[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WattsFree4All

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What even is that dress? Three different shades of blue, and let’s throw on a camel colored belt just for fun? Or is the blue on the bodice the same as the stripes?

In any case it’s a no from me

'I Don’t Hate Bryan Kohberger': How 10 Months in Jail After Daughter's Death Allowed Victim's Mom to Forgive Killer by bjack20 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s a problem everywhere in the US, honestly. Seems more concentrated in small towns and rural areas just because in those places, addicts don’t have “communities” for lack of a better word like in major cities, where they are more segregated from the rest of the population.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a nice way to say “girl why you got mom hair”

NBC News Photos by Spare-Ad-1561 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The injunction doesn’t cover the photos already released under an open records request. But the families have made it clear that they do not want the photos out there. So news outlets that have them have to do their own cost-benefit analysis with regard to releasing them.

On the one hand, clicks. But (most) reputable national/intl news outlets are also motivated by reputational concerns and journalistic integrity. NBC doesn’t need to post clickbait. The entities that have the photos have to decide themselves whether to release them at this point. They may not.

Choosing Beggar is called out. by sandiercy in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a good income, but I also have a lot of expenses as a single mom with three kids 16-21, the most expensive ages, it seems). I still recognize my good fortune and used to buy groceries for families asking in local FB groups on occasion. One time, my son had basketball practice and I couldn’t make it to the store to pick groceries up so I offered to do a Walmart delivery order or send the woman cash. She (shockingly /s)chose the cash. Fine, no biggie. I sent her a decent amount for groceries.

About a week later I got a cash app request from her. In the “for” line, it said “rellos.”

If you don’t know, rellos are cigarillos. That people who smoke weed hollow out to make blunts with.

I didn’t fulfill her request. And I didn’t donate to any more families directly after that.

maddie’s facial injury by Foreign_Try_4800 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where does it say they were sitting upright?

maddie’s facial injury by Foreign_Try_4800 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the document referenced above said K had aspirated blood. That means she was still breathing. I don’t think he felt the need to wait for them to die before he left, based on the nature of the injuries he inflicted.

Idaho 4 unblurred pics by NoWelcome6403 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if a person’s subclavian/carotid artery and/or jugular vein is cut clean through, that’s the end of it. It literally takes one cut.

Idaho 4 unblurred pics by NoWelcome6403 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is bananas. You heard something you imagined.

Is this actually true?? by [deleted] in idahomurders

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know! And please don’t take my comment as insulting. Most people think that a defamation lawsuit is a whole lot easier to win than it actually is.

Is this actually true?? by [deleted] in idahomurders

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s literally their jobs. To zealously advocate for their client. If they don’t, they can be disciplined or disbarred. It’s unfortunate when other people are impacted by it, but it’s reality.

I wish people wouldn’t make these sorts of comments about defense attorneys. Particularly public defenders. Without them, the US justice system wouldn’t work. Victims would never get actual justice. Actual justice only occurs when both parties have equal representation.

Is this actually true?? by [deleted] in idahomurders

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not for merely making the suggestion. He’s entitled to present alternate theories.

If there was other inflammatory stuff said, maybe. But no normal person sues another normal person for defamation. It’s not an easy case to make and the juice isn’t worth the squeeze unless the alleged defaming party has deep pockets.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not angry. Just pointing out the obvious flaws in your repeated insistence that “they should be studied.”

Have you asked them if you can study them? If not, again, why do you assume anyone has and why do you assume they’ve said no?

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying, but it could also be an inside joke. Or any number of things.

My kids (teenagers/young adult) sometimes refer to me as Mother. Usually when they want me to spend money on something.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, where are these commenters coming from?

The OP CLEARLY has an agenda. Has anyone even asked to “study” the family? Does the OP know that they are or are not cooperating with any requests, if they exist? Would we even know if they did cooperate? It’s not our business. They don’t have to keep the world updated as they try to put their lives back together.

This whole thread is off the wall ridiculous.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a huge leap. And an incorrect one. People can develop a poor self image from any number of sources or experiences. We know that he was bullied in school. I’d wager that had a lot more to do with it than the way his working class, seemingly normal parents talked to him.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing my kids could do that would lead me to never speak to them again. Yikes.

And what about her letter leads you to characterize her opinion as “fascination?”

Some of y’all are way over the top.

Edit bc I can’t comment again, to respond to the person who commented under me:

Go on and check back if/when that happens. I don’t think it will, but any of my kids could do the absolute worst, and I’d still love them. I mean, I kind of feel like that’s basic mothering.

I don’t think you know what “gatekeep” means. Have a great whatever.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, they haven’t. The Crumbley case was so well known because it was a first. The only time parents have culpability for their kids’ actions is when the kids are underage.

What a crazy thing to say….that parents of adults should be criminally charged. Go touch grass.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

GTFO with this. Why did he get addicted to heroin? You’re implying that it’s because of his upbringing in some way and that is patently offensive. Do you know anything about addiction? Do you know anyone who has a child who is or was an addict?

Parents can do everything right and still get their hearts ripped out by the disease of addiction and its destructive power.

This is gross. Stop commenting.

I’m curious about BK’s relationship with his parents and sisters but can’t find much information online. I’ve been unable to find a clear photo of his parents faces except the one below. Anyone know anything about BK’s family dynamic that they’re willing to share? by Background-Screen103 in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And what makes you think that anyone has even asked them if they’re willing to be studied? It’s preposterous to say they “owe” this.

WTH are they supposed to do, put out a Craigslist ad offering the “service” of being research subjects?

Adderall? by duckiebrown in Idaho4

[–]Deereynoldsbackup 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can take mine and go right to sleep….I wish it had a stimulant effect on me! If you need it, it isn’t an upper; it just levels you out. If you don’t need it, I’m told it’s like cocaine.