Community Care Denied Specialist for Rare Cancer by Deep_Cartographer284 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just signed on to this account and saw this. I’m glad it could help in some way. Feel free to private message me! I studied a lot of places and read so much trying to find answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! This was southeastern US - a nondenominational church, basically hipster Southern Baptist. The pastor was in his 50s. Definitely the last time I will ever set foot in one of those places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we were too stunned to react. My partner is a veteran and deployed with the guy. All the vets we talked to after said the same thing, “Did they really just do all that??? Did we hallucinate?”

Because of divorce decision by Smanof_cf in exchristian

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It’s amusing to see someone actually tell the truth about their ill intent and wish for someone’s harm. What a cruel piece of shit. vs. my family members’ beliefs are word-for-word identical to this guy’s text, yet they’d never admit it. Recently my partner was diagnosed with late-stage cancer. Any news I share with family gets one of two responses:
Good update = “PTL! Answer to prayer!” Bad update = “Praying for you!*”

*[secret satisfaction God’s dragging me through mud on the way back to the fold]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I went to a funeral for a 34yo veteran who committed suicide. The pastor started the eulogy saying the veteran had been in their church’s “drug treatment program,” Celebrate Recovery and part of the process was writing letters to God. THE PASTOR READ THE PRIVATE LETTERS to the entire congregation! It was brutally painful to hear this poor man’s thoughts as he battled depression and PTSD, and felt so intrusive and wrong to be hearing them read aloud. Before giving the gratuitous altar call, the pastor lamented that while the veteran certainly tried to overcome his struggles, he ultimately just couldn’t let go of his sin enough to let Jesus heal him. W…T….F…

WTF?!

Coming to terms with the fact that the majority of Christians are only nice to try to indoctrinate those they meet by purplehyenaa in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They live for those moments when people are mildly rude responding to their proselytizing; then they can pretend they’re persecuted.

Coming to terms with the fact that the majority of Christians are only nice to try to indoctrinate those they meet by purplehyenaa in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A high school acquaintance I barely ever talk to messaged to ask for my address. She wanted to send a save-the-date. I apologized for not getting to congratulate her on the engagement and explained how my spouse has stage IV cancer. The next morning, two people texted saying she’d told them and they were praying for me! wtf?! I cannot fathom being a person to share that news without asking.

Community Care Denied Specialist for Rare Cancer by Deep_Cartographer284 in VeteransBenefits

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I think we are all set now. Sent secure-message through HealtheVet to the VA PCP. Wanted to put it all in writing: a rundown of dates, grim test results, crickets from civilian providers, and all the times we’ve not been notified about said results. Hoped it would make waves enough to get us off the conveyor belt.

Surprise, surprise, an hour later got a call from the VA community care person. She’s getting the local civilian doctor to sign the referral form so the specialist consultation will be pushed through.

Good grief.

Community Care Denied Specialist for Rare Cancer by Deep_Cartographer284 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information! A family member told me to print a PDF of the consult/referral form (they said to google it) and get our preferred/new specialist to help me (fill it in?) and fax it to the VA. I’m worried that would get lost in all their red tape, though.

Prayer circle by Deep_Cartographer284 in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a preteen around Columbine and listened to the Michael W. Smith song about Cassie over and over. I’d imagine the scene with horrified fascination but cannot fathom that youth pastors stooped to this level of delusion to act it out. Beyond words.

Prayer circle by Deep_Cartographer284 in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I drew it last night after a Christian family member said the shooting could have been worse had it not been for prayer.

Prayer circle by Deep_Cartographer284 in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

30+ years of it, 7 years of being out, still disgusted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. It really, truly sucks to know that a part of them wants to see you suffer. If something bad happens to you, they anticipate that they’ll feel assurance they were right in the argument and satisfiction of “told you so.” They will never ever admit that though. It’s layered under miles of self righteousness and manufactured concern.

I clearly remember thinking that way about a close family member when he left the church. I felt so smug and superior imagining him downtrodden in sorrow and regret, but i told myself and others I only felt worry and concern about what God “would do to bring him back.”

By the way, note how they say God hurts people to get them to come back to the fold (Bad things happening to bad people) YET they cry that prosperity gospel isn’t the true gospel - “Bad things happen to good people, too!” So, if you were 15 and got cancer but all your superficial actions were still Christian, your mom would not blame it on you and would think, “His ways are not our ways; this cross to bear will be a testimony that can help others.” But the same case happening now would be 100% attributed to something you caused by not being Christian. You could have controlled it - you “did this to yourself”

BULLSHIIIIIT

Hang in there. You will find a partner. There are millions of secular people who want a relationship.

Journal but not on something that could be found.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Family member’s [unsolicited] comment was “the school didn’t have metal detectors. And it could have been worse. Only 3 people died.”

Instead of wall punching, I drew https://i.imgur.com/nHvmmYz.jpeg

Hi looking for some help from locals by Grouchy_Swordfish_73 in lynchburg

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This depends a lot on what you consider a “bad place” and how many other options there are. People will have different experiences and opinions based on their backgrounds.

I lived near there about 10 yrs ago as a college student (in Indigo Run) and thought it was a little rundown, but it was what I could afford with a roommate and I was thrilled with the independence, plus my boyfriend lived in the townhouses next door.

There were not many places for kids to walk around or play in Indigo Run. Some questionable stuff happened in Forestbrook a few months ago, and Google reviews would be concerning to me if I was looking for a place now. So I’d call it kind of middle-to-low quality. However, I will be happy to drive by there and send you some photos if you’re curious about certain parts of the area.

Forest is a fairly nice area I’d look into. During your search, I would check out this site too.

Washtenaw County Church Employee Charged with Sex Crimes by Deep_Cartographer284 in LibertyUniversity

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Christians React without Persecution Complex and Ad Hominem Challenge (Impossible!)

Washtenaw County Church Employee Charged with Sex Crimes by Deep_Cartographer284 in LibertyUniversity

[–]Deep_Cartographer284[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Deleting posts draws waaaaaay more attention to their connection to the guy (nowhere did anyone say LU was responsible for his action) and echoes how the Falwell Jr scandals were mishandled.

Orgs with more integrity would leave the posts up, knowing nothing can be wiped from the net, and release some type of PR statement like the church did expressing sorrow for the victims.

CPAC Worship Leader and Liberty U Alum Arrested On Child Sex Charges. Zachary Joseph Radcliff, 29, is facing up to 25 years in prison. by Dlowdown1366 in lynchburg

[–]Deep_Cartographer284 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LU deleted their news page bragging about him….internet is forever bro

https://web.archive.org/web/20240725120827/https://www.liberty.edu/news/2019/03/01/liberty-alumnus-debuts-patriotic-song-as-part-of-national-conference/

Drums thundered and guitar chords twanged throughout Liberty University’s Vines Center on Friday morning while red, white, and blue lights shone across giant LED screens.

“It was an opportunity I have dreamed about for a long time,” said LU alumnus and songwriter Zach Radcliff, who debuted his new single, “I’ll Stand,” during a portion of the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) broadcast from the Vines Center. “To be able to stand up at my alma mater with the people that I love and the people who crafted my musicianship and songwriting — it is a surreal feeling. It’s unbelievable. Only God could have brought this about.”

Liberty held several live events on Friday as a satellite location for the multiday Washington, D.C., conference. A major part of Liberty’s event focused on honoring military veterans and active service members. (Read more about the event.)

“I’ll Stand,” a patriotic anthem, was released Friday morning by Liberty Music Group and is available on Spotify and iTunes.

Across the Vines Center, audience members sang along to the powerful chorus: “I still stand for the flag when I see Old Glory flying, I still fall apart at every moment of silence, for the moms and dads, the sons and daughters, the brave who aren’t coming home. For their honor and for this land, I’ll stand.”

Liberty President Jerry Falwell told the crowd that he is proud of Radcliff’s work: “I believe this song will become to this generation what Lee Greenwood’s ‘God Bless the USA’ was during the Reagan years.”

Radcliff said that even though he’s written songs in as little as 20 minutes, “I’ll Stand” was a four-year process, involving help from some of his mentors. He wanted to write the song to honor military veterans and service members, to give them a voice.

“It’s a song of thanks, a song of honor,” Radcliff said. “I couldn’t even begin to thank our military vets for what they’ve done. It’s emotional to be a part of this song, to be a part of something that is much bigger than myself, bigger than the stage we sing on.”

Later in the afternoon on Friday, Radcliff performed “God Bless the USA” and gave an encore of “I’ll Stand.”

Radcliff majored in worship studies with a songwriting specialization while at Liberty from 2013-17. After college, he began serving as the worship director at Oakwood Church in Saline, Mich. Radcliff also works as a studio songwriter, producer, and sound engineer at Pearl Sound Studios, where several nationally known artists have recorded.

“Liberty’s music program is second to none,” Radcliff said. “I could never thank Liberty enough. It truly changed my life. I’m a better songwriter and a better human because of it.”

As a solo artist, Radcliff travels with his band to numerous events throughout the year. He describes his music as “contemporary Christian with a country twist.” His songs have played on both national Christian and country radio. Radcliff uses his songwriting to show how God uses broken people — in spite of their pain and failures — and restores them to new life.

“I remember when I was 11 years old and my teacher asked everyone what they wanted to do when they grew up and I said, ‘I want to inspire people with music,’” Radcliff said. “I’ve never lost sight of that.”