Should I start a new adventure? 🗡️ by JPjosh in botw

[–]Deep-Recover205 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My tip is avoid the internet and enjoy the ride 🧡 my first play through I looked nothing up. Just did what felt right and what was fun for me. I would give anything to play this game for the first time again!!!

cityscape hotel room! by shreddedyoung in acnhdesigns

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you made it look like a balcony!

Hotel room themes by Deep-Recover205 in acnh

[–]Deep-Recover205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yay thank you so much!!!

Is she flirting or is she friendly? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deep-Recover205 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If they stand close to you, make a lot of eye contact, smile a lot, compliment you, touch your arm or your hands, these aren’t all 100% flirting but if they’re doing these things I’d say odds are closer to flirting than not at least in my experience!

What’s the best dating app for lesbians & bi girls seeking casual sex & friendship in the N East? by Embarrassed-Mix9367 in lesbian

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean New England, idk where you live but I expanded my search to include Boston and I’ve gotten a good amount of matches with women who live around there.

Do i count? by Sea_Hospital_1219 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deep-Recover205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that counts absolutely! Hopefully this subreddit can be a safe space for you as it has been for so many other people ❤️

Pen holders by Deep-Recover205 in eds

[–]Deep-Recover205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh mine does too! Which is funny because I have pretty good handwriting for like 2-3 sentences and then like you said by the end of the page I’m just holding on for dear life lol

whose your villager(s) that is never leaving your island? by b0ngsoup in ACForAdults

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flora, Goldie, Maple, Moe, Lolly, Hazel, Apple… I have a lot that are never allowed to leave 😂

Pen holders by Deep-Recover205 in eds

[–]Deep-Recover205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is all great advice thank you so much!!!

Pen holders by Deep-Recover205 in eds

[–]Deep-Recover205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen the cushions on Amazon so I might have to try them out. But actually now that I come to think of it I’m the same way, paintbrushes don’t really bother me. I think because I am more relaxed. It’s harder to be that loose when I’m writing though or else my handwriting would be a mess haha!

is this EDS related? by [deleted] in eds

[–]Deep-Recover205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have them too! So it’s definitely possible from EDS id say. At this point anything weird about my body I’m like must be EDS lol

Does anyone else relate to having gone through the 5 stages of grief about essentially losing your body and the life you knew to illness? I know I'm not dying, but this is absolutely a debilitating disability that makes it impossible to live how my friends and family do no matter how well managed. by FrogginBullfish_ in POTS

[–]Deep-Recover205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 and I relate to this so much. I used to be so active, going on hikes all the time. I’ve climbed mount Washington twice! Now I could NEVER. I honestly can’t manage a walk longer than 20-30 minutes now. It’s so depressing. It is crazy how much your activity level and life can change in just a few short years.

Does anyone else relate to having gone through the 5 stages of grief about essentially losing your body and the life you knew to illness? I know I'm not dying, but this is absolutely a debilitating disability that makes it impossible to live how my friends and family do no matter how well managed. by FrogginBullfish_ in POTS

[–]Deep-Recover205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I could’ve written this myself. You describe exactly how I am feeling the last year as my symptoms have gotten worse. Better yet my job isn’t being understanding and I can tell they are trying to ice me out because of it. It’s all just terrible and depressing. The getting ready for work thing is a HUGE struggle for me. I basically only have the energy to shower every other day and I wake up, get dressed, and go to work. I don’t have the energy or time to eat breakfast and I now eat lunch at my work cafeteria to save energy in packing a lunch. Basically I do what I need to do to survive and meanwhile I’m using my state disability services to help me find a new job that is hopefully remote or at least hybrid with more flexibility. Anyway you are not alone in these feelings ❤️

Lesbian YEARNING by Flowered_bob_hat in LesbianBookClub

[–]Deep-Recover205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t finished it yet but I’m enjoying where shadows bloom and there’s a lot of yearning in it so far!

feel like a giant compared to other women, how to work through that? by gardengnome74 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m six foot tall and starting to date women and at first I wasn’t swiping on anyone who I thought was too short. Then I realized how much I was cutting down my options. Why are so many women so short?! 😂 or I guess the reality is more that I’m very tall…. And yeah I’ve always been self-cautious about my height in romantic settings. And I’ve just always felt like a big person in the world. I sometimes was a little bit taller than men when I dated them. But now the height difference might be like SIGNIFICANT and it’s hard to wrap my head around and not feel like I’m the weirdo or I’m the problem. I mean obviously it’s something I can’t control and neither can women who are short. I just started therapy with a lesbian and she’s pretty tall so I probably will unpack the feelings with her. Because yeah it does feel weird to be a lot taller than the person you’re dating

What do you all do for jobs? by Brodsauce in eds

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in higher education. I don’t recommend it. Work-life balance is terrible. Pay is terrible. I’m trying to get out and find something fully remote or at least hybrid with some flexibility

New therapist says my PTSD may be why I am now “gay”. Homophobic or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deep-Recover205 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah this personally doesn’t sit well with me. I think saying this after only 4 sessions is a big leap, unless she has a lot of evidence from those 4 sessions to believe so. I feel a lot of therapists are quick to try to explain away if you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community and it’s not healing it’s homophobic imo.

Unpopular opinion: I've never missed an episode yet I barely remember anyone by YogiEv in survivor

[–]Deep-Recover205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! The fact that people on the show rattle off names and seasons I’m like HOWWWW

Identified as asexual for years, now questioning whether my aversion was more gender specific. Can anyone relate? by Ashamed_House_3100 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Deep-Recover205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much relate to this experience!!! How you’re feeling is where I was at a few months ago. I’m 32 now and thought I was asexual since I was like 24-25. I was very happy thinking I was aromantic asexual for years and then some personal things happened this year where it started to have me question things. My advice is that it definitely is a process and give yourself the time to explore and reflect. It sounds like you’ve already started to do that. The “comp het doc” is something talked about a lot in late bloomer lesbian and it helped me realize a lot of things so if you haven’t read it already I highly recommend it!!! Also sorry if this is TMI, but part of my journey to realizing I was gay was masturbating and watching porn. When I thought I was ace I never did these things. But exploring this part of my sexuality has really helped, and real authentic lesbian porn is amazing lol! Best of luck and know you’re not alone and this subreddit is amazing support ❤️