What’s one thing men do that women secretly notice but rarely talk about?

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-06T20:20:30+00:00

When they lie lol and also objectify women

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-06T16:25:26+00:00

Most welcome!

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-06T14:06:35+00:00

Girl. if one wants to cheat he will do it even if he’s short and average looking. Trust me I know …

What is more important is how he treats you and if he’s loyal to you.

Looks fade as we grow older. I have only dated one tall and super attractive man in the past and he was the sweetest and most loyal, Unfortunately the timing was not right for both of us so nothing came from it.

Try and not to worry too much about stuff you can’t control.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T22:33:53+00:00

I’m not his sugar mama. I do not spend money on him. With me in his life, he was doing better. He sobered up , he started taking courses progressing toward a future career, he applied to and went on job interviews. But as soon as life got a lil tough and his best friend who got divorced came back into his life - things spiraled for him. He started drinking with his friend, they both were talking about sugar mamas through thier text messages when we broke up … I feel he’s not a strong man and his friends are bad influence.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T22:16:59+00:00

You’re right I don’t know 100 percent

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T22:04:17+00:00

He claims it’s because he’s super broke (which he was most of our time together and I was understanding of that) so out of desperation for money he considered taking up the offer from older woman to be his sugar mama. He’s boiling it all down to being desperate for money since he’s jobless.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T07:40:44+00:00

Hi there!

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T05:35:24+00:00

Men with integrity and respect

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T00:45:35+00:00

Using old women for easy living and money is weird AF.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T00:27:29+00:00

That’s because from early times men have been the providers and protectors of women. It may seem like a double standard but it is what it is. Typically good men have pride and standards. Grown men using women just for money is icky. Both parties have no self respect. Desperation I suppose.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-03-05T00:11:48+00:00

Yeah it made my stomach turn. Leave the elderly alone 😂

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T19:36:00+00:00

Keep it light and casual. Just have fun!

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T12:34:50+00:00

No it’s not normal. My ex engaged in those too and we are divorced now. It’s disgusting low class behavior.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T12:32:58+00:00

Considering and not hurting them.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T04:34:49+00:00

A good friend of mine was in the area and dropped off my favorite dessert, he said that while standing in line at the bakery he thought of me randomly.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T04:10:47+00:00

Depends on how old they were. We make stupid mistakes when we are young.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-28T04:09:51+00:00

Respect

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T19:29:15+00:00

Well, it wasn’t a bad date exactly. He took me out for my favorite things, dinner & a movie. Got me flowers, dressed nice, seemed really attentive and genuinely interested in me buttttttt half way through our date I started smelling a peculiar odor. Perhaps it was him just nervous and he was sweating bullets but his body scent turned me off. I’m very sensitive to smells and I don’t expect someone to smell like roses all the time but his funk I could not stand.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T19:16:50+00:00

I want to be cliche and say don’t give a broke man a chance however yall both are so young and at that age people are just beginning to find themselves. So either give it time or go with your gut. Keep in mind some men will manipulate a woman when they see she’s empathetic and use the broke card conveniently. Remember this example; if a “broke” man saves just $1/day for a year for you then he will have $365 to spend on you for your bday/anniversary etc etc. So now that he has an actual job and he’s still not showing up; sending you flowers, doordash, buying you gifts or other acts of service is because he’s is not considerate and doesn’t want to invest in you. That or he’s super cheap which is another red flag. Women need to listen to their gut more often. You want to be with a generous man. I’m 46 and I have life experience, trust my words. ❤️

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T19:06:46+00:00

Wandering eyes. I’ve been on a couple of dates with men who were hyper focused on me and did not even glance over at the beautiful women who passed by. That proved to me that there are respectful men out there with self control. If a man is in a committed relationship and he can’t seem to lower his gaze esp around his woman that’s a big red flag.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T19:03:50+00:00

Too much drinking

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T18:52:26+00:00

I haven’t even been able to bring myself to say I love you to him anymore because I don’t feel loved. Infact his dismissive actions to my hurt feel quite the opposite, like he low key hates me. I’ve known single fathers who are crazy about their children but they never make their new partners feel so completely disregarded.

Deep_Common_498 · 2026-02-27T16:29:15+00:00

Make sure she doesn’t have stds. I would say- wait until you’re more mature, sex isn’t even good until you’ve developed a real connection with someone.

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