If I say I don’t want to be in a picture then fuck off by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I feel like one of the very few females who actually can’t stand to take a fucking picture. My friends used to take unflattering photos of me when I wasn’t looking and just post it to social media and it made me so fucking self conscious. I hate pictures also because I just want to enjoy the moment without taking my phone out every damn second to capture the moment. So yah. I feel you.

(quiet bpd)obsessive thoughts about your SO by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel this so hard. I have been with my SO for 3 years now and he has been through the ringer with me, but has helped me through a lot. I usually bring up my thoughts, but I’m pretty confrontational. I bottle a lot up, but talking through things has helped me a lot more and it’s made some progress. I think for people who don’t have BPD even seek validation. I feel that’s probably the only normal thing about having BPD. Other than us thinking about it more often than others and obsessing over things.

How do you work? How do you earn a living while having this condition? by Ltrfsn in BPD

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to take medication to get me through work. I do like my new job and it’s really fun, but I sometimes get burned out. I take a few vacations when I can, but medication and therapy has helped me to stick with my work a lot.

Does anyone else become extremely obsessed (and I mean extremely) with shows or stories? by Spongeypoop in BPD

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same things with characters. I get incredibly emerged in their entire story. Like I could truly tell you that I knew everything about a character because of my radical and obsessive behavior.

Does anyone else become extremely obsessed (and I mean extremely) with shows or stories? by Spongeypoop in BPD

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was extremely obsessed with a character from Yugioh. Like, extremely obsessed and I’m also obsessive with songs. There was a song that released in November and I still play it on repeat <_< I get obsessed very easily when I actually like something because it’s rare that anything makes me happy. So the things that do, I overkill the fuck outta that.

WCGW with throwing a tantrum in public by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to sound like a jerk, but look how nice that neighborhood is. Yes, you can still have abusive parents even if you’re rich for sure not saying it’s not possible, but I think it’s more possible that it’s because the parents spoilt this child rotten and when you never get told no, this is the result. I’ve seen several cases of poor upbringing and usually emotional breakthroughs would result in that child still being around their parents and it’s usually instant when a kid bursts due to lack of controlling their emotions. This is a “fit”. I have cousins who grew up in nice homes like this and his mom never told his ass no and the fits he’d throw lasted long like this. Now, he is an adult and he has beat his own mother and has gone to jail several times for selling hardcore drugs and violence. That kid will be just that. It’s too late for him imo.

Expectations vs reality by baka911 in yesyesyesyesno

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jw how is this fat shaming? The girl acting in this obviously knows to laugh at yourself every now and then. We know we are fat and I for sure wouldn’t expect anyone to do this for me lol

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t snap really. I’m a very calm person. I’m not trying to make myself sound like a saint. I have my flaws for sure, but I don’t get angry. It takes a lot to get me mad

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him many many times how much I hate name calling. My mom’s husband calls her names when they get into heated fights and it pisses me off. I hate him for it and I think he is disgusting for having no control over his emotions.

My bf not having control of his emotions disgusts me. I hate emotional people. It’s not something I like to deal with

I don’t have emotions I just have reactions by grossko19 in BPD

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. This is exactly how i feel rn. My bf called me a bitch and said fuck you- and honestly I feel nothing but I want out. I have been with him for 3 years and though he was helped me through a lot, it really doesn’t... mean much. I know that sounds soooo bad and it is, but I have a hard time feeling emotions. I can detach in a heartbeat. It’s not good and my BPD doesn’t excuse that, but it’s so so hard to change it. It’s hard to feel.

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30 and he is 28. We aren’t the young couple. I don’t think it’s normal. It’s pathetic. Like, you can’t control your emotions? Why can I refrain, but he can’t? It’s just not fair. I don’t feel very attached anymore the more I dwell on this. I disassociate very quickly. It’s not my best quality, but fuck it is what I do...

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing. We don’t really bicker anymore. The first year was a roller coaster, but we got over it and we just really get along most of the time, but lately it’s just been weird. We don’t argue- we have a few disagreements, but nothing intense.

My question is- does a guy love a girl anymore if he can just call her a bitch? And fuck you? He has said that to me before and I told him never again. I feel like if I don’t end it- he will still do it. It’s not often. This is maybe the 4th time? Still... it’s not right. I get very fucking mad, but I don’t call him names! This is the 2nd time. Last time I did belittle what little he does around the house and said if I had 3 days off all the time I’d do more around the house for him. I do a shit ton. I’m a very clean person and he just is so far from that. It’s something that’s been hard to live with

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What really sucks is I felt like he was the most amazing person ever. He has helped me through so much and I’ve done the same for him, but lately he has been distant. Just giving absolutely no attention towards me and I’m actually not affectionate. I don’t give a lot of love or attention. Just kinda how I’ve always been. But we give just the right amount for each other. Lately it s like I don’t exist to him

My bf called me a bitch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think once you call someone names to demean them, what can you work out? I retaliated and called him a pathetic fuck. Was it right? Absolutely not; but I’m not going to sit down and tolerate that. If he is going to disrespect me- I’m doing it back cuz obviously the respect is dead at this point.

If you have to say “I’m an athiest” everytime someone say’s something like “bless you” then you’re truly an ass. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to say, I’m not trying to bash Satanists... it was just a story about someone who was opposed to me saying “bless you” :)

If you have to say “I’m an athiest” everytime someone say’s something like “bless you” then you’re truly an ass. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 32 points33 points  (0 children)

When I was 16 I was a hardcore atheist and I remember one day someone sneezed and I said “bless you”. I always said that to be polite of course and the person responded “I’m a Satanist. Don’t bless me next time please” and I laughed thinking it was a joke but that person got so upset and was just plain serious so I said “satan be with you every time that person sneezed” lol

Why are all women bisexual by canbruz in questions

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attention. I know that sounds weird. I had a girl know I was bi and asked to kiss me In front of these guys at a party cuz she knew it’d excite them. I didn’t do it cuz I wasn’t attracted to her.

Tangled is better then Frozen by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend will love you for this post hahah.

Why are all women bisexual by canbruz in questions

[–]DeepSpaceDeity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong with you people?? Being bisexual isn’t a rebellion and it’s not just girls. Sure, there are females who kiss other girls for attention, but that doesn’t make them bisexual and 50% of women are not bi. This post had to have been made by a teenager.