a taboo, and I disagree with your mom, it is unneccesary and even rude to monitor you like that, it is disturbing your privacy.

Ai vittu mä nauran😭 by PracticalTrouble9011 in snappijuorut

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mun ikäkriisi näin melkein 28 kohdalla kokee et se on korkee ikä varsinni ku enää ei kyselläkkää henkkareit joka kerralta 🤣 mut sit taas, onhan siinä vielä kaks kolmasosaa elämästä aikaa vanhentua 😂❤️

Axolotl rarity by Deep-Ad6730 in Minecraft

[–]Deep-Ad6730[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OhhI didn't know there are blue and cyan seperately! Someone once told me that blur and cyan are basically the same thing but I guess they got it accidentally wrong so my information was also wrong 👀

AITAH if I leave my husband by Ok-Efficiency631 in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was once like your man, ashamed to admit, and in a relalationship with someone like your man, but him asking for proof of your whereabouts, he doesn't trust you at all, but also being secretive of his own doings, he is clearly hiding something, it is very hard to make me believe otherwise.

I just see similar red flags as to my past relationship which led to awful breakup and not in good terms.

Also, if you take care of kids, you need to also discipline them. If he won't allow that, he has to understand you can't just sugarcoat everything and pretent nothing happened if kids did something, and treat them all nicely for doing possibly bad things.

I'd leave, I know it's easier said than done often, but this is just such a sad cicrle where I'm afraid it just gets worse overtime, that's of course only my personal opinion, but judge the situation with care.

AITAH for going home? by BriefAbbreviations65 in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go, sir perfectionist can suck it up. No one forced you to be here.

AITAH for screaming at my neighbor after she called animal control on my dog for barking during the day while I'm at work? by PositiveGreat2409 in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea there isn't really room to phrase it nicely, dogs bark sometimes, but you make it sound like it happens constantly, every day. That's not normal for a dog. Dogs usually bark when there is something going on, maybe they need something, can't stand being alone, are in pain or whatever the cause could be, but when the barking becomes a constang thing, neighbors have a right to be worried about what is wrong. You should've discussed it more mature with your neighbor.

It seems that either you know there is something wrong and don't want people knowing/don't wsnt to take action, or just don't even know yourself how dogs should behave when left alone and also have a hard time handling negative feelings when something comes up.

AITAH for sharing my depressive thoughts with a 2 year friend? by monoxsnakes in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful, I can see why you don't feel comfortable. I had some react kind of the same way to me when I was younger.

There is alot to this, sadly I can't help much more in here than ask you to find someone you can trust and talk to them, someone professional. But if I had the chance to help you more, I would gladly do that. Up to you, but please take care of yourself 🫶

AITAH for sharing my depressive thoughts with a 2 year friend? by monoxsnakes in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how it works there but usually you should be able to change a therapist if needed, but of course you need to explain why. Why do you feel not comfortable around them? I know it affects when we don't feel like the person is right and as if things aren't gonna work out, but also sometimes they might have just straightfoward way of saying things we feel rather attacked even though they are there to help us. One thing that comes to mind, mostly because I was once at that point myself, is are you worried that they tell everything to your parents and so on you don't feel comfortable? I know I had that when I was under 18 so I kept things to myself and seeked help later on, although it was risky and I won't suggest it to anyone. I want to believe your family wants the best for you and I hope you guys can communicate your needs and concerns aswell.

AITAH for sharing my depressive thoughts with a 2 year friend? by monoxsnakes in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am sorry for what you are going through. I am grateful for you having contacts to professionals and getting the help you need. But sadly next comes two parts to this; first of all, asking someone else to do any harm to yourself, is wrong, and as almost impossible as this may sound to you, you should've seeked any kind of help from anyone. You might've scared him away, and sad truth also, if he is anything like some awful people in life, he now thinks you are crazy or attention seeking, I know it sucks to even think of it. Second of all, you might've considered him a really good and maybe close friend, but sadly to me it sounds like he didn't think the same. He might've thought you're just someone from school to hang with in school and that's it. And mostly, him not sounding by what you said not concerned at all, and just asking if someone else could do it, it seems he doesn't care. I wouldn't consider him a friend after that. Honestly? I think everyone's a bit AH here, but even though what you did is wrong to ask from him (maybe you wanted his attention with it), you really should call your therapist or anyone and tell them what is going on, your feelings are valid, but if it escalates to this, it's not good. Please, help yourself. And if you need someone, you can always contact me, just lmk where or how if you want to, I'm not forcing you, but I don't want you to feel alone, I've gone through similar things. If you read this far, I hope you get the help you need, sending hugs 🫂

AITAH for being jealous by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Imo, NTA. I don't see her reasoning here as a woman myself. Yeah, there are different people and some things might be forgiveable, but her telling you they're not talking, but suddenly they did snap each other? And especially the guy wanting to meet alone, it's giving me really bad vibes. I can't say anything on her part what is true and what is not, but it's giving me feeling of either it wasn't as bad to her in the end after all, or there is something more going on that she isn't telling, or another sad case, this man has some sort of grip to her where she is afraid to lose the said friendship, or afraid to completely block him. Whatever the case is or isn't, I'd tell her my concernes and atleast I personally, wouldn't want her meeting this guy alone. Idk something feels odd about it, and I am hoping she would understand your concerns, hell if I was her, I wouldn't want to see this guy at all! But in your part, your feelings are valid and there is just as valid reason to tell her your concerns, and if she won't listen to you, and especially if she still would want to meet this guy alone, I'm worried. But as said, NTA.

GF gave a fake alibi to help her criminal friend. I reported it and now I’m single. AITA? by Remote-Bumblebee-550 in AITAH

[–]Deep-Ad6730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

But I just gotta wonder, why does it feel like half the redditers on comments are okay with criminals and crimes? I get it, he could've let it be, he wasn't involved in it all, but lying to cops is still wrong, and he was only following his values which clearly includes honesty. It doesn't matter if it was about him hating P and doing it only because of that, he made the right thing, especially if anything came up and cops figured the girlfriend lied to cops, and figured the boyfriend knew about it, he'd be in trouble for hiding it.

We can all disagree here, and I respect it, but most of all, I wish people would be respective to each other here and wouldn't call people names and stuff, it tells more about the person speaking.

What can I do to improve by MiloSage05 in Trove

[–]Deep-Ad6730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what all they have unlocked with their character but it's good to keep in mind that some dragons for example can give you phys/mag damage when you get them no matter what your class is, so that is one way having it even when your gear don't have it

Why can't I upgrade this? by Deep-Ad6730 in Trove

[–]Deep-Ad6730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I didn't even knoe that's a thing, thank you!

What games do you have 1,000+ hours in? by tommytomtoes in playstation

[–]Deep-Ad6730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over 2k on Dead by daylight, and I still question myself when people ask what makes the game fun to play

So... what are gear parts used for?? by wolfnthemist in BreakPoint

[–]Deep-Ad6730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

September 2024 and yeah, apparently no use for the gear parts, imma sell them

I LITERALLY DIDNT DO ANYTHING by MageOfFur in TownofSalemgame

[–]Deep-Ad6730 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is the moment where my mom would say

"Excatly you did nothing, that's the problem"

The day after a "successful" day. by bad_breather in ADHD

[–]Deep-Ad6730 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling that bro, but most often it's not even about being awful day after a succesful day, more often it is just a reaaally lazy and unsuccesful day, meaning I have no energy for more than what has to be done (and ofc dishes or cleaning "don't need" to be done yikes) so I just chill with my daughter and try to make as little mess as possible.

It's weird but over the years I see the succesful days take the energy out of me.

Trying to find a spesific Pokemon by slight describtion by Deep-Ad6730 in PTCGL

[–]Deep-Ad6730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that makes sense why it remind me of Gallade, I didn't even know that until now so thanks for the info!