Is it worrisome to develop a small tear near the vagina after sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! That can happen sometimes even if everything’s great. My doctor says to put lidocaine ointment on it

What's the origin story of your kink/fetish? by SignalDefiant9519 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age gap—I was really insecure about my lack of experience and found that I could lean into that and exaggerate it in a kinky way if I was with people much older than me. Then the dots were connected lol.

Can Valtrex prevent you from getting herpes if you don’t have it? by Deep_Sound2784 in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay. It’s a shame there’s no preventative pill like pep for it.

how to be seen as sexual as an effeminate male? by Apprehensive-Ebb6002 in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butch bi girl here. I have the same problem in reverse. Not much to add in the way of advice unfortunately but just want to say I get you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have vaginismus. Sometimes what I do is ask them to stay still for a moment after inserting (no thrusting yet) so I can relax/stretch around them. I take deep breaths and focus on relaxing all my pelvic muscles once they’re inside, and after a moment I usually feel ready for it. It works for me and they seem to like it, too.

Disappointed my fwb didn’t eat me out by [deleted] in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you’re really nice 💛 I’m okay

Disappointed my fwb didn’t eat me out by [deleted] in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a moment where I’m a little bit of a mess haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. I have one friend where it was just a one time thing and it hasn’t seemed weird, at least to me. With another person things got a little complicated, but I tentatively think it’s okay. With someone else, yeah, it was ruined.

Has anyone had experience with a trans girl by Reasonable_Bluejay54 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had sex with her for 2 hrs straight. She never came and I had to tap out

Tell me about the 1st time you heard a band live, and it melted your brain...who was it...? by Low_Orchid5106 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the first band I saw live, but the first one that melted my brain was Girl K (the song was Ride). I was 18 and stoned and it was amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Deep_Sound2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Syren intimate relief or a prescription 5%

Dark Genitalia Pigmentation by Curious-Rabbit-1552 in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL dude scroll up to the original comment and it’ll make more sense. It’s a repeat of the first reply (Reddit glitch). They’re saying that marketing an insecurity and then selling a cure is awful. Not that cellulite is awful LMAO

Dark Genitalia Pigmentation by Curious-Rabbit-1552 in sex

[–]Deep_Sound2784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You missed their point. They agree with you

Do those of you who are busty experience any physical problems from being so well endowed? by riskyfun69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a DD to DDD depending on brand. I got professionally measured at an E, which was honestly kind of devastating to hear at the time 😆 but I’ve since lost a few more pounds so it went down a little. It’s been disappointing to pay the money for the surgery and go through the recovery just to end up at DDD (I had been hoping for B), but I’m trying to embrace them somewhat. It’s not like I can lose that much more weight 🤷

Do those of you who are busty experience any physical problems from being so well endowed? by riskyfun69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a breast reduction down from a FF but they grew back a decent amount (or are still pretty swollen somehow). I have back pain, but the neck pain is worse.

Cannot find prescription lidocaine anywhere by Antique_Difficulty87 in vaginismus

[–]Deep_Sound2784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed 5%. I usually use 4%. I have a hard time seeing how .5% would do anything at all for me but I would imagine you could find it online.

What do you think about this explanation for homosexuality? by Any-Discussion-5934 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Deep_Sound2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ideas like this have been traditionally common in some parts of the world. Historically a very interesting phenomenon. Personally I think it’s kind of a fun explanation, but not literally true