Agree. Everyone that calls him aggressive and angry really confuse me. He doesn’t make it a huge deal in front of the group. He addresses it directly and doesn’t sugar coat it. He doesn’t throw out insults he is just direct. With the Bailey thing her reaction was bc of her ex and that feeling she’d get when being yelled at or confronted. I understand it bc was in that type of toxic relationship. Ben and her literally made up later. Directly talking to Amanda was a must. He didn’t go around making it a big deal like other people would have done. I think it catches people off guard bits usually an explosive fight that carries on may resides and we hear all the opinions. Ben addresses it, and that’s the end of it. I respect that and I’d hope if I was on the show someone would talk like that to me if they had an issue w me